Bi guys - hot or not?

[Woodpecker]

Over the years my wife and I have evolved to the point where we prefer sex with the opposite gender but can both enjoy it a lot with the same gender. It all depends on the couple or single who joins us. We've had some very hot bi experiences with FFM, MMF and MFMF.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

There is such a division in the two camps, with very little gray area where people say "it's not for me, but if it works for them".

Actually - I am very willing to say that - and actually have said that very thing. What I find around here (and what tends to CAUSE the consternation) is that no one seems willing to say, "straight isn't for me, but if it works for them."

The heterophobia makes me want to hide under a blanket sometimes...

Spoomonkey

PS - I'm okay; you're okay... And "can't we all just get along?"

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

PS - I'm okay; you're okay... And "can't we all just get along?"

God, I wish we could. Taking the middle ground and battling both sides is exhausting. Surrender

Mr. WS

[BiBootie]

I don't have a partner right now, but I think bi men ARE hot. I've never seen two men together except in movies and photos but that's been enough to get me wet. I'd love to see it in person, maybe participate.

Because I'm the "elusive bi fem" (unpartnered), I think it would be a while before that happened. I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable with two guys I didn't know or didn't know very well.

[all4fun]

Hubby and I are just now talking about the whole bi male experience and the more we talk and the more we see, I am totally turned on about the idea. We are looking for our first experience. Hopefully soon.

[oldrrob]

(Insert embarrassed emoticom here) I can't seem to get those things to work.

I posted this reply on a different thread thinking I was on this thread. Uh, don't know for sure how I did that, but here it is again.
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Ok, here goes. I was one of those "never in a million years," until a fairly recent encounter with a couple I had known for some time. She wanted to see her husband and I do oral on each other. We did. She loved it, a lot. Turns out we did too. Partly for what it was and partly because of her enthusiastic enjoyment.

I don't feel any different about me or them. It was simply another one of those very memorable things that can happen in this lifestyle.

Rob

[Dooode]

Originally Posted by BiBootie

I don't have a partner right now, but I think bi men ARE hot. I've never seen two men together except in movies and photos but that's been enough to get me wet. I'd love to see it in person, maybe participate.

Crap. You're in North Carolina.

Oh well. HAD to check!

[mickey&minnie]

My goodness, this was a long thread to read. In answer to the question...I do not find bi males hot. Let me rephrase that, I do not find 2 males doing it to each other hot. I have seen very hot looking bi males and even gay males, but I am not interested in seeing them do each other. It has nothing to do with respect or any other issue other than it just doesn't turn me on. Everyone has their own opinion. I don't think less of anyone who does that or who likes that. If they enjoy it who cares? What I think is weird is that I like watching porn with 2 females and I am bi curious, (of course Mr. Mouse likes this fact). If we see a profile that has a bi/bi curious male, we do not contact or say No Thank You. Its just a personal preference. We have bi and gay friends, but its just not for us
Minnie