Bi guys - hot or not?

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by louieone

So after this very lengthy introduction, I'm wondering how many couples like us are out there? How women feel about men doing each other and how many guys have done bi or are curious, and just general reactions to what I've written. There seems to be no problem with the girls getting it on, and I'm wondering if there really is no problem with the boys getting it on also?

First, I wanted to say your story was very open and touching. You're so honest!

Answer: I'm a bi female. I think of myself more as a man-crazy heterosexual who likes to play with girls once in a while. facelick My husband is uber-straight. (He's comfortable & accepting of gay & bi people, though.) We enjoy MFMF, MFFM, FMF, FFM, and MFM. He's 100% happy with all of that, but would not go at all for MMF. If he would, I would!

The idea of just oral or handjobs between bi men, especially masculine types like my hubby, is a turn-on. I fantasize about it, but apparently it will have to stay in my fantasy life!

[kidcleveland]

i think a lot of guys think about it but think most women dont like it had a few preteen plays but never with a woman there would love to find that couple to talk about it with but then again how do you bring it up

[GerdOEvert]

I only read the first post, where the writer mentioned that he had a homosexual relationship at age 12 & 13.

I had the same experience. The two of us, would go look at a batch of girlie calendars in this Advertising Exec's storage bins. He had them custom made in his garage.

And then we would go and play with each other. We would suck, butt fuck, anything at all. But neither of us ever had a climax.

But that kind of activity has it's costs. You begin to think you are gay, and it took me more than twenty years and five years of analysis to understand that this type of sexual activity was not uncommon for boys that age.

It was not until I went to New York City in my mid thirties and tried a gay baths, that I decided once and for all that I wan heterosexual, and that any male contact was rare and incidental.

For what it is worth, I think the psychiatric conclusion is that we are all bi sexual, more or less.

But for me, those experiments at age 12 - 13 were very damaging, and I wish I had not had them.

Otto

[neoparadigm]

not hot..
women from day one are the goddess models and were created to be
the center of attention.. that is why when two women are in the room
sexually there is often drama..

Two guys is just missing the point.. there is nothing they can do that
a woman can't do.. it's just female rejection issue trying to find a home..

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by neoparadigm

not hot..
women from day one are the goddess models and were created to be
the center of attention.. that is why when two women are in the room
sexually there is often drama..

Two guys is just missing the point.. there is nothing they can do that
a woman can't do.. it's just female rejection issue trying to find a home..

And two women together isn't missing the point, then? Is there nothing they can do that a man can't do? I'm not really catching what you're trying to say here. From what I read it is "bi-women are hot, but bi-men is just missing the point".

Mr. WS

[Sweet_Candy]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

And two women together isn't missing the point, then? Is there nothing they can do that a man can't do? I'm not really catching what you're trying to say here. From what I read it is "bi-women are hot, but bi-men is just missing the point".

Mr. WS

These are our thoughts as well; there is no difference between two men playing with each other than two women doing the same. It’s always interesting to hear how others differentiate the two. They are the same act. Neither does anything for us but we call it as we see it and if it quacks like a duck it must be a duck!

[Amanda69]

I (female) find it very hot watching two bi males...abso...lutely.

[Bret4u2]

Originally Posted by Bret4u2

Put me down for hot!
I was introduced to bisex by an older male cousin when in early teens. He was showing me his porn stash and we both got hard. One thing led to another and we started to suck each other. When I came in his mouth, wow. We continued for a couple of years plus I was pleasured a couple of times at a movie theater by several grown men.
Then I discovered women and didnt look back. That is until my wife lost interest in sex a few years ago after a health problem. I had never forgotten my interest but never pursued any mm activity until I discovered porn on the internet. Suddenly my interest in bisex was evident as I read and got off on porn sites and bisexual stories.
This continued until I met several other married guys with similar interest. I rediscovered how much I enjoyed both sucking and being sucked by another guy. I am not interested in anything but oral. I guess my biggest fantasy now is getting into a mmf with a couple where I can enjoy oral sex with both the male and female and where the female is turned on by watching the guys do oral on each other.

I don't regret my sexual exploration at age 13. It taught me that I could enjoy sex with anyone, reguardless of their gender. My experience continued with several other boys and several older men for several years with oral sex. However when I was about 17, I was introduced to oral sex with a married woman. From then on I knew I preferred eating pussy. I just put it out of my mind and although I had many chances of enjoying sex with other guys including one chance at a mmf with a stripper my army buddy and I picked up in Lawton, Okla. She wanted both of us at the same time to fuck her but I just didn't feel comfortable at the time. My buddy wanted me to try it and I always suspected he was bi. My regret now is I didn't go for it.
Having oral sex with a couple now is my greatest fantasy and love to see others either enjoy it or want to. I have never been attracted to men and continued to be attracted to women but I would gladly suck a nice cut cock to completion or ever better, be licking a wet clit as a cock is plunging in and out of my mouth and a womans pussy. Yum! Anyone in Ga?

[NakedInSeattle]

Jumping back in here on this. Here's the way we feel about the bi issue. And pardon the blunt talk. We (guy speaking) expect our gal to suck cock and we think that seeing her eat another gal is about the hottest thing ever. Why shouldn't the gal feel that seeing her guy with another guy is hot. Of course she does. Mine does.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Sweet_Candy

These are our thoughts as well; there is no difference between two men playing with each other than two women doing the same. It’s always interesting to hear how others differentiate the two. They are the same act. Neither does anything for us but we call it as we see it and if it quacks like a duck it must be a duck!

I've been too bored at work lately too much time to post

Anyways when I look at sex from a biological standpoint, I think female bisexuality IS different than male bisexuality. Motivations are different, and while the research is controversial (in large part because the gay community doesn't like it) there is some proof that while most female bisexuals STAY bisexual, most male bisexuals will eventually migrate to hetro or homosexual over time.

To me this makes sense from an evolutionary biology stand point, and while its PC to say 'its the same thing' its also PC to say that men and women can do everything equally well which is also false.

[2jersey]

Originally Posted by Chicup

I've been too bored at work lately too much time to post

Anyways when I look at sex from a biological standpoint, I think female bisexuality IS different than male bisexuality. Motivations are different, and while the research is controversial (in large part because the gay community doesn't like it) there is some proof that while most female bisexuals STAY bisexual, most male bisexuals will eventually migrate to hetro or homosexual over time.

To me this makes sense from an evolutionary biology stand point, and while its PC to say 'its the same thing' its also PC to say that men and women can do everything equally well which is also false.

Chicup, We hope you stay bored at work!

Several studies have shown that lesbians have heterosexual relations far more often than gay men do. Homesexuality is far more prevalent in men and bisexuality is much more common in women - the studies are glaringly consistent on this fact. To use the analogy of a television remote control - men are programmed with an on/off button, whereas women have volume controls.

[CandPinSA]

Originally Posted by 2jersey

Chicup, We hope you stay bored at work!

Several studies have shown that lesbians have heterosexual relations far more often than gay men do. Homesexuality is far more prevalent in men and bisexuality is much more common in women - the studies are glaringly consistent on this fact. To use the analogy of a television remote control - men are programmed with an on/off button, whereas women have volume controls.

where is my wifes volume control????? j/k

Mr. C

[2jersey]

Originally Posted by CandPinSA

where is my wifes volume control????? j/k

Mr. C

Make sure you didn't accidentally press 'mute'.

[Edison Carter]

Susan here--I know this is hypocritical because in a group scene I can be all over another girl like sand at the beach, I just can't watch two men go at it and if I saw them playing rump ranger (not that there's anything wrong with that) I'd just have to seal myself into a rocket and launch myself. Then again, maybe I just don;t want the competition

[JTcamp05]

Thanks for the story! Never been in the bi situation myself (mm), but sometimes feel while reading post on here, people who claim to be "swingers" set so many rules, how can one enjoy sex if you need a book to keep track of all the rules........The last couple we played with before anything started asked "so you guys have any ground rules"...... I'm very impressed they asked, it was the polite and respectful thing to do, but we both said....no not really...were both prety smart adults we know what were comfortable with, trust each other to do what they are comfortable with. We did state our preference to use condoms, but hey thats all we could come up with for "rules"..... Next we hear they have rules...no kissing, no male on male (like we asked for that??), she wants just penetration, no oral, (unless its from a F), the list goes on and on...... by the end I'm like....did you take notes honey? Great they know what they want, I'm sorry but what happened to the idea of being open minded, if you truly have a relationship with trust and you BOTH wish to explore sexualy (defination of a "swinger")....what the problem?

In all the times we have had an experience we have never felt preassured to do anything we didn't want to do. If were not comfortable we don't do it. Were all adults do we need all the lables and rules? So what not if another man makes it good for you, and hes ok with it.....I say enjoy!