Couples with bi men

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by gsu22

Well, we all can't jump in head first and just go for it

Hmmm...maybe you ought to reconsider going downtown and paying for a blowjob from a pro? Because "jumping in headfirst and going for it" is exactly how every one I'VE ever had was done. (I think that's why they call it "giving head." If you jumped in ass-first, they'd call it "giving ass" and it would be a totally different experience, IMHO)

Originally Posted by gsu22

I don't lack the balls to do anything...

Sorry for that comment. I tried to edit it out, but I was too late. Of course you "have balls." Giving another man a blow job wouldn't be "bi-sex" if you didn't. My bad...

Originally Posted by gsu22

forcing something can sometimes kill the experience

I wasn't suggesting that anybody "force" you, although you DO seem to need a little more "encouragement" to get over your sexual hang-ups than most gay guys.

Originally Posted by gsu22

I'm not going to suck any dick I see in a "leather bar

I wasn't suggesting that you suck "any" dick. I was suggesting that you suck only the ones you find attractive, the same as you would if the guy had a girlfriend standing on the other side of the bathroom stall. Sorry if I didn't make myself clear on that...

Originally Posted by gsu22

I don't think getting a girlfriend is really going to help...being a single male up until this point has worked well for me...

Funny, that's not the impression I got from reading your original post.

Man, I know it's tough out there. I'm just trying to help, that's all.....

[Chasinpink]

Then there's the issue of "what's bi"? For me, I like cocks and find them fascinating, but I don't think of men as sex objects,

There's a simple solution - pre-op TS. One that is truly feminine, not a male cross dresser. Then you have a woman's body and a cock.

[DBStPete]

Originally Posted by Chasinpink

There's a simple solution - pre-op TS. One that is truly feminine, not a male cross dresser. Then you have a woman's body and a cock.

I don't think so. I can't even stand piercings or silicone. Body mutilation is not my thing.

I think we've seen in this thread why a number of us somewhat-bi guys don't talk about it or put it in our profiles.

Mr. DBStPete

[Curiously]

This is a very interesting subject. I do have a question about something that has not been covered yet. What if you have a Bi- husband and the wife is not totaly "into it" What does she do??

Just curious

[mf69_98]

Now when my wife & I started swining a few years ago, I read that is you only did oral, but not anal, you said you were bi-curious. Bi meant that you would do anal as well. Now I see a new twist - if you have done MM action & enjoy it, you're bi (I wear a bi pride bracelet, so anyone who knows what it is, knows it). My wife has played with a few women, but won't do oral on them, but has done just about everything else (receiving oral as well), and enjoyed it to the point of having orgasms, but doesn't consider herself bi or bi-curious. If we play with another couple, we don't care if there is no bi action (if there is, it's icing on the cake), but if a single guy or gal joins us for a 3some, we basically expect bi action, especially if it's a guy joining us. She has a lover now that I share a lot with her. We do oral on each other & it drives my wife wild to watch us. She's even admitted that she's picked up some oral tricks from watching me with other guys.

We have run into guys who say there're open to bi action & then back off when I try to initiate it. Also, since she's a blood donar, we can't play with any guys who have done MM anal and have caught a couple of guys who have lied about not having done it (I have read messages from them in yahoo groups under another screen name, but same pic on their profile), so I check out those groups to see if they're honest about it.

What we really would prefer is to have a small group of playmates that we all just play together so we know there's no disease or anything else in the group, but haven't gotten anywhere close to that yet.