Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet?

SteveInAZ · 08-02-2004, 03:58 PM

I've been posting a few messages here and joined in the last week or so - I have to tell you I LOVE it here - lot o' nice people and tons of initerest in my favorite subject 'FOOD' (oh, wait this isn't foodnetwork.com is it?...) I mean 'SEX', wonderful, powerful erotic sex!!

I have a a few interactions though that seem to indicate that male bi-sex is far from accepted / normal. I see many, many bi-female, but only a few bi-men sharing that they like a nice hard one now and then (or more fequently for some).

So I thought I'd offer a poll question and see what reality is out there...

HotCoupleGnS · 08-02-2004, 04:08 PM

M/M play does not turn me on in any way. It doesn't for hubby either. But we don't care what other people do. We have no problem with other people & what they do when they play. Neither one of us are homophobic. Just whatever tickles your pickle. (or doesn't!

)

**good times** · 08-02-2004, 05:38 PM

SteveInAZ,

I think this would be a pretty good poll except that I don't know how many people will vote knowing that everyone else can see how they voted. This is one of those subjects that usually requires anonimity to get good results, in my opinion. I think it would have been better as a non public poll. Maybe not though, we'll have to see how it turns out.

SteveInAZ · 08-02-2004, 06:08 PM

Ah... let me see if I can reset it...

Dave_kat · 08-02-2004, 07:58 PM

Kat here, now that you mention it I have only met one bi-male swinger in my years out and about, and while my opinion may not count since I'm Bi, David however is straight but not homophobic. Our view is pretty much whoever or whatever floats your boat as long as everyone involved consents.

Kat

~If I were any more open minded my brains would fall out!~

Spoomonkey · 08-02-2004, 08:34 PM

I didn't vote... Not enough options...

Mine would have been somewhere between the last two choices. I am not bi, but do not have a problem with anyone who is as long as they respect my boundaries (which has never been a problem).

I don't think penises are particularly "pretty" but I wouldn't say that men who are bi are sdimply "gay". I have more respect for a person's private choices than that.

So - my vote really wouldn't have fit...

So - I abstained...

And I have a serious case of voter "blue ball"...

I need a cold shower...

Spoomonkey

lovefest04 · 08-02-2004, 08:55 PM

Hi everyone,

Nice to see so many who are open to whatever people are into. I think the key here and in all of swinging is to communicate. If everyone is in to it, then go for it. If not make changes, but don't quit the pursuit of fun.

I voted yes, but the reality is:

My wife is into male/male action. It makes her VERY hot

I am happy to oblige her if it makes everyone hot and isn't a problem for others. So I guess I just don't have as many boundaries. I really try to please in our playing.

If our partners are not into it, then it doesn't happen regardless of whether my wife wants it.

S

rjrjr · 08-02-2004, 09:15 PM

Am I the only female that is aroused by MM play?

I don't think full penetration would do much for me, but MM touching and oral is very arousing to me! It's one of those deep dark fantasies that I have that only my DH knows about LOL

jcbicouple · 08-02-2004, 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rjrjr

Am I the only female that is aroused by MM play?

I (Mrs. JC) am very aroused by M/M play. Of course, so is Mr. JC. LOL

Miss_Piggy · 08-02-2004, 10:41 PM

rjrj, you are not alone

Dave_kat · 08-03-2004, 04:39 AM

rjrjr you are most definetly not alone, the few times I have gotten to watch M/M interaction (obviously not Dave) I was so worked up I thought my filling were going to melt out of my teeth. LOL

Kat
~Gotta love having gay male friends~

IndyGirl2004 · 08-03-2004, 08:00 AM

Haven't seen much M/M interaction with the exception of movies, but it really turns me on. My hubby is straight, but he doesn't have a problem with M/M sex as long as it doesn't involve him.

It's interesting to me that so many men and women are into F/F sex or FMF sex, but not as many who are into the M/M or MFM thing where the men interact. Not a criticism, just my observation.

Oh well, YES to the M/M thing.

CB_n_Red · 08-03-2004, 11:52 AM

The MM bit does nothing for either of us, just as FF does nothing for Red (though it looks pretty hot to me when others are at it!). Hard to avoid touching in a pile of bodies and that doesn't bother either of us, but that's as far as it goes.

CB

HotCoupleGnS · 08-03-2004, 11:59 AM

OK, display of ignornace here! What is a DH? The first thing that comes to mind is a designated hitted, but that can't be it!

(That comes from playing sports!) Everytime I read a post where that is, that is what I think of. I am tired of thiking that b/c it doesn't seem right!

So, someone tell me what it means! Thanks!

P.S. Don't laugh too hard!

Brit_Pair · 08-03-2004, 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Mine would have been somewhere between the last two choices. I am not bi, but do not have a problem with anyone who is as long as they respect my boundaries (which has never been a problem).

Dito

(DH = devoted husband ... I think)

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Yes - I enjoy other men and am pretty open about it	4	15.38%
Yes - I enjoy other men but don't want to be seen as gay; I hide it	5	19.23%
Maybe - I might enjoy other men in sex; still curious and watch	9	34.62%
No - hard dicks only belong in women, but they look nice	3	11.54%
No - Men who suck dicks are alway gay and I'm not	5	19.23%
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08-02-2004, 03:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
SteveInAZ Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 16 Location: N. Phx AZ Status: Divorced, single Bi-Male Swing Lifestyle Name:4funbiguy	Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? I've been posting a few messages here and joined in the last week or so - I have to tell you I LOVE it here - lot o' nice people and tons of initerest in my favorite subject 'FOOD' (oh, wait this isn't foodnetwork.com is it?...) I mean 'SEX', wonderful, powerful erotic sex!! I have a a few interactions though that seem to indicate that male bi-sex is far from accepted / normal. I see many, many bi-female, but only a few bi-men sharing that they like a nice hard one now and then (or more fequently for some). So I thought I'd offer a poll question and see what reality is out there...
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08-02-2004, 04:08 PM	#2 (permalink)
HotCoupleGnS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 967 Location: Tulsa, OK Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HotCoupleGnS	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? M/M play does not turn me on in any way. It doesn't for hubby either. But we don't care what other people do. We have no problem with other people & what they do when they play. Neither one of us are homophobic. Just whatever tickles your pickle. (or doesn't! )

08-02-2004, 05:38 PM	#3 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? SteveInAZ, I think this would be a pretty good poll except that I don't know how many people will vote knowing that everyone else can see how they voted. This is one of those subjects that usually requires anonimity to get good results, in my opinion. I think it would have been better as a non public poll. Maybe not though, we'll have to see how it turns out.
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08-02-2004, 06:08 PM	#4 (permalink)
SteveInAZ Active Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 16 Location: N. Phx AZ Status: Divorced, single Bi-Male Swing Lifestyle Name:4funbiguy	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? Ah... let me see if I can reset it...
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08-02-2004, 07:58 PM	#5 (permalink)
Dave_kat Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 291 Location: Savannah, Ga Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Dave_kat	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? Kat here, now that you mention it I have only met one bi-male swinger in my years out and about, and while my opinion may not count since I'm Bi, David however is straight but not homophobic. Our view is pretty much whoever or whatever floats your boat as long as everyone involved consents. Kat ~If I were any more open minded my brains would fall out!~
	__________________ Reality is based on perception, therefore everyone has their own reality.

08-02-2004, 08:34 PM	#6 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? I didn't vote... Not enough options... Mine would have been somewhere between the last two choices. I am not bi, but do not have a problem with anyone who is as long as they respect my boundaries (which has never been a problem). I don't think penises are particularly "pretty" but I wouldn't say that men who are bi are sdimply "gay". I have more respect for a person's private choices than that. So - my vote really wouldn't have fit... So - I abstained... And I have a serious case of voter "blue ball"... I need a cold shower... Spoomonkey
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08-02-2004, 08:55 PM	#7 (permalink)
lovefest04 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 183 Location: Northern California	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? Hi everyone, Nice to see so many who are open to whatever people are into. I think the key here and in all of swinging is to communicate. If everyone is in to it, then go for it. If not make changes, but don't quit the pursuit of fun. I voted yes, but the reality is: My wife is into male/male action. It makes her VERY hot I am happy to oblige her if it makes everyone hot and isn't a problem for others. So I guess I just don't have as many boundaries. I really try to please in our playing. If our partners are not into it, then it doesn't happen regardless of whether my wife wants it. S

08-02-2004, 09:15 PM	#8 (permalink)
rjrjr Registered Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 9 Location: Dearborn, MI	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? Am I the only female that is aroused by MM play? I don't think full penetration would do much for me, but MM touching and oral is very arousing to me! It's one of those deep dark fantasies that I have that only my DH knows about LOL

08-02-2004, 10:41 PM	#10 (permalink)
Miss_Piggy mildly abnormal Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 1,437 Location: Sometimes Canada Status: I'm with Kermit	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? rjrj, you are not alone
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08-03-2004, 04:39 AM	#11 (permalink)
Dave_kat Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 291 Location: Savannah, Ga Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Dave_kat	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? rjrjr you are most definetly not alone, the few times I have gotten to watch M/M interaction (obviously not Dave) I was so worked up I thought my filling were going to melt out of my teeth. LOL Kat ~Gotta love having gay male friends~
	__________________ Reality is based on perception, therefore everyone has their own reality.

08-03-2004, 08:00 AM	#12 (permalink)
IndyGirl2004 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 83 Location: Indianapolis Status: couple; female (bicurious), male (straight)	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? Haven't seen much M/M interaction with the exception of movies, but it really turns me on. My hubby is straight, but he doesn't have a problem with M/M sex as long as it doesn't involve him. It's interesting to me that so many men and women are into F/F sex or FMF sex, but not as many who are into the M/M or MFM thing where the men interact. Not a criticism, just my observation. Oh well, YES to the M/M thing.

08-03-2004, 11:52 AM	#13 (permalink)
CB_n_Red Life's too short not to.. Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 616 Location: East Yorkshire, UK Status: Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:CB_n_Red	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? The MM bit does nothing for either of us, just as FF does nothing for Red (though it looks pretty hot to me when others are at it!). Hard to avoid touching in a pile of bodies and that doesn't bother either of us, but that's as far as it goes. CB
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08-03-2004, 11:59 AM	#14 (permalink)
HotCoupleGnS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 967 Location: Tulsa, OK Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:HotCoupleGnS	Re: Bi-Males in Swinging - In the Closet? OK, display of ignornace here! What is a DH? The first thing that comes to mind is a designated hitted, but that can't be it! (That comes from playing sports!) Everytime I read a post where that is, that is what I think of. I am tired of thiking that b/c it doesn't seem right! So, someone tell me what it means! Thanks! P.S. Don't laugh too hard!

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