Trouble getting things started

couplegone2wild · 03-28-2004, 10:32 PM

Ok, here's the problem. We do fine until its time to well start the fun. We cant get in synce when we feel the right time is to start a move to the bedroom (couch is not fun friendly).
I guess its more my problem then for Mr. I want to be REALLY sure the other(s) is/are in to it and ready.
What kind of signels should we give and what kind should i look for?

J

Or should i be blunt and say well I'm off to the bedroom now, hope to see you there?

**TNT** · 03-29-2004, 09:58 AM

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Originally posted by couplegone2wild
Or should i be blunt and say well I'm off to the bedroom now, hope to see you there?

Well, that approach has worked for us very well...I get very impatient at times when I'm wanting to play, so being blunt has always gotten me what I wanted.

Don't discount the couch as a starting place as well...like you I always thought of it as very uncomfortable. That was up until this past weekend when I was shown differently, lol...it made a very good starting place for the evenings activities.

Teresa

03-29-2004, 12:08 PM

Since everyone is there for the same reason I say just bring it up.

Chances are everyone else is thinking the same thing.

Or go into the bedroom and come back out into the livingroom naked. If that doesnt get the point across nothing will.

Brit_Pair · 03-29-2004, 12:17 PM

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Originally posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty
Or go into the bedroom and come back out into the livingroom naked. If that doesnt get the point across nothing will.

I think even **we** would get the message at that point!

Botcpl · 03-29-2004, 07:34 PM

Message?!

All I see is a naked woman!

03-29-2004, 07:53 PM

You could always do what the Mr. did last night and say 'so.....are we all going to get (naked)in the hottub or what?

He did. So we did. The rest is history.

hmr · 03-30-2004, 02:08 PM

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Originally posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty
Since everyone is there for the same reason I say just bring it up.

Chances are everyone else is thinking the same thing.

You could say something like ... 'Why are we all sitting here with our clothes on?.... Are we going to just talk all night, or what?'

Like TNT said, don't discount the sofa as a starting place. Sometimes it is a great place to break the ice!

mrs hmr

**good times** · 03-30-2004, 04:19 PM

I sometimes say something like,

I am now going to get naked and start some sexual exploration for your viewing pleasure, Audience participation is appreciated.

**TNT** · 03-30-2004, 07:43 PM

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Originally posted by good times
I sometimes say something like,

I am now going to get naked and start some sexual exploration for your viewing pleasure, Audience participation is appreciated.

I LOVE THAT! Can I please use it ?

Teresa

Brit_Pair · 03-30-2004, 08:50 PM

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Originally posted by good times
I sometimes say something like,

I am now going to get naked and start some sexual exploration for your viewing pleasure, Audience participation is appreciated.

Neat!

couplegone2wild · 03-30-2004, 08:51 PM

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Originally posted by good times
I sometimes say something like,

I am now going to get naked and start some sexual exploration for your viewing pleasure, Audience participation is appreciated.

I love that!!!

I will def. remember that. Thanks

J

Brit_Pair · 03-30-2004, 08:51 PM

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Originally posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty
You could always do what the Mr. did last night and say 'so.....are we all going to get (naked)in the hottub or what?

Hey! Stop rubbing it in for those of us without hottubs!

03-30-2004, 09:24 PM

It wasn't even our hottub-it was THEIRS!!!!

03-31-2004, 01:32 AM

That is what we were all there for( to swing) but no one would bring it up.

So I figured What the hell, and broke the ice.

And that definately did it!!

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03-28-2004, 10:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
couplegone2wild Active Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 19 Location: St. Louis Status: Couple	Trouble getting things started Ok, here's the problem. We do fine until its time to well start the fun. We cant get in synce when we feel the right time is to start a move to the bedroom (couch is not fun friendly). I guess its more my problem then for Mr. I want to be REALLY sure the other(s) is/are in to it and ready. What kind of signels should we give and what kind should i look for? J Or should i be blunt and say well I'm off to the bedroom now, hope to see you there?

03-29-2004, 12:08 PM	#3 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mr here Since everyone is there for the same reason I say just bring it up. Chances are everyone else is thinking the same thing. Or go into the bedroom and come back out into the livingroom naked. If that doesnt get the point across nothing will.

03-29-2004, 07:34 PM	#5 (permalink)
Botcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 238 Location: 34 N 11.120 118 W 17.179 Status: Couple SLS Name:Botcpl	Message?! All I see is a naked woman! __________________ Bot = Boat It's always better on the water.

03-29-2004, 07:53 PM	#6 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mrs here- You could always do what the Mr. did last night and say 'so.....are we all going to get (naked)in the hottub or what? He did. So we did. The rest is history.

03-30-2004, 04:19 PM	#8 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,420 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	I sometimes say something like, I am now going to get naked and start some sexual exploration for your viewing pleasure, Audience participation is appreciated. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

03-30-2004, 09:24 PM	#13 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mrs here- It wasn't even our hottub-it was THEIRS!!!!

03-31-2004, 01:32 AM	#14 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mr here That is what we were all there for( to swing) but no one would bring it up. So I figured What the hell, and broke the ice. And that definately did it!!

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