How to initiate a MFM threesome?

Chris · 08-08-2003, 05:30 PM

Hey there,

Anyone have any good creative suggestions on how to initiate a threesome once all arrives at the location? Should the woman or should the two guys initiate it?

Last night my wife and I had a threesome with another guy, and she laid on the bed and we split parts of her body. He took the lower half and I took the upper half to get the ball rolling. It turned out to be a very hot threesome, but I was a little disappointed with my lack of creativeness in getting the ball rolling. Yes, new to the threesome scene

Thanks in advance for any helpful suggestions or sharing of experiences in the m/m/f threesome scene.

nikkilynn74 · 08-08-2003, 06:03 PM

I think it really depends on the people. I am kinda shy when it comes to making the first "move" so to say. I would say what you did was great! Made her feel like the queen she is

Nikki

Vjklander · 08-09-2003, 12:03 AM

that works, or get a pair of sexy dice. they break the ice and get things rolling quickly
J

WildFlower · 08-09-2003, 03:32 AM

Maybe use this senario I have before. Husband comes over and rubs on me and says doesn't she have lovely breast and then ask the guy to come over and help undress me so they can see them. Fondling starts and things take off from there.

NYC_Cpl4Play · 09-19-2003, 09:53 AM

What always works is I let him take pictures of her and were off.....

Handyman69 · 09-19-2003, 10:31 AM

The best way I feel is let the woman Start things. Give her a chance to fondle and kiss the both of you two. Let her undress the both of you and get worked up.....get her juices flowing.
John

EricSacto2 · 09-19-2003, 11:02 PM

The other male in our threesome is a bit hesitant about starting off for fear of getting me jealous. Personally, I don't bother me. In fact, I would love to walk in on them but I digress...

Here are a couple of ways to kick off a threesome...

* Hop in a hot tub naked. He and my wife got in first while I was gathering the towels. When I got in, she was sitting on his lap, facing him. When I reached under her butt to massage her pussy, I already found out that it was fill.

* A strip tease. My wife dressed up in a french maid outfit and did a strip tease to some sexy tunes. She then proceeded to give each of us a lap dance and more...

* A massage. He would massage my wife while both were naked and go from there.

Bedmates · 09-26-2003, 11:14 PM

Our first threesome started like this:

We (wife and I) talked about it. Everything. What she wanted, what she didn't want. What she wanted from me, etc.

We met as a restaurant and had apps and drinks.

She gave me the sign to ask the guy home with us. I didn't move quickly enough I guess because she asked him!

At home, I served drinks. The three of us sat on the couch (boy-girl-boy). I turned on some music. We sat. We sipped. Finally, I reached over, grabbed his hand, and placed it on her thigh. I placed my hand on her other thigh and started to caress. He followed my lead.

For the rest, you'll have to wait until I write it up and post it!

gsu22 · 09-27-2003, 01:24 AM

I really like the french maid outfit and strip tease that was mentioned! That sounds incredibly hotttttfacelick

2New2it · 10-01-2003, 08:11 AM

The last threesome we had with a female developed an awkward moment when the time came to retreat to the bedroom. I announced that first I wanted to take a shower and invited our guest to join in. It was sort of a co-ed locker room situation and a half-step to final intimacy.

We have a large shower, which we designed to accomodate three or four people, so that was not a problem and scrubbing someone's back does a great job of breaking the ice. It also assures that everyone is as fresh as can be. By the time we toweled each other dry, we were very comfortable touching and having strangers within our "private spaces".

When she left, she commented how the pre-play shower worked out so well and made her feel comfortable.

caberet3 · 10-01-2003, 08:09 PM

You might try this........it worked for us with an introverted male.
Put on a cd of some nice, slow, sexy music and take turns dancing with her. During each song, each of the two on the dance floor removes one article of clothing before the next male takes the floor. Of course, unless she is into the layered look, she'll be bare before you guys, but there's nothing wrong with dancing with a naked lady, right?
And after all, you are still removing your clothes, so you will all soon be nude. Then you might try breaking out some quarters. She flips hers, and if it lands on heads, the she gets on her knees, if it lands on tails, she assumes "doggie"position. The guys flip............to see who matches her flip and then does either heads or tails for three minutes. then you flip again. If both guys match hers, the jut flip again! After a few coooin flips, you should be ready for the game of "tens."
The winner of the flip mounts her and gives her ten strokes.
The other guy then mounts her and gives her twenty.
....then thirty..............then forty..........and so forth taking turns until one of them 'cums' (something she has probably done several times since the first ten strokes). The last guy to come is declared the winner and he wins 'sloppy seconds' or whatever else you might come up with! Anyway, have fun and write it up for the rest of us to read about.

Tellya Later · 10-03-2003, 02:22 PM

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Originally posted by WildFlower
Maybe use this senario I have before. Husband comes over and rubs on me and says doesn't she have lovely breast and then ask the guy to come over and help undress me so they can see them. Fondling starts and things take off from there.

I've started a 3some witha couple this exact way..

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08-08-2003, 05:30 PM	#1 (permalink)
Chris Active Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15 Location: Nashville Status: Couple	How to initiate a MFM threesome? Hey there, Anyone have any good creative suggestions on how to initiate a threesome once all arrives at the location? Should the woman or should the two guys initiate it? Last night my wife and I had a threesome with another guy, and she laid on the bed and we split parts of her body. He took the lower half and I took the upper half to get the ball rolling. It turned out to be a very hot threesome, but I was a little disappointed with my lack of creativeness in getting the ball rolling. Yes, new to the threesome scene Thanks in advance for any helpful suggestions or sharing of experiences in the m/m/f threesome scene.

08-09-2003, 03:32 AM	#4 (permalink)
WildFlower Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 106 Location: Indiana Status: Couple	Maybe use this senario I have before. Husband comes over and rubs on me and says doesn't she have lovely breast and then ask the guy to come over and help undress me so they can see them. Fondling starts and things take off from there. __________________ Living Life to the Fullest

09-26-2003, 11:14 PM	#8 (permalink)
Bedmates Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 40 Location: Baltimore, MD Status: Couple	Our first threesome started like this: We (wife and I) talked about it. Everything. What she wanted, what she didn't want. What she wanted from me, etc. We met as a restaurant and had apps and drinks. She gave me the sign to ask the guy home with us. I didn't move quickly enough I guess because she asked him! At home, I served drinks. The three of us sat on the couch (boy-girl-boy). I turned on some music. We sat. We sipped. Finally, I reached over, grabbed his hand, and placed it on her thigh. I placed my hand on her other thigh and started to caress. He followed my lead. For the rest, you'll have to wait until I write it up and post it! __________________ Bedmates

10-01-2003, 08:09 PM	#11 (permalink)
caberet3 Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 17 Location: Ohio Status: couple	You might try this........it worked for us with an introverted male. Put on a cd of some nice, slow, sexy music and take turns dancing with her. During each song, each of the two on the dance floor removes one article of clothing before the next male takes the floor. Of course, unless she is into the layered look, she'll be bare before you guys, but there's nothing wrong with dancing with a naked lady, right? And after all, you are still removing your clothes, so you will all soon be nude. Then you might try breaking out some quarters. She flips hers, and if it lands on heads, the she gets on her knees, if it lands on tails, she assumes "doggie"position. The guys flip............to see who matches her flip and then does either heads or tails for three minutes. then you flip again. If both guys match hers, the jut flip again! After a few coooin flips, you should be ready for the game of "tens." The winner of the flip mounts her and gives her ten strokes. The other guy then mounts her and gives her twenty. ....then thirty..............then forty..........and so forth taking turns until one of them 'cums' (something she has probably done several times since the first ten strokes). The last guy to come is declared the winner and he wins 'sloppy seconds' or whatever else you might come up with! Anyway, have fun and write it up for the rest of us to read about. __________________ "Life is a stream...we go a fishin' in" ...Thoreau Rob and Her

08-08-2003, 06:03 PM	#2 (permalink)
nikkilynn74 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Abilene, TX Status: Married Female	I think it really depends on the people. I am kinda shy when it comes to making the first "move" so to say. I would say what you did was great! Made her feel like the queen she is Nikki

08-09-2003, 12:03 AM	#3 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 832 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem SLS Name:Vjklander	that works, or get a pair of sexy dice. they break the ice and get things rolling quickly J

09-19-2003, 09:53 AM	#5 (permalink)
NYC_Cpl4Play Active Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 14 Location: New York Status: Couple M/F	What always works is I let him take pictures of her and were off.....

09-19-2003, 10:31 AM	#6 (permalink)
Handyman69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 553 Location: MI..God's country.so we thought. Status: Couple SLS Name:handyman69	The best way I feel is let the woman Start things. Give her a chance to fondle and kiss the both of you two. Let her undress the both of you and get worked up.....get her juices flowing. John

09-19-2003, 11:02 PM	#7 (permalink)
EricSacto2 Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 51 Location: Folsom, CA Status: Male - Couple	The other male in our threesome is a bit hesitant about starting off for fear of getting me jealous. Personally, I don't bother me. In fact, I would love to walk in on them but I digress... Here are a couple of ways to kick off a threesome... * Hop in a hot tub naked. He and my wife got in first while I was gathering the towels. When I got in, she was sitting on his lap, facing him. When I reached under her butt to massage her pussy, I already found out that it was fill. * A strip tease. My wife dressed up in a french maid outfit and did a strip tease to some sexy tunes. She then proceeded to give each of us a lap dance and more... * A massage. He would massage my wife while both were naked and go from there.

09-27-2003, 01:24 AM	#9 (permalink)
gsu22 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 232 Location: Atlanta, Georgia Status: Single male	I really like the french maid outfit and strip tease that was mentioned! That sounds incredibly hotttttfacelick

10-01-2003, 08:11 AM	#10 (permalink)
2New2it Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 96 Location: Fort Worth Status: couple	The last threesome we had with a female developed an awkward moment when the time came to retreat to the bedroom. I announced that first I wanted to take a shower and invited our guest to join in. It was sort of a co-ed locker room situation and a half-step to final intimacy. We have a large shower, which we designed to accomodate three or four people, so that was not a problem and scrubbing someone's back does a great job of breaking the ice. It also assures that everyone is as fresh as can be. By the time we toweled each other dry, we were very comfortable touching and having strangers within our "private spaces". When she left, she commented how the pre-play shower worked out so well and made her feel comfortable.

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