Which male initiates a MFM?

[RMRx2]

not so much for overthinking it. if the parties get along well , and you have your input as you should, nature takes it's course fairly well. The one thing we experienced and hear alot, is that the woman wonders alot about doing right by both men,,,,,,,,,it only takes the first time to realize that mfm isn't about the woman taking care of two men, but the two men fullfilling her desires and fantasy come true. It took Mrs rmrx2 finding how satisying it was for her to see Mr rmrx2 enjoying himself, to understand why Mr enjoyed seeing and being a part of satisying her. Once the situation is experinced both ways, we found we both learned alot about what we each experince in each type of match up. MFM, FMF, both are satisying for us both and we have learned so much about each other in the process. Cpl match ups remian difficult, and NIETHER OF US TAKES ON FOR THE TEAM. RMRX2

[twohots4u2]

My gal and I agree that it is my job to take care of her, make sure she is pleased, and make sure that she is protected from any undesirable situations. I let her lead us where she wants to go and what she wants to have done to her.

After getting to know the guy and feeling comfortable with him through conversation, she initiates the action by letting the guy know she is interested in MFM and lets us know either verbally or with actions how she would like to start.

She and I have an understanding of her needs and boundaries - condoms on early, tender touches, lots of lips and tongues, no roughness, etc., and I help let the other guy know these. Usually, when something is not going right she lets me know by a touch or a glance and I convey it to the other guy.

[Chandler]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Is DP the main event for you? Many women aren't in the MFM for the DP, or even the anal. There are so many other things a woman can do with two men at once that don't have to include anal. I don't do anal in the Lifestyle, and I'm not interested in DP - but it hasn't stopped me from doing more than "just taking turns".

I understand and totally agree with you, there are other amazing things that can be done with a MFM, I was mostly over simplifying the taking turns comment. I also agree, some woman don’t care for anal, but even that boils down to personal preferences. So, I would say it’s not necessarily the main event, but it’s the one that usually tops off the whole evening for being the most extreme.

[plymouthsd]

been there both ways, so anti climatic if it is not finished withDP. Unsatusfying for all. Preperation is the key and only way to go. Start with the small and work up to the big for her. She will always fondly remember. A hicky on both her tits will help her remember how good it was for days and want more.

[Sexyasian]

Always my husband as he loves it

[sapphire68]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

I think that the best part of MFM is the woman taking the lead and getting her fantasies fulfilled, making things happen. I'm not about to go all passive and submissive in that scenario. That's a time to be in charge and to get what you want -- know what I mean? At least, that's the hot and sexy aspect of it, to me. Take those two big, strong men and have my way with them. I'll be telling them what I want as we go along, thank-you-very-much. facelick

I so wish I could be like you. I know I want MFM real bad but I just have no idea how to go about it once I'm in that situation.