Prepping for Anal Play....

[fun_couple]

Hi Everyone,

Here's a question for you girls...... Anal.... for those of you that do... I'm asking this more because I would love to try DP, the only thing that holds me back (besides finding the right extra man for the job) lol Is the mess that could encounter, with my hubby, this dosn't bother me, but with another man it does.... Do you do anything special to prep for this, & make sure that its as clean of an experience as possible.... ??

"""You know what I mean" """

[hmr]

Its called a Fleet enema.

[fun_couple]

Do you actually use this?
I know what an enema is..... (not pleasant ) But do most actually give themselves enema's before anal?

[roggiesgirl]

I love it myself.. (blush). I just make sure I have "gone" before anything happens and shower up really good. I've never had any messy incidents and thank goodness for that! I couldn't imagine having to do an enema before hand... hmmm... might take some of the fun and spontaneity out of it. Course, it might prevent something yucky from happening as well. Up to the individual, I guess.

Have fun!

[tnohcpl]

we suggest a colon cleansing. they have places that do this. they also sell colon cleansing kits to do it yourself. you might want to do this before the dp. if you are going to do it (anal) with just your hubby you might want to add that to your foreplay. we sometimes give each other enemas. after we are good and cleaned out a candle light bath together washing each other paying attention to all the hard special places.

[tnohcpl]

we suggest a colon cleansing. they have places that do this. they also sell colon cleansing kits to do it yourself. you might want to do this before the dp. if you are going to do it (anal) with just your hubby you might want to add that to your foreplay. we sometimes give each other enemas. after we are good and cleaned out a candle light bath together washing each other paying attention to all the hard special places.

[MrsBliss]

I have never noticed any mess when doing it anal with my husband but I do think that I would feel the same as you do when someone new would enter our game or when I would go to a club.

We just recently ordered something which you can use to clean your little hole. It is like a little pump where you can put in water and than spray it in. Don't know if it will work but we will try.

[DuncanDoughnut]

I have never tried Anal so I have to ask, Is all of the mess really worth it? I mean all the fuss you have to go through, just to do it, does it really feel that good. Do it feel better for the male or the female? Doesn't it hurt?
Pardon my ignorance

[MrsBliss]

Originally posted by DuncanDoughnut
I have never tried Anal so I have to ask, Is all of the mess really worth it? I mean all the fuss you have to go through, just to do it, does it really feel that good. Do it feel better for the male or the female? Doesn't it hurt?
Pardon my ignorance

Never noticed any mess We have had little experience however.

Which fuss are you talking about?

If you are not able to relax it hurts a little bit, but when you are relaxed then it feels very good. To me the biggest problem is that because I still need to take it quite slow, sometimes my excitement dissapears and it is just a "will it be ok or not' feeling. At that moment I am much more thinking about relaxing and about the things I can do to make the entering easier that my whole desire is just gone.

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by hmr
Its called a Fleet enema.

Just how many ships does one of those have?

[HotCoupleGnS]

I also would like to know from other men, does it feel better?

have had some experience, but only with my man. It felt, good, but not as good as regular sex. But we didn't experience any mess, never heard of anyone that did either. Has anyone on here?

[Spoomonkey]

We do a little anal play, but actual penile insertion (god, that sounds clinical) doesn't top our list of interesting things. Part of it is my size - no, I'm not huge, just really wide - so it is uncomfortable. For us, it was a logistical nightmare: "okay, swing your leg... hold me here... thrust just so..." Didn't do it for either of us...

To quote a song by The Cure... "An inch away from heaven."

We have kind of written it off as not worth the trouble.

Spoomonkey

[69at47]

Originally posted by HotCoupleGnS
I also would like to know from other men, does it feel better?

have had some experience, but only with my man. It felt, good, but not as good as regular sex. Has anyone on here?

Anal sex is not for everyone.
To get the most out of anal sex the very thought of someone sliding their penis up your anus will make you wet.
I have known a few ladies like that, but if they are only doing it because they think that is what I want to do then it is no fun for me.
Does that make sense? Hope so.

[bser]

anal is a good thing if you take it easy yes she should clean out first but it doesnt have to be 5 min before.just like you would take a shower before you go out. use lots of lube slide your dick in easy and slow so she can enjoy it. its also great when its a dp she can really get going.

[DuncanDoughnut]

From Mrs. Bliss "Which fuss are you talking about?"


To that I reply

I was refering to the mess that I've heard can occur if not properly cleansed.

Getting cleansed was the fuss I was talking about. The idea of visiting the "fleet" just doesn't seam appealing Then again, not having ever done it myself, I can only go by what I've heard. I really am curious though as to what the men think soapbox