orgasms

mehim · 08-15-2002, 09:18 PM

i allways hear how many orgasm women have, 20 in one night or hours . i wish somebody could tell me how it is posible, to have so many, and teach me . i like to experiance moore than 3 a night love that feeling that make my toes curl and blow my mind lol. am i od ???? if i have an orgasm that take everything out of me and my partner have a hard time to hold me on the bed and i need atleased 20 min for to start up again ...anybody can help me here and i mean from the eys of a women ...<ME>

***JustAskJulie*** · 08-16-2002, 07:00 PM

I think 3 is about my limit as well and that is rare usually only with hubby when it's just the two of us.

It used to be that once I came once I was pretty much done for the night (I'd need at least a half hour or so to recoup before even possibly wanting to go again).

Quin · 08-16-2002, 09:12 PM

You're not odd, mehim. Probably the most I've ever had during maybe a six or eight hour period is 8 or 10 and that's only been on two or three occasions...I really don't lay there and count and wonder about women who do, I'm too much into the feeling of it all to sit there and count on my fingers and toes. I also wonder about these women who claim to do the 20 orgasms during a session...personally, I doubt it's possible given what I know about my body, what I've heard from friends and associates...I've truly yet to meet a woman who is multiply orgasmic time and time again during any session. I just roll my eyes and think 'liar' or 'faker' or both when I hear or read of this.

Quin
[Smiley_sex]

[ 08-16-2002, 09:16 PM: Message edited by: Quin ]

OhioCouple · 08-16-2002, 11:20 PM

quote:
Originally posted by mehim:
i allways hear how many orgasm women have, 20 in one night or hours . i wish somebody could tell me how it is posible, to have so many, and teach me . i like to experiance moore than 3 a night love that feeling that make my toes curl and blow my mind lol. am i od ???? if i have an orgasm that take everything out of me and my partner have a hard time to hold me on the bed and i need atleased 20 min for to start up again ...anybody can help me here and i mean from the eys of a women ...<ME>

MeHim,
I am curious too. 3 is really pushing my limit over about 12 hours and I am pretty open sexually. I do not know how anybody can do 20 in one evening....it they can then perhaps I need to change my fruit juice!

Lori

[ 08-16-2002, 11:21 PM: Message edited by: OhioCouple ]

walrus0115 · 08-17-2002, 01:33 AM

I gotta agree here (even though I am a man.) The most I've ever seen my wife have is 3. And, for at least a couple of days after that, she acts like she just started a new weight-lifting regimine.

She barely has the strength to get a glass of water after two. TWENTY!!! We're talkin' IV's and a respirator.

hotcpl4unfla · 08-18-2002, 04:07 PM

I've heard that claim also. Let me tell you something: an orgasm is not the same for everyone! What one person may consider an orgasm may not be what you consider it. I consider an orgasm to be this: the culmination of tension exploding in one giant release, usually accompanied by rhythmic contractions of the muscles in and around the sexual organs, along with the spurt of semen in men and release of sexual tension in women.
Now, some might consider an orgasm to be a tiny twinge or several short pulsations. The "multi- orgasmic" people usually have several small "orgasms" sometimes not complete or fully satisfying. I can have sex with my wife, and tease her to the point where she has a mild orgasm, pull back and let her calm down, then go into it again until she finally is begging for me to finish the job. I don't count this as an orgasm per se, and neither does she. After TRUE orgasm, we are both exhausted and relaxed, and cannot go at it again for about 10-25 minutes (your recovery time may vary). Don't buy a lot of this 20-30 "orgasm" stuff. If a man had that many, he'd be needing an IV drip to avoid dehydration!

While I don't profess to be all-knowledgeable about a woman's orgasmic experience, maybe some multi-orgasmic women can explain how powerful their 20 orgasms are, and if they each provide 100% satisfaction. If they do, I'd never leave the bedroom if I was them!!

mehim · 08-18-2002, 05:18 PM

------------------------------------------------Now, some might consider an orgasm to be a tiny twinge or several short pulsations.
--------------------------------------------------i have that too... but i consider this as vorplay -middleplay-or afterplay.i go for the big one anytime ,it take me places i never been .maby and i say just maby, the ones with 20 orgasm need to be thought to have a real one.<me>

dave_susie2001 · 08-18-2002, 07:55 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Quin:
I also wonder about these women who claim to do the 20 orgasms during a session...personally, I doubt it's possible given what I know about my body, what I've heard from friends and associates...I've truly yet to meet a woman who is multiply orgasmic time and time again during any session. I just roll my eyes and think 'liar' or 'faker' or both when I hear or read of this.

Quin

Quin,

Believe it or not, there are women out there that can and do have multiple orgasms. Susie is one of them. 15-20 orgasms in a night of playing is not uncommon with her. And it pisses me off, cause I can only have 2 (if I'm REALLY lucky 3) in any play session. [ROFL]

And I'm not talking "little twinges" either. Full blown, body shaking, crying out, squirting orgasms. Sometimes the women we play with get intimidated because they can't go like that. But hey, everyone is different, and I just consider myself a lucky guy to have found Susie.

mehim · 08-18-2002, 09:24 PM

And I'm not talking "little twinges" either. Full blown, body shaking, crying out, squirting orgasms---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
you should be lucky then ...as for me and what i seen with other women, a lot of them should get an oskar for faking...

ddrewd · 08-20-2002, 02:57 PM

I guess there's a difference between how many orgasms a woman can have and how many she wants to have. I had a wonderful relationship with a lady friend who loved anal sex.

One night we had a long, passionate session where she'd orgasm, we'd rest a bit, talk, fondle, etc & go at it again. A couple of times we even fell asleep, woke up and went back at it. She had 5, maybe 6, orgasms through the night (I had just one...of course).

But we reached the point where we both recognized that she couldn't keep doing this. The last couple rounds were slightly painful to her (even with liberal amounts of lube), but her pleasure was far greater. She would respond eagerly every time I initiated another round, but it was becoming too uncomfortable for her.

Rather than going for endurance records, we stopped before she reached her breaking point. I'm glad we did, because the next day was all about remembering the wonderful time we had the night before, not about the pain she would have been suffering with if we'd kept on going.

My point...it's theoretically possible to have great numbers of orgasms...but it's not always preferable.

In contrast, what we learned is that it can be more fun, and last far longer, to practice orgasm denial. When you keep one or both of you on the edge of orgasm most of the night, let me tell you...one orgasm is all you'll need, or can handle! [Smiley_sex]

-Drew

mehim · 08-20-2002, 09:31 PM

oh i can have moore too over a whole night ... and fall asleep or just lay and talk ,thats the best thing about the whole swinging know the person you with ,find out the likes ,and dislikes. thos 20 orgasms we talking about are in 2 hrs or so lol and i just dont belive its .posible.going out from my own body...<me>

ciscosv · 08-23-2002, 12:06 PM

Just one and I am spent. I am sure the neighbors have heard me for I can be loud. I have a hard time seperating ejaculation and orgasm. I can give my wife 2-5 orgasms in one 30-45 minute session. (forplay and intercourse) You would be surprised how many multi-orgasmic ladies are out there. But there are fakers as well.

C&D · 08-30-2002, 01:28 PM

Hmmm...confused. Are we talking clitoral or penetration?

If we are talking clitoral then my wife is 1-2 in one night and that's it. And there had better be a long break in between. It's hard to even touch her after the first one.

Now if you're talking through penetration then that's a different story. She'll usually have,I guess, 4-5 in a 20 minute period. I've never counted but it seems to be almost continuous until I have one. And these aren't little ones either.

Dave

Paul&Audrey · 08-30-2002, 07:27 PM

Audrey's 'record' for orgasms in a day is 15... We were trying to see how many she could have during a day, so we had been having a sexual marathon solely for this purpose. The 15 orgasms occured from 5 rounds of intercourse. I, of course, came during each round... much to my pleasure too. She even had gushing ejaculation from 3 of the orgasms... Thank goodness for towels!!! [:-)~~~({})

~~bare~~ & MsFergii

Quin · 08-30-2002, 07:43 PM

quote:
Originally posted by C&D:
Hmmm...confused. Are we talking clitoral or penetration?

If we are talking clitoral then my wife is 1-2 in one night and that's it. And there had better be a long break in between. It's hard to even touch her after the first one.

Now if you're talking through penetration then that's a different story. She'll usually have,I guess, 4-5 in a 20 minute period. I've never counted but it seems to be almost continuous until I have one. And these aren't little ones either.

Dave

She must have an awfully large G-Spot and you must be just the perfect length to hit it.

I am not so lucky as over the years, it's become apparent that my G-Spot is not only rather small, it's also rather difficult to get to apparently. An ex-boyfriend explored the region very well finally hitting upon it one day years ago. I'm generally not orgasmic vaginally...takes someone who knows (like my ex) or someone who's just plain lucky to find it or some clit or ass play while penetrating. I can find it easily with dildos and vibrators. I've also found that while on top, the guy is more apt to hit it than in any other position.

You can make your wife have several clitoral orgasms but you'll have to be very strong to restrain her and that means especially restraining her arms and legs. If you can accomplish and have her restrained so that she can't hurt you, when she reaches her first clitoral orgasm (I'm assuming orally), just push your face in and keep working on her clit during her orgasm...she will wiggle and squirm and try to break the restraints but by the time the second orgasm comes (which should be within a minute or two), she'll be puddy but keep working cause the third is not far behind and once again she'll be as strong as superman...been there done that. [Wink]

I have had as many as 5 guys and 2 females restraining me at one time because it just drives me up past the point of no return and while it feels oh so good...at the same time it's barely tolerable.

Quin
This space for rent until my hit n run screw smiley graemlin comes home.

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08-15-2002, 09:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
mehim Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 143 Location: ks Status: couple	orgasms i allways hear how many orgasm women have, 20 in one night or hours . i wish somebody could tell me how it is posible, to have so many, and teach me . i like to experiance moore than 3 a night love that feeling that make my toes curl and blow my mind lol. am i od ???? if i have an orgasm that take everything out of me and my partner have a hard time to hold me on the bed and i need atleased 20 min for to start up again ...anybody can help me here and i mean from the eys of a women ...<ME> __________________ sex is like math, first you subtract the clothes,add the bed, divided the legs and hope you do not multiply at the end "

08-16-2002, 07:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	I think 3 is about my limit as well and that is rare usually only with hubby when it's just the two of us. It used to be that once I came once I was pretty much done for the night (I'd need at least a half hour or so to recoup before even possibly wanting to go again). __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

08-16-2002, 09:12 PM	#3 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	You're not odd, mehim. Probably the most I've ever had during maybe a six or eight hour period is 8 or 10 and that's only been on two or three occasions...I really don't lay there and count and wonder about women who do, I'm too much into the feeling of it all to sit there and count on my fingers and toes. I also wonder about these women who claim to do the 20 orgasms during a session...personally, I doubt it's possible given what I know about my body, what I've heard from friends and associates...I've truly yet to meet a woman who is multiply orgasmic time and time again during any session. I just roll my eyes and think 'liar' or 'faker' or both when I hear or read of this. Quin [ 08-16-2002, 09:16 PM: Message edited by: Quin ] __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

08-16-2002, 11:20 PM	#4 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: Originally posted by mehim: i allways hear how many orgasm women have, 20 in one night or hours . i wish somebody could tell me how it is posible, to have so many, and teach me . i like to experiance moore than 3 a night love that feeling that make my toes curl and blow my mind lol. am i od ???? if i have an orgasm that take everything out of me and my partner have a hard time to hold me on the bed and i need atleased 20 min for to start up again ...anybody can help me here and i mean from the eys of a women ...<ME> MeHim, I am curious too. 3 is really pushing my limit over about 12 hours and I am pretty open sexually. I do not know how anybody can do 20 in one evening....it they can then perhaps I need to change my fruit juice! Lori [ 08-16-2002, 11:21 PM: Message edited by: OhioCouple ] __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

08-17-2002, 01:33 AM	#5 (permalink)
walrus0115 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 132 Location: Athens, OH Status: Couple	I gotta agree here (even though I am a man.) The most I've ever seen my wife have is 3. And, for at least a couple of days after that, she acts like she just started a new weight-lifting regimine. She barely has the strength to get a glass of water after two. TWENTY!!! We're talkin' IV's and a respirator. __________________ Irie Mon

08-18-2002, 04:07 PM	#6 (permalink)
hotcpl4unfla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 168 Location: Tampa, Florida USA Status: Couple	I've heard that claim also. Let me tell you something: an orgasm is not the same for everyone! What one person may consider an orgasm may not be what you consider it. I consider an orgasm to be this: the culmination of tension exploding in one giant release, usually accompanied by rhythmic contractions of the muscles in and around the sexual organs, along with the spurt of semen in men and release of sexual tension in women. Now, some might consider an orgasm to be a tiny twinge or several short pulsations. The "multi- orgasmic" people usually have several small "orgasms" sometimes not complete or fully satisfying. I can have sex with my wife, and tease her to the point where she has a mild orgasm, pull back and let her calm down, then go into it again until she finally is begging for me to finish the job. I don't count this as an orgasm per se, and neither does she. After TRUE orgasm, we are both exhausted and relaxed, and cannot go at it again for about 10-25 minutes (your recovery time may vary). Don't buy a lot of this 20-30 "orgasm" stuff. If a man had that many, he'd be needing an IV drip to avoid dehydration! While I don't profess to be all-knowledgeable about a woman's orgasmic experience, maybe some multi-orgasmic women can explain how powerful their 20 orgasms are, and if they each provide 100% satisfaction. If they do, I'd never leave the bedroom if I was them!!

08-18-2002, 05:18 PM	#7 (permalink)
mehim Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 143 Location: ks Status: couple	------------------------------------------------Now, some might consider an orgasm to be a tiny twinge or several short pulsations. --------------------------------------------------i have that too... but i consider this as vorplay -middleplay-or afterplay.i go for the big one anytime ,it take me places i never been .maby and i say just maby, the ones with 20 orgasm need to be thought to have a real one.<me> __________________ sex is like math, first you subtract the clothes,add the bed, divided the legs and hope you do not multiply at the end "

08-18-2002, 07:55 PM	#8 (permalink)
dave_susie2001 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 284 Location: Michigan Status: Married Couple	quote: Originally posted by Quin: I also wonder about these women who claim to do the 20 orgasms during a session...personally, I doubt it's possible given what I know about my body, what I've heard from friends and associates...I've truly yet to meet a woman who is multiply orgasmic time and time again during any session. I just roll my eyes and think 'liar' or 'faker' or both when I hear or read of this. Quin Quin, Believe it or not, there are women out there that can and do have multiple orgasms. Susie is one of them. 15-20 orgasms in a night of playing is not uncommon with her. And it pisses me off, cause I can only have 2 (if I'm REALLY lucky 3) in any play session. And I'm not talking "little twinges" either. Full blown, body shaking, crying out, squirting orgasms. Sometimes the women we play with get intimidated because they can't go like that. But hey, everyone is different, and I just consider myself a lucky guy to have found Susie.

08-18-2002, 09:24 PM	#9 (permalink)
mehim Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 143 Location: ks Status: couple	And I'm not talking "little twinges" either. Full blown, body shaking, crying out, squirting orgasms--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- you should be lucky then ...as for me and what i seen with other women, a lot of them should get an oskar for faking... __________________ sex is like math, first you subtract the clothes,add the bed, divided the legs and hope you do not multiply at the end "

08-20-2002, 02:57 PM	#10 (permalink)
ddrewd Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 123 Location: On the road in Oklahoma Status: Single Male	I guess there's a difference between how many orgasms a woman can have and how many she wants to have. I had a wonderful relationship with a lady friend who loved anal sex. One night we had a long, passionate session where she'd orgasm, we'd rest a bit, talk, fondle, etc & go at it again. A couple of times we even fell asleep, woke up and went back at it. She had 5, maybe 6, orgasms through the night (I had just one...of course). But we reached the point where we both recognized that she couldn't keep doing this. The last couple rounds were slightly painful to her (even with liberal amounts of lube), but her pleasure was far greater. She would respond eagerly every time I initiated another round, but it was becoming too uncomfortable for her. Rather than going for endurance records, we stopped before she reached her breaking point. I'm glad we did, because the next day was all about remembering the wonderful time we had the night before, not about the pain she would have been suffering with if we'd kept on going. My point...it's theoretically possible to have great numbers of orgasms...but it's not always preferable. In contrast, what we learned is that it can be more fun, and last far longer, to practice orgasm denial. When you keep one or both of you on the edge of orgasm most of the night, let me tell you...one orgasm is all you'll need, or can handle! -Drew __________________ Drew Coming to a theatre near you!

08-20-2002, 09:31 PM	#11 (permalink)
mehim Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 143 Location: ks Status: couple	oh i can have moore too over a whole night ... and fall asleep or just lay and talk ,thats the best thing about the whole swinging know the person you with ,find out the likes ,and dislikes. thos 20 orgasms we talking about are in 2 hrs or so lol and i just dont belive its .posible.going out from my own body...<me> __________________ sex is like math, first you subtract the clothes,add the bed, divided the legs and hope you do not multiply at the end "

08-23-2002, 12:06 PM	#12 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 750 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	Just one and I am spent. I am sure the neighbors have heard me for I can be loud. I have a hard time seperating ejaculation and orgasm. I can give my wife 2-5 orgasms in one 30-45 minute session. (forplay and intercourse) You would be surprised how many multi-orgasmic ladies are out there. But there are fakers as well. __________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

08-30-2002, 01:28 PM	#13 (permalink)
C&D Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 60 Location: Tyler, TX Status: Couple SLS Name:CandD3	Hmmm...confused. Are we talking clitoral or penetration? If we are talking clitoral then my wife is 1-2 in one night and that's it. And there had better be a long break in between. It's hard to even touch her after the first one. Now if you're talking through penetration then that's a different story. She'll usually have,I guess, 4-5 in a 20 minute period. I've never counted but it seems to be almost continuous until I have one. And these aren't little ones either. Dave

08-30-2002, 07:27 PM	#14 (permalink)
Paul&Audrey Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 119 Location: near Delta, MO. Status: BiF/Str8M Couple SLS Name:luvtolickalot	Audrey's 'record' for orgasms in a day is 15... We were trying to see how many she could have during a day, so we had been having a sexual marathon solely for this purpose. The 15 orgasms occured from 5 rounds of intercourse. I, of course, came during each round... much to my pleasure too. She even had gushing ejaculation from 3 of the orgasms... Thank goodness for towels!!! [:-)~~~({}) ~~bare~~ & MsFergii __________________ Paul & Audrey

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08-30-2002, 07:43 PM	#15 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Originally posted by C&D: Hmmm...confused. Are we talking clitoral or penetration? If we are talking clitoral then my wife is 1-2 in one night and that's it. And there had better be a long break in between. It's hard to even touch her after the first one. Now if you're talking through penetration then that's a different story. She'll usually have,I guess, 4-5 in a 20 minute period. I've never counted but it seems to be almost continuous until I have one. And these aren't little ones either. Dave She must have an awfully large G-Spot and you must be just the perfect length to hit it. I am not so lucky as over the years, it's become apparent that my G-Spot is not only rather small, it's also rather difficult to get to apparently. An ex-boyfriend explored the region very well finally hitting upon it one day years ago. I'm generally not orgasmic vaginally...takes someone who knows (like my ex) or someone who's just plain lucky to find it or some clit or ass play while penetrating. I can find it easily with dildos and vibrators. I've also found that while on top, the guy is more apt to hit it than in any other position. You can make your wife have several clitoral orgasms but you'll have to be very strong to restrain her and that means especially restraining her arms and legs. If you can accomplish and have her restrained so that she can't hurt you, when she reaches her first clitoral orgasm (I'm assuming orally), just push your face in and keep working on her clit during her orgasm...she will wiggle and squirm and try to break the restraints but by the time the second orgasm comes (which should be within a minute or two), she'll be puddy but keep working cause the third is not far behind and once again she'll be as strong as superman...been there done that. I have had as many as 5 guys and 2 females restraining me at one time because it just drives me up past the point of no return and while it feels oh so good...at the same time it's barely tolerable. Quin This space for rent until my hit n run screw smiley graemlin comes home. __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

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