My lady parts look different

My husband and I are very new to the swinging scene and I thought it might be good to ask a few other 'open minded' type people about a few worries I have.

Now comes the 'hard' part. As I mentioned, I am happy with my body, but I am worried about certain parts. We had a romantic...umm...experience with another couple and I couldn't help but notice that the other woman looked a bit different in in her special parts between her legs. We were both bi-curious and therefore exploring each others bodies.

My question is...what do men look for in other women's pussies? My husband loves mine, (And finds nothing wrong!) but I noticed immediately that my...folds were larger and redder than hers. Is this a problem for swinging couples? The Wife

"Since she doesn't believe me, PLEAAAASE tell her that's there is nothing wrong with her" The husband

[Spoomonkey]

Mrs Spoomonkey came home tonight - so after welcoming her home properly, she took me out to eat (and drink a few beers in the package deal)... So - this is somewhat alcohol driven

What I am looking for in a woman's pussy is - well... Availability... I've never seen an ugly one (so far) and can't really imagine one that is so unattractive that - based on vaginia alone - I'd have to say no...

Actually - the shape and size of the labial folds is different for every woman. Lots of women don't get a good view of the other ones out there, but like fingerprints (really, really erotic fingerprints) no two vaginas are alike. I don't know this for sure, but I am still researching it...

There is very likely nothing at all wrong with your personal parts. Your husband seems pleased. If you must have it inspected before you accept my word for it, then I can likely enlist a truck load of fellows from this board (and a few of the ladies - and as always, "God bless the bi-fems!") to give you a thorough once over.

But - short of that - what you are describing sounds like a lot of fun to me. Enjoy the lifestyle - enjoy your body! I doubt you have a thing to worry about.

Spoomonkey

[2play04]

Here's the "We're Registered" version...

My husband and I are very new to the swinging scene and I thought it might be good to ask a few other 'open minded' type people about a few worries I have.

Now comes the 'hard' part. As I mentioned, I am happy with my body, but I am worried about certain parts. We had a romantic...umm...experience with another couple and I couldn't help but notice that the other woman looked a bit different in in her special parts between her legs. We were both bi-curious and therefore exploring each others bodies.

My question is...what do men look for in other women's pussies? My husband loves mine, (And finds nothing wrong!) but I noticed immediately that my...folds were larger and redder than hers. Is this a problem for swinging couples? The Wife

"Since she doesn't believe me, PLEAAAASE tell her that's there is nothing wrong with her" The husband

[fun_pairTX]

All pussies look basically the same with a few variants. The only thing that ever truly sets them apart for me is the reaction I get when I practice ventriloquism while checking one out.

[RnLinohio]

We have only been in the lifestyle for a little over a year. But after my first bi experience i felt the same way. I told my Hubby about this, and he acted much the same way as it sounds like your hubby acted.

I continued to think it over and realized that I enjoyed the experience to much to let a little worry like this bother me (and also after reading different posts on this board). After the next 3some we had and that women was different that me and the first lady I was with, I realized that just like everything else that is different between two people, the vagina is also different from women to women.

Now I just think of it as a game to find out just how many different ones I can find

But seriously. You will find that no to women are alike in that department either. So i wouldn't worry about it to much. Just enjoy the ride.

Hope this helps

Robin

[fun_pairTX]

All pussies look basically the same with a few variants. The only thing that ever truly sets them apart for me is the reaction I get when I practice ventriloquism while checking one out.

[2play04]

Thanks for the great advice! My Wife is already feeling better.... I appreciate all the great things you've said. I've tried SO hard to convince her that she's gorgeous!

Kermit... My wife tells me she really likes doggy style....

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[RnLinohio]

Hey I forgot to add Welcome to the board.

[suntory]

a pussy is a pussy! sure one may have a little more hair...one may have larger lips.....one may have a larger hole. But all in all it does not matter at all....that is one part of the body the male does not care about.....as long as he can get in there!

[Brit_Pair]

If you check out this thread:

Labia..Large vs. small

in the "Sex Questions" forum, you'll see that you're not alone in being 'concerned' about the size of your labia. However, you'll also see from the responses to that thread that you have nothing to be concerned about. Your labia are simply one more of the things that make you "you". Your husband loves them, so just relax and enjoy them!

[Miss_Piggy]

Personally, I'm enthralled by the fact that every "body" is different. Clearly, no two faces are the same; no two penises are the same; as spoo mentioned, no two fingerprints are the same. It makes a lot of sense that pussies are all different too. I think it's exciting.
Anyone ever seen the Vagina Monologues? There's one skit in it about a man who *loves* vaginas. When he's with this woman for the first time he spends an hour just looking at her vagina. Examining it, getting to know it. He tells her things about herself based on what he sees in her vagina. She says, "It was like he read my palm." I think that guy really understood how neat different vaginas really are.

[b_and_sc]

Just like no two penises are the same, so are vaginas different. As long as your hubby likes it, that's all that matters...however I understand your wondering, this is such a new and different situation to be in.


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[2play04]

Thanks for all of the support. This has been a very helpful read. The more profiles I read, the more people I talk to, it's just about people having a good time.

[Vjklander]

Welcome to the board !
I agree with all above that size and shape are just another piece of the fascinating person that is you.
soapbox I have never met a labium I didn't like !!

[magnum]

Originally posted by Unregistered
My husband and I are very new to the swinging scene and I thought it might be good to ask a few other 'open minded' type people about a few worries I have.

Now comes the 'hard' part. As I mentioned, I am happy with my body, but I am worried about certain parts. We had a romantic...umm...experience with another couple and I couldn't help but notice that the other woman looked a bit different in in her special parts between her legs. We were both bi-curious and therefore exploring each others bodies.

My question is...what do men look for in other women's pussies? My husband loves mine, (And finds nothing wrong!) but I noticed immediately that my...folds were larger and redder than hers. Is this a problem for swinging couples? The Wife

"Since she doesn't believe me, PLEAAAASE tell her that's there is nothing wrong with her" The husband

I think there is nothing wrong with your pussy.

I personally love big pussy lips! As to what guy's look for, I like a shaved pussy with nice juicy pussy lips "better to suck and lick". Big pussy lips are also nice to look at as they wrap around my cock as I slide in and out, "I like the visual too, very much a turn on to see beautiful big pussy lips wrapped around my cock".

As for being "red", I am not a doctor but I imagine that is normal as well, maybe it has to do with you being excited.

Have fun exploring your bi side and licking/sucking pussy!

Cheers Magnum