Orgies, what do you think

[TomF_22033]

Most of the discussion here seems to be about coupling or threesomes. I was wondering how many folks here have taken part in an orgy. And if you have what you thought about it? How big was it? And would you do it again?

Tom

I guess our first experience with "full swing" could probably be called and orgy because there were three couples actively engaged in pleasuring each other. We enjoyed it and certainly hope to do it again. It was "pure sex" and that is what we like. It was a little distracting... There was just so much to watch... I love watching. I think I probably disappointed one lady when I lost track of what I was doing with her and just started watching two men and a lady pleasing my wife. My wife just kept cumming and cumming and it was just simply amazing!

[Brian and Jo]

I guess that when we get together with the other couples who make up our group of regular swinging partners we often have an orgy. There are always at least four couples present and often as many as six or seven. Sometimes we pair off as couples in the bedrooms and sometimes we will all be together in the same room with three or four large mattresses put together on the floor. When we go the orgy route the options are endless. You can fuck as a couple, have threesomes, watch two or more ladies get it on together, lend a helping hand to a couple who are fucking, watch and masturbate, switch partners in mid-fuck, have an oral daisy chain, etc. It is just one fantastic scene and one we enjoy immensely.

[JustAskJulie]

I have to say that next to a twosome I like orgies best on one condition. That everyone who is present is involved. Granted sometimes people need to take a break and that's understandable. But I've been at parties where you end up with as many people standing around watching the action as are involved IN the action. That's not something I enjoy. But when you have 2 or more couple involved in hot sex together, I agree the options are endless and it can be so much fun.

As for why I enjoy this more than say a 3some? It seems like in a 3some (or a gangbang even) you end up with one person trying to pleasure two people. Or two people trying to pleasure one person. Whereas in an orgy no one seems to be worried about who is pleasuring who everyone is just having fun and enjoying whoever wherever.

Just my 2cents

[Brian and Jo]

You have hit the nail on the head Julie. When we have our orgies the watching and masturbating is just while we rest up and the guys get hard again so they can jump back into the fray. Often we will go the oral route with the ladies while we are recuperating after our first (and subsequent) orgasm(s). As you say, the whole point of the orgy is that everyone is an active participant engaged with whomever they fancy, moving from partner to partner and doing whatever it takes to derive the maximum sexual pleasure from the moment. We enjoy orgies more than anything else - the sights and the sounds in themselves are a fantastic turn-on. Plus we find moving from partner to partner over the course of two or three hours until we have had some sort of sexual contact with almost everyone present is extremely exciting and an experience to beat all others.

[AshNFiona]

Originally posted by Brian and Jo:
As you say, the whole point of the orgy is that everyone is an active participant engaged with whomever they fancy, moving from partner to partner and doing whatever it takes to derive the maximum sexual pleasure from the moment. We enjoy orgies more than anything else - the sights and the sounds in themselves are a fantastic turn-on. Plus we find moving from partner to partner over the course of two or three hours until we have had some sort of sexual contact with almost everyone present is extremely exciting and an experience to beat all others.

We definitely agree with this, although most of our swinging is with one couple. We've been with two couples sometimes. We've only been to a "full" orgy once, a party of about 10 couples. The combinations are certainly endless in a large orgy as we discovered that time, which is what makes it exciting. Both of us had some form of sexual contact with everyone else, and each of us had full sex with 4 of the people. Fiona managed 4 guys at the same time! And as you say the sounds and sights all around you are really fantastic.

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[SuAndBud]

One of our major fantasies is to engage in an orgy with at least 3 (preferably a lot more, though) couples.

This would also help alleviate one of Bud's major concerns about him having sex with another female in Su's presence. This has not happened, yet and Bud is worried that he might feel he is cheating on Su - even though he has seen her (and enjoyed seeing her) engage in varied sexual acts with another male. The more people in the mix, the less likely Bud will feel like this as he won't be concentrating his affections on just one other female.

One other problem, though - The more people, the more likely it is to be that one or more of them will be totally unattractive to you (spiritually or physically). In the normal course of swinging, "No means no" but when it's an all-out orgy, how can you refuse to, say, go down on a person and yet go down on any number of others in their presence?

Has anyone been in this situation? How was it handled? Did you simply close your eyes and imagine it was Brad Pit/Halle Berry instead - lol?

[Dooode]

In the past 1 1/2 years, I have been to 10 house parties (that become orgies!). Most involve around 5-6 couples--and me--and the best is probably the New Year's Eve party we have every year, which has 10 couples or better. The memory of what you were doing at the stroke of midnight is good enough to last a lifetime! hehehe

From a bi-guy point of view, I LOVE puppy piles!!

[Pepper & Drew]

For the most part, orgies aren't our thing. Unless we're really comfortable with every person involved, we'll usually beg off. If we're not comfy, Drew spends too much time watching to see if I'm OK, my head is on a constant swivel to see who's touching me, and I miss what's going on with him. We've had some good experiences, but for the most part, orgies don't "do" it for us.

Pepper

[Dooode]

Originally Posted by SuAndBud

In the normal course of swinging, "No means no" but when it's an all-out orgy, how can you refuse to, say, go down on a person and yet go down on any number of others in their presence?

Has anyone been in this situation? How was it handled? Did you simply close your eyes and imagine it was Brad Pit/Halle Berry instead - lol?

I want to throw a quick comment on this:

Now I don't know how it works at other house parties/orgies but with ours, "no" still means "NO!" and that's not negotiable--even in the heat of a puppy pile. Persistence will not only get you kicked out, but never to be re-invited (not to mention the damage done to your reputation within the swing community. People will talk!).

I can think of two instances that someone has ever told me "no", and in both instances I felt slightly rejected, but would quickly wander off to find interested parties. Since most of us are regulars, that was fairly easy to do.

*cha-ching!*

Two cents.

[JustAskJulie]

It's been a long time since I originally posted to this thread.... hell it's been a long time since I was in an orgy... reading back my earlier response makes me want to have a house party.

[tscpl]

We have never taken part in an orgy or attended one .That remains on my To Do List! I hope someone will invite us to their House Party.

[MrkLin]

We've been to several house parties as well as hosted several of our own, and have yet to see an all-out orgy (no matter how hard I try to get one going ) I think the closest we've come has been a 6 person daisy chain, and one night there were 3 couples on the same bed. Dunno if that counts as an orgy, but there you go...

Believe me - it's on my 'to do list' as well.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by MrkLin

We've been to several house parties as well as hosted several of our own, and have yet to see an all-out orgy (no matter how hard I try to get one going ) I think the closest we've come has been a 6 person daisy chain, and one night there were 3 couples on the same bed. Dunno if that counts as an orgy, but there you go...

Believe me - it's on my 'to do list' as well.

That just begs the question of.... How many people to make an Orgy?

[willyoats]

Once we had a "Crisco Party" on a big plastic tarp where 6 or 8 couples got coated with Crisco oil. We were incredibly slippery and horny. It went on for a half hour or so with every body playing with everybody else. I don't remember that there was much screwing, but we sure had fun feeling and masturbating each other.