Hysterectomy and the waterworks

[twotoswing]

Ok this is our first posting lets see how it goes. My wife and I have met a couple and have been getting together a few times and been having a great time! A real good match. The question stems from the fact that my wife is what we call a splasher!, when she comes its like turning on the sink plus she has learned to do it almost at will with a little extra stimulation by herself when ever the need is there during sex!! I know its great But the problem or question is, that the woman we are swinging with dosnt get wet at all and claims the fact she has had a hysterectomy dosnt allow her to get wet so she needs bottled lube. No big deal and we dont mind it at all. But we were just wondering if this is true because if not my wife and myself would like to show her how its done. We have discussed it lightly with her but dont want to make her feel uncomfortable she is super lady. We are just wondering if this is true and if we shouldnt waste our time and make her feel bad. We are not in the medical field we thought we would just through this one out and see what you all say!!

[ 04-01-2002: Message edited by: twotoswing ]

[Stratecpl]

Two,

Every person is different. Some women gush, many do not. I have no idea about a hysterectomy affecting that... LOL But as long as all are comfortable and having fun, I see no issue whatsoever. Just thank your lucky stars that all four of you are compatible and go for it. So many are not enjoying what you do, so you are in the "plus" column there!

Ron, Husband of Stratecpl

[JustAskJulie]

I don't know about the hysterectomy part. But you mind find these other topics on squirting interesting:
http://www.swingersboard.com/cgi-bin...c&f=5&t=000012
http://www.swingersboard.com/cgi-bin...c&f=3&t=000078

[tewsomes]

Hiya!

My wife had a hysterectomy about 3 years ago (she's 34 now) and it did make a difference in her wetness. She also had one ovary removed so that may be a contributing factor even though her hormone levels have tested out fine.

We use lube when we need it, definately with the condoms we use when we swing. Other than that its no big deal.

Tewsomes

[CplFromMD]

Starnge things happen to the body when surgeries are performed.
A woman we know had her right nipple pierced a few years ago. The piercing has stimulated the nerves in the breast and she has been producing milk in her right breast ever since. It makes sucking on her nipple something more than pleasureable for her, it's an added treat for those that enjoy the suckling fetish.
And yet there are many women who have their nipples pierced with no abnormalities.

[TasteeKat]

I'm happy to reply that I am one of those gushers and have had a hysterectomy over 10 years ago at an early age. I have had no problems in getting wet unless I was in an uncomfortable situation and that hasn't been many. The doctor now tells me that one ovary needs to be removed........guess I'll have to let you know in a couple months if anything changes. The doctor says I should be fine. XXXXfingers crossedXXXX

[pumperswife]

Originally posted by twotoswing:
....she has learned to do it almost at will with a little extra stimulation by herself when ever the need is there during sex!! I know its great ............... my wife and myself would like to show her how its done.

I'm sorry I can't answer your question, but a couple things you said piqued my interest. I used to nt get very wet, just a little bit of female cum. But just before Christmas my husband had me squirting! (YEA!)

:p Not just one squirt either, it was awesome! He used his fingers in me and a little bit of tongue action, there was no penile penetration involved. That was ok though, we both went home with smiles on our faces a mile wide. :p

My thing is this, the next time we went out ('cause I wasn't willing to do this at home and soak the mattress) we were really looking forward to squirting again and it just didn't happen. My husband said it was no biggie and we still had a great time, but I was still bummed out about it. I'm sure my problem was that I tried too hard to make it happen.

You said your wife can do it at will and would like to show the other female. Can you, would you, mind telling me so that I can give it a try and see if your technique works for me? If it's something that has to be shown and not explained that's ok, we'll just keep plugging along and take the squirts, happily and greedily, when they cum!

Julie,
I will also check out those links you mentioned, too. Thanks.

[4sum]

My wife is naturally wet. Occaisionally she gushes but mostly manually rather than during regular sex. You just have to find the right time, spot, and tempo....and talking dirty seems to help some too

[the2stars]

This ? got me to thinking as far as squirting. I have always thought woman are just wet and able to squirt. but as this board has done and meeting others, this is not true.some women can get very wet when stimulated in certin areas.i had to ask a friend if the hystorectmy makes a difference or not. she said yes it does at fist and had to get the mucles back into shape and also the sensation has changed some as well. like with scar tissue or just placed different when surgery was done.but she did say it does come back as well.
so i guess it comes down to the person and the stimulation as to how wet someone gets.

[kspartycpl]

Hi!

I happen to be one of the ladies who have had everything removed. Total Abdominal Hysterectomy.(Uterus, Ovaries and Cervix)While the doc was in there he also did a bladder tack or "birch procedure" but thats another story. Since they were taking my ovaries, I was extremely worried about loss of sexual desire, the ability to get wet, and have an orgasm. Friends Im happy to report that, our sex life is better now, than it was before the surgery. There is a pot-pouri of hormone's, creams etc out there now that can actually make your desire stronger than before, You just need to have the patience to find out which hormone's and combinations of them that work best for you.

I hope I have shed some light on this whole hysterectomy thing. I think there are some who believe that after a hysterectomy a womans sex life is basically washed up. Thats just not true!!!

Best wishes

[L&K]

I dont think the surgery has any thing to do with dryness, Sue was never a gusher as you put in untill she had a hysteroctomy . then the bathing at sex time kicked in . It was so different i lost my erection the first time , um excuse me dear what to hell was that !

marv & sue

[redhot_brat]

Well I won't claim to know it all on this ....I had a hsterectomy done in "93 and have never had any issues with wetness ( squirter here too). I do know however that my doctor warned me that a full hysterectomy CAN cause dryness in some women.I do know that exercising the pelvic muscles (kegels) helps in both sensation and dryness as well.
Hope this helps a little.
Debra

[AttentionGetter]

Some women are squirters, some are not. All our bodies are different. We have a good friend that is a squirter...I am not. Alot of it has to do with being in the mood sometimes. We talked about it with our friend because I was concerned that I could not bring myself to do this. Communication is the key here. After talking we decided that our body chemestry is different. My "stuff" is just thicker than her's so it doesn't squirt easily...I do get very very wet though. We laugh about it now. She squirts..I'm the tight one...LOL!