Would You Pay For Sex With A Virgin?

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Cabrownsugar

Question to all the people who posted on this thread.What happen a virgin man or woman ask you to be a sex surrogate maybe sex is involved.

I know for some folks who say they are a "sexual surrogate" the line between clinician and prostitute is pretty blurry... But, there are folks out there who are trained and certified as sex therapists and surrogates.

If a virgin asked us to be surrogates for them, we would tell them "no."

First and foremost - the virgin needs to develop the necessary social skills if they want to have sex. Teaching them techniques isn't going to do that. It falls under the same philosophy of "give a man to fish... teach a man to fish..." Virgins who would be seeking out a sexual surrogate need to learn how to fish - or, how - very simply - how to say "hi" to someone at a party.

Sexual surrogates - the "real" ones - deal with sexual dysfunction. They work with people who have issues with sex and help them get over it. They don't, typically, work with people who have never had sex.

The second reason we would tell them "no" is that we are NOT surrogates. We are swingers. While there are plenty of folks who would call themselves a "surrogate" simply because they know how to have sex and want to make a buck off of it - an ethical person would not. We realize our clinical limitations - and more importantly, we realize that our purpose for swinging is not to act as surrogates, but to enhance our sex lives.

Spoomonkey

[curiousagain]

In the movie "The Cowboys" a Madam says that a boys first time should be in the back of a buggy with a girl he thinks he loves. I think that pretty much sums it up, both ways.

I've "had" a couple of virgins and while it was a different experience, technically, it wasn't great sex. I hope at this stage of the game I am not giveing basic instruction but teaching advanced post graduate work if I am teaching anything.

To answer the OP, NO I would not pay for sex with a virgin.

[curiousduo30]

Nope. Wouldn't even if they paid me....lol

[Lee_Russell48]

Pay for sex with a virgin? I am of 2 minds here. First off, on the negative side, female virgins are very messy. Nothing personal ladies, it's just a fact of life. On the positive side-and I don't intend to sound conceited-but if a young lady was to lose her virginity, wouldn't it be much better for her overall sexual experience to have a very experienced older man initiate her. I am and always have been a slow lover. I use every talent I possess on a woman with the objective of having her feel as though she's getting gangbanged when she is with me. I believe that the best compliment a woman can pay a man is to come back to him for more, so I do my very best to make every sexual experience the very best that I can make it. I use a variety of toys, lubes, massage oils etc. in order to make her feel as though she is the most special desirable woman in the world. If she is to lose her virginity to me, I want that experience to be a positive one that she remembers for all her life.

[celtic239]

Why would someone want to pay good money to get involved with all the drama that would follow!

[wilson68868]

No, then you have to train 'em

[dr_pepper]

Sorry to say, I paid for mine to be taken. Not a good experience. I felt empty and depressed afterward. I had hoped that my first time would be with a good friend, but she didn't want to be my first, a position I can understand now.

My first wife was a virgin when we married, and that was a good experience for both of us. Our marriage ending years later had nothing to do with sex issues. Thirty plus years later, we are becoming a couple again. We did manage to stay friends through it all.

Bottom line: I would much rather be with an experienced woman, and at my age I imagine that would be all I would find interested.