Small Penises

[w26mky]

I am undersized. I am about 5inches long and extremely narrow in girth. I have been nicknamed pencil dick. Alot of girls say that size doesn't matter, but those are only girls that know I am small. I think they say that to make me feel better. I hear girls talk sometimes, the girls that do not know I am small, they talk about how they much prefer a big dick. I was with my last g/f for a little over a year and I found out that she had been cheating on me the whole time we were together. She said that she loved me, but I didn't take care of her needs in bed. She said I was too small. Are there actually girls that like small penises? I have heard there are, but I have never known of one.

[OhioCouple]

Following are two threads where penis size has been discussed by both men and women. You'll see by reading through them that it is pretty evident that size really isn't a factor.


Does Size Really Matter?

Penis Size Poll

[LadyCleo]

Not trying to be unhelpful or hurtful but I have been with a man who's penis was short and thin. It was not pleasurable for me. I cannot speak of other women though. Unfortunately, he wasn't that skillful with his fingers or tongue to make up for it either. Needless to say, I stopped having sex with him and moved on.

Hopefully, you either are masterful with your other extremities or are working on becomeing masterful.

Good luck!
LC

[jcbicouple]

Guess once again: This probably depends on the person. Both the giver and receiver. Hubby is above average sized, but we've played with guys that have been considerably smaller. Some we wouldn't do again, but some we would. It really does depends on whether or not the guy knows what he's doing. We've been with all sizes, and frankly if the guys stinks in bed, it doesn't matter what size he is. Don't think we've been with anyone under five inches, but one of the guys was no more than that and we've played with him several times: Always a joy.

[4Beauty2C]

Hubby is also average and some of the men we have been with were 5 inches or below. The girth size on some of the men were just as big as a jumbo pencil. I just could not understand how the wives could handle their size. I am more into the bigger size cocks.

[BettyAnnMBSC]

After more than a few partners of varying sizes, I've concluded that neither men nor women are very good at accurately estimating penis size.

Wanna try an experiment with your friends: get a few rubber penii of varying sizes (a 4", 5", 6", 7" and 8") and randomly ask people "how big is this?"

When I've done this with my 5" they almost always say "about average" but when I use the 8" they say "damn! that's huge! it must be over 10")

Of course, it hasn't been a proper scientific study -- but it's fun non-the-less.

I've had one partner that was "too small" -- his penis was the same size as my pinky finger. None that were too big. Many of the best playmates (measured by the frequency with which they were invited back for more) were in fact of "average" length and girth.

The best idea - learn to work with what you have and learn to compensate for what you don't have.

[lynn3]

IMO...the most important thing is being an unselfish lover.
While size does matter to some women, I think most all women
will agree that it all depends on how the tool is used.

If you just jump into bed with your own needs in mind, you'll
never be a good lover regardless of size. This is one of the
reasons older men always make such good lovers. They tend
to learn how use their time very effectively. They spend alot
of time on the female. Knowing that there is nothing sexier
or more of a turn on when a female is in the thralls of ecstasy
and he is the one who brought her there. And size has nothing to
do with this.

It's been my personal experience that some men who are well
endowed tend to think that all they have to do it "stick it to ya".
Like the mere fact that they are large is enough to get the girl
turned on to orgasm.....which so not true!!

[PrtyinDuo]

IMO...the most important thing is being an unselfish lover.

Mr. here,and up until we started swinging I was allways worried about the size of my cock.Or,should I say,the 'undersize'.Now,in the length dept. I had allways heard that 5-6 was average.But,not having much 'eye-to-eye' contact except for mags and movies,most I saw seemed to dwarf my own tool.And after we started getting together with others I saw that not everyone was porno movie rated.My cock,at 6-7" in length,seems pretty normal now(and even longer than alot)but alass,the girth is still a bother to me.Having no more than 3" around,I still am concerned that 'he' isn't thick enough for most gals.(guys are another post, )mrs says hes perfect.(she came by and typed that,lol)For that reason,in my belief anyhow,I allways made it a special point to make sure that my partner was in extasy before I was.I learned how to use my fingers,toys,and tongue to enhance lovemaking.And most of all,(this is where'age' cums into play)I was slow and patient enough to 'listen'to the reactions of the woman/women I was trying to please. No...I'm no pro,and certainly no athuority on sexual relationships,but have learned that if your partner is 'happy'
...then 'happiness' for you is just around the corner...

Enjoy!!

[Maine]

Sorry I haven’t been on been busy

I have a question does size matter?

Some of you might have been married for a long time but when you first had sex were you happy or disappointed?

When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid?

Penis Pills…

Do they work?

What ones to take?

Have you gotten results?

Is so, what?

I did some research on pills but threes just so many of them I don’t know which ones work or not.


I think we all wondered this even if we have a big penis or not.

Any input would be helpful

Any comments?

Thank you

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by Maine
Sorry I haven’t been on been busy

I have a question does size matter?

Some of you might have been married for a long time but when you first had sex were you happy or disappointed?

When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid?

Penis Pills…

Do they work?

What ones to take?

Have you gotten results?

Is so, what?

I did some research on pills but threes just so many of them I don’t know which ones work or not.


I think we all wondered this even if we have a big penis or not.

Any input would be helpful

Any comments?

Thank you

Maine:

Since your thread was on such a similar subject, I've merged it into this thread instead.

[Sydney Carton]

Originally posted by Maine


I have a question does size matter?

According to the women I've talked to (whom I think are being honest), size does matter to some extent, particularly at the extreme ends (bigger isn't necessarily better, however). But they all also say that it's not the be all and end all of good sex.

Some of you might have been married for a long time but when you first had sex were you happy or disappointed?

I was quite happy, and I think she was too, although there was a lot of the typical teenage emotional sturm and drange accompanying it.

When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid?

Can't say that I do.

Penis Pills…

Do they work?

No. It's completely impossible for any sort of a pill or other pharmacological therapy to change adult penis size.

What ones to take?

Save your money. If you feel you absolutely must do something to increase your penis size (other than surgery), it's at least theoreticaly possible that one of those penis vacum pumps might work, if you use it enough (which doesn't mean that actually work in practice, however).

[froggyjenn80]

I have been with anywhere from 2 inches to 13 inches. I prefer the average sizes rather than the huge men. But that is because my insides are very very tilted and anything over about 7inches hurts. I bleed and it is hard to recover.

There are many many women that prefer smaller. Most say its because they can give oral much better.

Size really isnt a factor. Its how you work it. If you know how to move correctly (I have found that go downward then upward, rock your hips) then you can hit that G-spot. Unless you are with a woman like me, where the G-spot is in my back.

Master your fingering and oral technique, and learn the motion of the woman to find her G-spot. You will not only loose the pencil dick nickname, but gain the satisfaction of being an excellent lover.

Good luck
~~Jenn

We actually meet with a couple where the guy was very small. My wife actually likes bigger men, but we had so much in common, that we meet with them on a regular basis. He always made comments that he couldn't satify women with his dick, but his tounge worked wonders. The two of them got along fine, but they actually admitted, that the reason they were into swinging, was because she had to have that little extra size once in awhile. At times she even old him he wasn't going to satisfy any woman with what he had. And he just laughted about it, and didn't seem to care.

[good times]

This reminds me of the joke about the under endowed guy that goes to the prostitute and she say's "who do you think you are going to satisfy with that little thing" and he replies "ME".

R

[Uneed_Love]

Regarding to the tons of spams I daily received (and erased) on this subject... it sound like if it's the only subject that really matters the US guys and american women (as all the spams on this are coming from USA...).

Sometimes I should be pleased to ask to the spammers if they have ever tried some pills to enlarge their.... brain!

Those kind of advertisings are nothing else but swindles in my humble opinion. However if people want to lose money with this it's their own biz... but spammers would better avoid to send me such craps... they waste their time... and mine by the same way.

JC the bored frog head bang