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This is a discussion on Small Penises within the Let's Talk About Sex forums, part of the The Topic of Sex category; Since where talking about size here when did you guys care about your size? This is what happened to me (...
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| Active Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 42 Location: Maine Status: Couple | Since where talking about size here when did you guys care about your size? This is what happened to me (embaressed) I would go online and see avertisments of pills. Yeah, right get out of here thats stupid. For months i kept seeing them. The t.v even had pills on it. (late night of course) yeah, i've thought about getting the pills. Most have..All guys think is my size good?..the bigger sized guys and the lower sized. I guess its apart of life. This is where the wondeful world of avertising comes it. They play something so many times. (wheather is a popup,website,tv or news article.) That you have to think about it's on your mind. So, you really ask yourself. Do i need to change. Thats where they get you. Thats why the play those commercials over and over..Mom's Got the magic of c. Beach. Just a thought.. |
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59 | - I actually had a friend for a while who preferred smaller dicks to larger ones. Her hubby was pretty small and that's what she liked. In general, it really isn't the size that matters, as long as you know how to use what you have. I've found that often guys with smaller dicks make more of an effort during sex to actually please the woman while guys with large (especially the very large variety) tend to rely solely on their big dick not really putting in any effort of their own. I recall a guy that I had sex with many years ago, he was rather small and I would go so far as to say he would qualify for "pencil dick" status.... but he was great in bed. He knew every move to make and when to make it.... and I came back for more very often. So I guess it depends a lot on you, the guy your small penis is attached to and how much effort you are willing to put out. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 1,134 Location: France Status: long term relationship | Maine, As long as a male will regard sex as a performance that he'll have to do in order to please a female he will take the risk of knowing frustrations because either his size will not be the good one, either he will come too fast or too late, etc... But if BOTH partners are looking for caring the other one then the frustration would be missing in their relationship... It's not the size of the penis, or even how you use it which matters but WHY you use it... If it's to accomplish a selfish pleasure then your partner could be frustrated, if it's only to please her (or him ?) then You could be frustrated... but if both are caring and loving for the other one then I don't think there would be any frustration because they would find the right words to say and the right moves to do.... Just my opinion here JC
__________________ Le Monde est ma maison et l'Univers mon horizon - El Mundo es mi casa y el Universo es mi horizonte - The World is my home and the Universe is my horizon... but my Heart is in Canada (Vancouver precisely) |
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| Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1 Location: indy | It is time for school everyone. After reading what im about to say you will think different. I am a black guy with an 8 inch dick (and no the black myth is not true). It is sometimes a curse having a big dick. I have been with tons of girls of all ages and race who have been with tons and tons of guys. Every time I have sex with a girl she cant go no longer than 5 to 10 minutes. Always telling me to hurry because I am hurting her too bad. They always end up curled up on the floor crying in pain holding their stomach like they're dieing. And bleeding. A few girls I thought I was gonna have to take to the hospital. And I can just forget about anal. So all these sily females saying they prefer a big dick is lying. They always say that and soon as I stick it in they take it out and cant finish. And let me tell you this. We all live in a world of porn. Porn is fake as joan rivers face. Girls are watching the girls in the porn flicks and think that those girls are better because they have big tits and huge asses. Men look at those guys with 10-14 inches dicks and think the porn guys are better. I use to think I was small because I was seeing all these guys in porn with huge monster dicks and I thought that I was suppose to be that size. If a female likes huge dicks in her then she is most likely busted out. She has been using huge dildos and fisted for so long it is streched out of place. If you find a normal girl she will be nice and tight and wont want no huge cock in her. Lets get real here...who want to be in pain? Hey guys, let me ask you somthing and this does not mean your gay. Would you rather have a index finger up your butt or a fist? And another thing, not all guys like huge booty and tits either. I prefer a girl with a small tight bubble butt and small perky tits. I have been with my girl for over 6 years and she still cant handle my dick. It always hits her bottom and she cries and makes me stop. So remember guys dont believe the myths and as some say keep your head up I say keep your dicks up. Peace! ![]() |
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| Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 9 Location: bay area | thanks for your comment. im an asian guy with an average dick 6" avg girth. i have never had a girl scream in pain and never told that i have a big dick either. I have never had any complaints either. I guess after reading your note...im just right. thanks guy for your insight. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 662 Location: Dallas TX Area Status: Couple | Quote:
First of all, I am not a huge porn connoisseur, but I have never seen a 14 inch dick in any porn I have ever watched. With the exception of John Holmes, most porn dicks are generally a normal size, though there is quite a bit of variety. And being that I AM one of the women who prefer larger penises, I AM normal, and I am NOT "busted out" as you so eloquently put it, I can say that a vagina adapts to whatever penis size it becomes accustomed to on a regular basis. My ex-husband was around 6". We were together for almost 15 years. That's what I was used to at the time. When I met my current husband, who is 8", it took some getting used to, and he did "bottom out" quite frequently in me and cause me a little pain, though I never bled, nor did I ever writhe on the floor, holding my belly, screaming in pain. But now, 7 years later, I have adjusted to his size and no longer feel pain. My husband and I engage in anal as well, so I don't know who or how old these women (girls?) are that you are encountering on such a regular basis ... it seems that you have found every single one who cannot take a larger penis, and that to me is just a little unbelievable. I consider 8" to be somewhat normal, although the average size is around 5.75". In other words, I do not consider an 8" penis to be a "monster dick" or "huge" by any means. Although, it seems to me that 7" and up is getting harder and harder to find. Frankly, the last two couples we have played with have been less than well-endowed, and I was a little disappointed.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 78 Location: Cleveland Hts., OH Status: single male (w/swing partner) SLS Name:montresor | Ms F is a size queen. Sent me an email the other day talking about the subject, describing the three types of cocks she likes: "large, large and large." Ms P is great with as much as 9" -- have watched her get into the zone with one more than once -- but she also likes the smaller ones. Why? "Because I can own them entirely." Meaning -- fellate to the base, etc., with no problem. |
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| Active Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 30 Location: California | Believe it or not - I measured my husbands two longest fingers - the average length is about four inches. That hits my G-spot very nice, thank you! Granted, I have not been with a four inch penis, but I assume that the same would be true regarding penis length. I am petite, so the same might not be true of all women - but with five inches and the proper skill/trajectory/movement - I would probably scream! Do some women have a mental penis-length fetish? Of course. Likewise, some men have a large breast fetish. But is a smallish penis a problem from a physical standpoint? Probably not for me. (But I won't know for sure until I try.) By the way, my two longest fingers are only three inches long - drats! (I need assistance!) |
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| Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 8 Location: kissimmee florida | my hubby is 5.5 but that never seemed to take away from me getting many orgasms throughout our 20 years. we have a 9 inch dildo that he always insist i can fit but guess what ? nature only allows my vagina to take about 6 inches so go with what works for you. that goes for both gals and guys |
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| Swingers Board Addict | When you go to a party and some other guy has a bigger penis do you feel werid? Can't say that I do. Thought that was interesting. WHen we play with a single male, hubby actually likes it when our playmate has a larger tool. its more fun for him to watch when its larger i guess. im not too hung up on size. but being filled up every now and then is nice. but it always amuses me that my hubby actually likes our playmates to be bigger than him .. jana |
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