THE PERIOD: WHAT COUPLES DO DURING THAT TIME? (Non-Swinging)

[clecouple]

As a couple what do you do when your wife or S.O. has her period and she does not want to have penetration because it grosses her out. My wife and I will have intercourse on "The Tail End!", of her period. But, during the 7-8 days she has her period, we do some oral play. Mostly it's her licking me, but like I said I will do oral towards the end of her period and I won't use any fingers into her p*ssy (her request). It's kind of okay with me, but I may use a vibrator/dildo in her.

So, this goes along with the other "PERIOD" question, but I would like to know specific things that couples do "to pass the time" until you can have intercourse again!

[TNT]

Actually we do everything, , except play with other couples or singles, lol.

I found this product a few years ago and it's great. It's called Instead and is a little cup that you insert into the vagina that holds all the flow inside until you take it out. Everything can be done and there is no mess at all. Of course, before I found this product, we still did everything, guess I never knew that I wasn't suppose to.


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Teresa

[good times]

First I have to say it is hard to pick just one in this poll as we do quite a few of those things. What we do most often though isn't included in the poll. We put a good porno in the VCR and do mutual masurbation. Maybe we are the only ones that do that. It is pretty fun though if the wife isn't into anything messy.

R

[TNT]

Originally posted by good times
We put a good porno in the VCR and do mutual masurbation. Maybe we are the only ones that do that. R

Nope, not the only ones that do that, we enjoy the same thing immensely.

Teresa

[customhardtail]

I've had all my plumbing removed, so there is no problem now. Before we did pretty much everything except oral on me.

We have a couple we play with...if she is on her period...she gives oral, and I get a DP!!!!

[jcbicouple]

We don't change a thing. We have sex daily, and it's business as usual for us. Haven't played with anyone else at that time, but aren't opposed to that either, as long as it's ok with them.

[angihay]

I too had a hard time voting in this poll we do several of the choices so i choose the 1 we do the most!

[thump29]

We also do alot of the choices in your poll. We do everything except for oral on me. I am going to have to look into the instead cups tho sounds like a great idea.

[AlaskaFunCpl]

We do everything we normally do, only I don't like him to perform oral sex on me when it's that time. I don't feel clean enough to have his head down there I think there should be multiple choices for the poll

[good times]

We tried the Instead cups, my wife hated them. She said it made a bigger mess removing the cup after we were done than if we had just had sex without it. She thought maybe she used it wrong so she reread the directions and tried it again, same result.

R

[hfire269]

We dont have to worry too much about that time of the month. I have Nor-Plant (its six tubes that are inserted in the arm and they last for 5 years). Since Ive had it I only get my period once every 4-6 months. I love it and we can play whenever we want. If i do happen to have my period we dont do much. I usually give him head and he titty fucks me but thats about it. When i have my period im so tight that he cant even get a finger in me so intercourse is out of the question. As for playing with another couple I wouldnt feel clean enough unless it was just oral on the guys and she got all the fun..lol
Hfire269(female Half)

[kissnpuss]

We never understand the reluctance to have sex during menstruation. If anything, outside of tender breasts, every female I have ever been with is hornier than normal during her period.

My ex and I had great sex during her period and more so when she was pregnant. Puss always enjoys receiving and just as much during her period.

There is nothing unclean about your period that a warmup shower together cannot solve. Leave a tampon in until you are ready for penetration and sit back and enjoy receiving oral. Put a towel underneath (squirters probably already do) and keep a box of diaper wipes handy. No fuss / minimal muss.

Sue Johannson is a long time Canadian sex educator with her Sex with Sue TV show every Sunday night. She is now on the Oxygen network in the USA and was interviewed by Letterman recently and Anderson Cooper last week...both were totally floored by discussions of sex so me thinks that you folks south of the border are a bit more uptight than us Canucks. We tend to be more like the British.

On a recent show Sue explained that during arousal and orgasm the cervix actually tightens up and the flow of blood into the vagina comes to a stop.

Periods are the prelude the THE horniest time of the month which is when you are fertile. (Anyone see the Desmond Morris special a year or so ago where they correlated the amount of flesh a female showed when she was out clubbing to where she was in terms of her fertility cycle? Of course Desmond is the same dude who relates the wearing of red lipstick to the swollen red genitals of female animals in heat.)

Periods are part of nature, nothing to hide, nothing to be ashamed of and certainly nobody should be made to feel 'unclean'...leave that notion to the religious nutcases and 3rd world.

Kiss

[kissnpuss]

Ok, I just read the poll results and upon closer examination realized that the focus of the various voting options is on the Guy Coming!!

What backwards thinking is that anyway? "The little wifey is outta commission but I still gotta cum anyway, soto hell with her needs?"

Honestly, boys and girls (AND ESPECIALLY THE BOYS!)....understand that this whole sex thing is about pleasing the female first...and no it is not your dick that is her number one pleasure device!

[nwin_bifemcpl]

When my monthly visitor comes around, my husband proclaims it's "HUMMER WEEK". But I enjoy doing it so it's not a problem for me...:p Hubby in turn gives me my cramp relief as well and supplies me with and orgasm too... YUM!

Suzie

[Miss_Piggy]

Originally posted by kissnpuss

Honestly, boys and girls (AND ESPECIALLY THE BOYS!)....understand that this whole sex thing is about pleasing the female first...and no it is not your dick that is her number one pleasure device!

Okay.. maybe I misunderstood but isn't it about pleasing everyone? Not the male over the female nor the female over the male.

That also sounds like backwards thinking.