THE PERIOD: WHAT COUPLES DO DURING THAT TIME? (Non-Swinging)

[were4fun2003]

Originally posted by Mich149
II'm the odd one out then. During my time, I don't want to go anywhere near having sex. Oral anal or vaginal. I don't feel clean, quite the opposite really and the couple of times where it has been an accident the mess and visual of it were enough to eternally turn me off it. I will gladly give him his pleasure if I am up to it since it is MY choice not to do anything else, but leave me alone.

i agree totally i was starting to feel like the oddball.....first of all i feel like crap & i agree the visial is a turn off in its self...but i will have to try orgasm by other means to see if it really does help the cramps Dito

[fun_pairTX]

Back in the days before her hysterectomy Mrs Fun and I would just carry on as usual with the exception of oral.

[DuncanDoughnut]

My has this been enlightening!!!! I have often wondered about this. I am so glad that someone asked. I have always felt too "unclean" to have the hubby explore though he's always indicated he was ready, willing and able. Exspecially since I can last up to two weekshead bang O.k. so, for those of you who continue on as normal.... How do you clean up? I understand the shower and baby wipe thing, but what about the sheets? Even if you put something underneath you it would still get horribly stained. Do you just wash it and re-use? I know it's a dumb question, but for someone who hasn't been there, I am very interested. Also, maybe it's just me, but the scent of blood stinks. I mean that litterly. Does that bother anyone? :slam"

[Chemistry_0518]

Most times, My Princess' emissions are relatively light. But there have been a few times when we found it necessary to use some old towels under us. When washing the towels, pour hydrogen peroxide over the spots. This seems the bleach out even the most stubborn stains. And as for cleaning US up, It is so much fun to shower together afterward, although I admit that it oftimes leads to a repeat.

[Roxysbayou]

I pout.

It never fails that when we get a break from the kids to go and meet new people, I always seem to get my period. So, I pout.

Usually, we skip the first few days of my cycle because they tend to be the worst, especially the cramps and such.

Roxy

[WesternSwing]

We will have vaginal intercourse as long as she is not really, really, bleeding. I don't mind so much, but she does. But all else is fair game. And I've gone down on her with a tampon in. No big deal.

Mr. WS

[lauriern]

Aside from the blood and it being a bit messy, there is no reason on earth to treat a woman any differently. In fact many women are hornier during their period. Other than living in the dark ages, when a woman was considered "unclean," whats the problem here?

[ChloeandHubby]

How do you clean up? I understand the shower and baby wipe thing, but what about the sheets? Even if you put something underneath you it would still get horribly stained. Do you just wash it and re-use? I know it's a dumb question, but for someone who hasn't been there, I am very interested. Also, maybe it's just me, but the scent of blood stinks. I mean that litterly.

Keep an old towel specifically for that time of the month. The trick is to soak the towel straight away in cold water. When blood drys it stain. A few squirts of vanish should do the trick. If its a white towel you can always bleach it every so often. My periods aren't heavy so most of it stays on hubbys "member" anyway. A vibrator held on the clit enhances the whole "time of the month" thing. The intense contractions you have with orgasms help the uterus to clean out which is all in all not a bad idea. I don't allow him hubby to go down on me (just don't feel comfy with his head being so close to yucky woman stuff) but I will go down on him. The lady of the couple who we play with has her monthlies the same time as I do, so when we get together there are never any issues of "sorry its that time of the month" Jeesh, what a topic! :rollseyes

[ALilOEverything]

I for one don't care for sex on my period, maybe the last couple days but certainly not the first few days. I just feel too yucky. I have really irregular cycles and it's possible my period is going to come at a very bad time during a situation I've been wanting to have for 4 years. She will definitely be in her period that day as well

So for those of you who have used Instead:

Was it hard to place?
When it's in place does it leak at all?
How long can it be in place during the heavy flow and light flow?
Can the guy feel it in place?
Does it cause discomfort for the woman during sex?
Any idea what kind of material it's made out of? (latex gives me an itchy rash)

[xxoticangel]

If its just the two of us nothing changes except we use a towel to save the sheets. If we are playing with someone else we use "Instead". We were introduced to it by one of our first couples and have used them ever since. Only one single male has asked about it and we explained it was a diaphram (sp?).

[PAyoungCPL]

The "boss" says sex during her period helps with her cramps so
he only thing that changes for us is that we hide the light sheets and do alot more laundry. And for some reason all the chocolate disapears other than that about everything stays the same.

[mustang3]

We'll have sex, but not oral for me until the very end of it. It's not that he won't, it's just I don't want it. In the beginning, I'll hop right in the shower with him.

[newcplnms]

we use Instead or we play in our bathtub. Instead are messing when she pulls them out.

[TerryforSex]

No stopping us.
It's all natural and besides it is sort of kinky to see his penis with some blood on it.
I use a towel under me at that time and everything else is just fine.

[pervgeeks]

Originally Posted by AlaskaFunCpl

We do everything we normally do, only I don't like him to perform oral sex on me when it's that time. I don't feel clean enough to have his head down there I think there should be multiple choices for the poll

Ditto, but we wouldn't want to play with others if I were having my period or the other women was having hers. Between my husband and I, it's not an issue.