Giving the best oral sex to a man.

[SluttyWife]

I was wondering if any of you wanted to share your
techniques for giving (or getting!) a great blowjob.
I myself am very orally fixated. lol
I prefer kneeling while Sir Mike is standing.
He prefers laying down during the act which contorts my
neck and does all sorts of damage to my body.
Any tips? tricks? I'd love to hear!



Slutty Wife

[Brit_Pair]

I've merged two other threads into this one - fellatia's "your best bj technique" and SluttyWife's "Blowjobs" - since the subject matter was identical to that covered here.

[LarrySmith]

I couldn't resist throwing my two cents into the ring

¢¢

1. The mind is the biggest sex organ
Spend a little time building the anticipation. rub/stroke near and around it, with a variety of body parts.
If he percieves that you are enthusiastic about it, it cranks his pleasure up a nother few notches.
When my partner mounts me, grinds around a bit, then goes down on me, while it's really coated with her juices, that really sends me to the edge mentally.

2. Technique:
Deep Throat is fabulous, feeling the pressure of her lips and tongue encircling the base is incredible.
If you can't deep throat, please do not dam the back of your mouth with your tongue and attempt pile driving. It hurts to have the poor little guy's head squashed flat 50 or 60 times in a short space of time.
Be careful with the teeth. A little playful pressure from the incisors while pausing at the bottom of a stroke can be erotic, but scraping back and forth hurts.
Avoid the molars, open wider and spread out your tongue a little more to cradle it in your mouth. You don't have to draw 10 inches of mercury negative pressure suction to give good head. It's more about the pressure of the lips and tongue than the vaccuum.
Finally, a little hand action is nice, but be careful, please. A gliding stroke feels fabulous, squeexing and yanking the skin to the limit of its elasticity like you're trying to peel the shrinkwrap off of a DVD is a bad idea.

OK, I'll go back under my rock now.

[NightGoddess]

Good pointers, Larry! Thanks!
We tried the breath strips, and enjoyed them: he said the menthol has a numbing effect after awhile.
What is also a nice variation without the concern about chemical burns is champagne. The bubbles add a very nice dimension: the lady takes a sip and while holding it, goes down on 'Sir Mike'
Same holds true for guys; try allowing a little of the champagne to drip down the front of your lady's parts...then quickly lick it up. Fabulous.