How to make a guy cum with oral

[cavalier2004]

What is the best way to make a guy cum just by oral. My guy doesn't like to have intercourse when I have my period but I still want to make him cum. So here are the questions? How do I make him cum with oral? How long should it take? I'm always giving him blowjobs and he says it is great but he doesn't cum. And also, do guys like to do it when the girl has her period. Intercourse and/or oral?

[nikkilynn74]

My hubby and I do have sex when I am on my period. I usually try to stay away from the heavy or crampy days though. I have the same problem getting my husband to cum with oral. He has a few times, but it isn't the "norm".

Nikki

[lnk4u]

when i have my period my hubby normally stays clear. too messy for him. plus i do tend to bleed alot. but i have never had any problem making him cum orally. usually in forplay i have to stop if i want to do more than please him orally.

[bear_n_bunny]

I'm blessed with a short period, but if the mood is overwhelming nothing is going to get in the way.

As well, I've never made my Bear cum with a blowjob, but by golly I'm going to keep trying. Practice makes perfect as the saying goes and Bear doesn't seem to mind too much.

-- Bunny

[Katjams2000]

In reply to HOW TO MAKE GUYS CUM WITH ORAL -


I think it totally depends on the guy......gotta pay attention to the clues and also tell him to let you know what he likes. Communication is the key. I've been with a couple guys who were tough cases.......but through communication we got there!
Usually though it isn't too difficult...rhythm, lip pressure, lots of spit and a good attitude are keys! And when you start to get tired it doesn't hurt to play with his butt!!


Kat

[RnLinohio]

I used to have problems getting hubby to cim while giving him a bj, but once i found what works, it isn't hard to do anymore. I agree commnuication is the key, found out you do that gets him close, and keep doing that until he comes.

R

[customhardtail]

When I use to have periods ( I had all my plumbing removed) we had vaginal sex. We just put a couple towels down so as not to get the bed messy.

I cant make D cum with oral either. He has only cum with oral twice ever, but not with me...

[Sakaysi]

I never knew that it was so common for guys not to cum from oral.....
It works everytime for me....maybe i'm just extra sensitive..i dunno

[thump29]

When I have my period my husband stays away from vaginal sex until it is over. As far as making him cum by having oral sex with him it used to be a problem but now it isnt anymore. I have to agree with everybody else communication is the key. Once you find the things he really likes it shouldnt be a problem for him to cum while you are doing oral sex with him.

[ionsawmill]

My wife thinks the best cure for cramps is a night of Olympic-style sex. I even perform oral on her during her period. Never has bothered either of us. If "the painters and decorators are in", I just let her be the judge of whether we'll have sex or not.

As for not being able to come from oral only, I can relate. It took a long time for me to be able to relax enough to let myself orgasm. I think a lot of it is anxiety on the part of the guy. Will she like the taste? Will she be disgusted?

Will she kiss me afterward?

(Not that it bothers me, but some guys will freak if you try this. I kiss my wife after going down on her, so fair is fair.)

[ga_cpl_frknit]

A visit from "Aunt Flo" has never stopped us from having sex. We either do it in the shower or lay down a towel or 2 (depending on how messy we're gonna get). And I agree, sex is the best remedy for cramps. (as for PMS and the mood swings....well, ain't nothin' gonna cure those, LOL)

Stacey has done oral on me during my period (and he says it wasn't too bad) but, I don't really like that, so it's not something we do often. (come to think of it, I think we've only ever done that once)

As for making him cum with a bj....I think maybe we've had 3 or 4 times when I wasn't able to make him cum with a blow job. And I think that was only because we were both exhausted. Otherwise, I have no problems.

~Tracy~

[jtower0]

I am really surprised. I had no idea many guys did not cum with a bj. I thought the issue was spit or swallow. Incidentally, I agree, playing with the butt sure closes the deal faster.

[JustAskJulie]

As far as your guy not coming with oral it could be either of two things (or both).

- It could be your technique. I assume this isn't the first guy you've ever given oral sex to? Or is he. If he isn't, then what about the other guys you gave oral to. Did they come when you gave them blowjobs?

- It could be your guy. If you have given a fair number of guys blowjobs and they've all come in a decent time frame and this guy doesn't then it might be the guy.

Some guys have control issues when it comes to sex, and especially oral sex. They have to be in control of the speed and rhythm in order for them to come. Which basically means that if he's going to come from oral, it's going to be by fucking your mouth. ()()

If either case the best thing you can do is listen to him. Ask him to talk to you while you suck him off and tell you what he likes and wants. Does he want you to speed up/ slow down/ use your hands or what.

There is no one sure fire way to get a guy off by blowing him, nor is there a set time limit. But if you can get him to tell you what he likes and do it, with practice you'll be getting him off in no time flat.

[Vjklander]

Cumming orally,

My girl will pleasure me with a variety of techniques, but when she wants me to cum she will do one of several things.
Use one or both hands in a rotating and stroking motion on the shaft whilst suckling the head.
Use the Hitachi all around but particularly the underside of the shaft and sucking at the last moment.
She will lay on her side with a pillow under her head while I kneel and basically just fuck her mouth. She will use one hand around my cock to control depth and the other will play with my balls and butt.
For most guys, it seems the thrusting motion is necessary or at least helps a lot. I'll try to find a big old text file on the subject I know I have stashed somewhere. I might have to email it individually unless there is a file section on the board here somewhere.
J

PS... ejaculating is only the beginning of a good orgasm if the girl knows what she is doing and the guy will let her.

[Brit_Pair]

Unless I'm especially aroused / sensitised, I can find it more difficult to reach orgasm through being given oral sex (though I almost always get there in the end - it's just that Mrs B has severe jaw ache and biceps like Arnie by the time I shoot!).

I can't claim to have been sucked by that many women (definitely less than 20), and I can't categorically state that they were all first-class cock-suckers (though they all seemed pretty bl**dy good to me at the time! ), but I would have to say that the problem is most likely mine. Either I'm a little desensitised to BJs, or I'm not communicating what I like/need clearly (but when a woman has deigned to take your cock in her mouth, who wants to criticise? )

Jamie probably has something with that 'thrusting motion' business. That 'mouth fucking' certainly sounds an alternative worth trying!