How big is too big???

[NorCal Nites]

My ex-husband had 10+ inches and sent me to the hospital for severe cervical bruising on several occasions (BTW: THANKS, PAUL!!!).

Having one that big is a great big HELL NO to any oral or anal... talk about lockjaw... that's PROBABLY why I have problems with arthritis in my jaw! (TMJ Syndrome)

In regards to size... I'll stick with the 7 that Larren has! It suits me fine, and sometimes, if he's got feet on the wall or footboard, I get hurt anyway... so heck. I'll stay away from those 8s!!!

[frenzb4sex]

I asked the question to Lora, and she says that anything over 9 is unbearable. This, of course, is something that she had a bad experience altogether, because one of the gentleman (term used loosely) basically tried to slam-fuck her, to the point where she pretty much had to stop it. She was sore for two days and had a little blood the day after. Still, even those that are over 9 that have been "gentle" she still gets no pleasure out of.

She says she's like goldilocks--not too big, not too small-just right-she notes that any man with 6 to 7 that can "work it" does just fine in her book....

Tim

[Brit_Pair]

Old Proverb of undetermined source:

If it makes your mouth water . . . it's big enough.

If it makes your pussy water . . . it's big enough.

If it makes your eyes water . . . it might be a touch on the large size!!!

[LadyCleo]

I have to say that anything over 7 is too big for me. I don't like being fucked up to my tonsils.
Hubby is a thick 6"er. Which is PERFECT for me!
I had not ever been with a very well endowed man before, so at the last party we attended, I did play with one. That's one roller coaster ride, I'll never go on again. I was sore for 2 days after. He fucked me like there was no tomorrow. Ouch...
After that, I shy away from anything even close to that large. I want to be albe to walk straight and feel satisfied and comfortable afterward rather than in pain.

But, that's just me. All 5 feet of me.
LC

[ny newbie]

One more viewpoint - from average size woman (5'5 - 125")
Never had one I couldn't take, but I don't think I have every had more than about 8 inches (but who was measuring?)

Personally, I am into fisting...love it love it -
so if I can take that, 10 inches should be no problem!

[hmr]

Originally posted by Additude

I'm just thinking petite women would be less apt to consider a rather large cock compared to 6' tall robust lady who probably wouldn't flinch at one.

Well, let me assure you. They DO make us flinch!! The size, height, or frame of a woman has nothing to do with how she is built internally!

I am 6' tall and I prefer 6 1/2" to 7". Girth is an added bonus. If a man knows how to use it, who needs it. I have had a few large cocks. Some of them good, some of them not so good. Occasionally you run accross someone who knows how to use what he was given, without trying to see if he can see the head of his dick shoot out of your mouth! Somewhere between 9" and 9 3/4" is the largest I have had. It was also the gentlest. I had one that was about 8 1/2 once that made me sore for days. I had another one that was about 9" and couldn't take but a few strokes. Maybe I was more aroused at one time that another, but each time occurred at our monthly party where I'm usually in the same state of mind. Point being, Large cocks still make tall women flinch...

mrs hmr

[Alura]

Any cock that is wielded without concern for his partner is too big.

Mrs. Alura

[MP5nTX]

I have a little over 8 inches. Which is wierd since I am only 5' 9" and about 165lbs. I hurt my girlfriend almost every time we have sex. We can only have sustained sex for about ten minutes before she gets sore. I actually thing sometimes it opens up her cervix....that is a very bad thing. My girlfriend is asian though, so maybe she is smaller inside than most girls.

[mrs good times]

Mr. good times is definatly longer than average so there are positions that are better than others. Doggie style is out of the question but spoon is great. Another suggestion is missionary style with the womans legs together and the man straddling her. You've got to learn how to use it to make everyone enjoy the fun.

[funlooking]

Ive not had anything over 8.5'' but have had cucumbers that were 11'' o more and tookit all. Ive never had a problem taking a big cock though.

[Lorrie]

For me, regarding LENGTH, there is no limit. There are positions I love doing where the guy needs to be quite long--at least 10 inches--to perform REALLY well or the cock comes out the pussy or ass hole.

Regarding WIDTH limit, I'd guess and say around 2 1/2 inches.

[JustAskJulie]

I've only encountered one that was "too big" to the point that I turned it down. It was not a length issue but rather girth... it was bigger around than my wrist. It was long too, but on length alone I would not have turned it down.

[Trace Ekies]

I asked Mrs. Ekies and she said length beyond 8" is too long...Girth is what she likes and hasn't found one wide enough for her to say no...yet.

Trace for Mrs. Trace.

[TravlParty]

From Mrs. viewpoint: over 8 hurts
She has turned some down.

Girth is good

[strathmore]

Originally Posted by Lorrie

Regarding WIDTH limit, I'd guess and say around 2 1/2 inches.

Hmmmmmm... we're talking a soup can here. ??? That's almost 8 inch girth. My 5.5 inch girth, which is above average, is 1.75 inch diameter.
I guess it's anatomically quite possible. Just seems like it might be a tad uncomfortable.

Ladies?