Position of Preference

EmptyNestCa · 01-08-2012, 08:31 PM

When you are with a new partner what is your Position of preference and do you tell your partner or do you just position your self to get in your prefered position? And is it the same position with your spouse?

angelkin · 01-08-2012, 08:39 PM

If I could only do it in one position for the rest of my life, it would be girl (me) on top. I do like all the other positions we do it in, but this is by far my favorite - be it with my husband or another partner. Most of the time, I just ask - can I ride it? LOL, hardly ever does a man turn that down

No need to jockey for position, I just ask for whatever it is I want.

Playful1 · 01-08-2012, 09:17 PM

i prefer me on top or them behind me. as i have a lot of control in those positions i tend to just get into that position to start, then if i want to change, i'll suggest it. i tend to be the more assertive partner when i am fucking someone at a swinger party.

with my main partner, i dont have a preferred position and we tend to both suggest things and/or just move each as we want.

**LFM2** · 01-09-2012, 01:11 AM

Him behind me. I've never been shy about what position turns me on. I've never been a fan of me on top, I wish I was. I've tried. I just don't get the feelings that I get with other positions.

StewartP · 01-09-2012, 02:38 AM

Guy here.
I love woman on top. I love being able to watch the show. I love being ridden!
But it's not easy for me to come like that. For me to finish best it's plain old missionary....

**two4youinswva** · 01-09-2012, 09:01 PM

No preference really. It depends on the lady and what "works" for us at the moment. I have found that some positions that work well with one partner don't work as well with another.

Coupleerotic22 · 01-10-2012, 03:18 PM

My position preference is the one(s) that work best for the partner I am with.

For short periods, I can even deal with the ones that are difficult to assume and cause me pain, I just need to change them up more frequently.

nicecpl33 · 01-10-2012, 06:59 PM

LFM same here. I cant cum on top. Like it best from behind, especially with other guys.

celtic239 · 01-10-2012, 09:46 PM

I like doggie but the wife likes her on top.

wisconsin · 01-10-2012, 11:25 PM

Choice of position varies on several factors .It depends at what stage of playing we are or if it's a new partner or old one and their comfort level. If I am in a mood for erotic show with jumping boobs and hair slowly falling on my shoulders It could be I realized I got a fun partner to play with and I want bring my A game , want tease both of us a little bit and delay my orgasms.

It could be I found out I got a boring partner then I would wrap it up with letting him prefer his position.
My best partners would be comfortable in me leading half way in different positions and then switching roles and in the end they would choose how they usually prefer to cum. My BF usually puts his finger in my ass when I ride him if he needs some extra kick and helps himself if he decided to cum this way.
It depends what curvature of the cock my partner has. With guys whose cock stays straight up and little bent toward his stomach I prefer to ride them. Their cock hits right on my G-spot and clit and I cum after 4-5 trusts multiple times.

With guys whose cocks more heavier and bigger and positioned more forward then up I need some certain modifications if I want cum sometime otherwise it may take a while.

PB&J · 01-10-2012, 11:45 PM

I have to warn men the first time. If I get on top, I cum fast and hard and wet and loud. With PB, we always end in doggy. It's his favorite.

**SW_PA_Couple** · 01-11-2012, 06:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PB&J

I have to warn men the first time. If I get on top, I cum fast and hard and wet and loud. With PB, we always end in doggy. It's his favorite.

Whew! Your description has me all hot and bothered. I will need a cold shower.

Dont.Stop · 01-12-2012, 01:38 AM

I'm out to please. Whatever position she likes I'm game for it. I like when she rides because I can play with titties. Because I like them.

Mrs.DontStop loves the depth of being taken from behind. And the hair pulling.

**LFM2** · 01-12-2012, 06:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dont.Stop

Mrs.DontStop loves the depth of being taken from behind. And the hair pulling.

I'm with Mrs.DontStop on this one. There is just something about the hair pulling that gets my motor going.

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-23-2012, 12:55 PM

I don't really have a position of preference, it just depends on my mood. As for how I get there, I just speak up.

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01-08-2012, 08:31 PM	#1 (permalink)
EmptyNestCa Registered Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 4 Location: california Status: Couple	Position of Preference When you are with a new partner what is your Position of preference and do you tell your partner or do you just position your self to get in your prefered position? And is it the same position with your spouse?

01-08-2012, 08:39 PM	#2 (permalink)
angelkin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 328 Location: Ohio Status: Couple - she posts. Swing Lifestyle Name:angelkin	Re: Position of Preference If I could only do it in one position for the rest of my life, it would be girl (me) on top. I do like all the other positions we do it in, but this is by far my favorite - be it with my husband or another partner. Most of the time, I just ask - can I ride it? LOL, hardly ever does a man turn that down No need to jockey for position, I just ask for whatever it is I want.
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01-08-2012, 09:17 PM	#3 (permalink)
Playful1 A slut who likes to read Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 229 Location: Maryland, US. Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:Sebastiane	Re: Position of Preference i prefer me on top or them behind me. as i have a lot of control in those positions i tend to just get into that position to start, then if i want to change, i'll suggest it. i tend to be the more assertive partner when i am fucking someone at a swinger party. with my main partner, i dont have a preferred position and we tend to both suggest things and/or just move each as we want.

01-09-2012, 01:11 AM	#4 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,763 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Him behind me. I've never been shy about what position turns me on. I've never been a fan of me on top, I wish I was. I've tried. I just don't get the feelings that I get with other positions.
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01-09-2012, 02:38 AM	#5 (permalink)
StewartP Oh Oui! J'aime ça! Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 161 Location: Angoulême, France Status: Couple, but M on the keyboard Swing Lifestyle Name:dylans16	Re: Position of Preference Guy here. I love woman on top. I love being able to watch the show. I love being ridden! But it's not easy for me to come like that. For me to finish best it's plain old missionary....

01-09-2012, 09:01 PM	#6 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,722 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads	Re: Position of Preference No preference really. It depends on the lady and what "works" for us at the moment. I have found that some positions that work well with one partner don't work as well with another.
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01-10-2012, 03:18 PM	#7 (permalink)
Coupleerotic22 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 1,134 Location: Aabama Bear Cave - Don't poke the bear Status: M. Male - MrsCoupleErotic's other half	Re: Position of Preference My position preference is the one(s) that work best for the partner I am with. For short periods, I can even deal with the ones that are difficult to assume and cause me pain, I just need to change them up more frequently.
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01-10-2012, 06:59 PM	#8 (permalink)
nicecpl33 Registered Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 5 Location: Virginia Status: Couple	LFM same here. I cant cum on top. Like it best from behind, especially with other guys.

01-10-2012, 09:46 PM	#9 (permalink)
celtic239 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 524 Location: new york	Re: Position of Preference I like doggie but the wife likes her on top.

01-10-2012, 11:25 PM	#10 (permalink)
wisconsin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 116 Location: WI Status: female part of the coupe	Re: Position of Preference Choice of position varies on several factors .It depends at what stage of playing we are or if it's a new partner or old one and their comfort level. If I am in a mood for erotic show with jumping boobs and hair slowly falling on my shoulders It could be I realized I got a fun partner to play with and I want bring my A game , want tease both of us a little bit and delay my orgasms. It could be I found out I got a boring partner then I would wrap it up with letting him prefer his position. My best partners would be comfortable in me leading half way in different positions and then switching roles and in the end they would choose how they usually prefer to cum. My BF usually puts his finger in my ass when I ride him if he needs some extra kick and helps himself if he decided to cum this way. It depends what curvature of the cock my partner has. With guys whose cock stays straight up and little bent toward his stomach I prefer to ride them. Their cock hits right on my G-spot and clit and I cum after 4-5 trusts multiple times. With guys whose cocks more heavier and bigger and positioned more forward then up I need some certain modifications if I want cum sometime otherwise it may take a while.
	Last edited by wisconsin; 01-11-2012 at 12:02 AM.

01-10-2012, 11:45 PM	#11 (permalink)
PB&J Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,309 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple	Re: Position of Preference I have to warn men the first time. If I get on top, I cum fast and hard and wet and loud. With PB, we always end in doggy. It's his favorite.
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01-12-2012, 01:38 AM	#13 (permalink)
Dont.Stop Swap Meet Enthusiast Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 475 Location: Orlando, FL Status: Couple (Male posts) Swing Lifestyle Name:dontstoporlando	Re: Position of Preference I'm out to please. Whatever position she likes I'm game for it. I like when she rides because I can play with titties. Because I like them. Mrs.DontStop loves the depth of being taken from behind. And the hair pulling.
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01-23-2012, 12:55 PM	#15 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,368 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Position of Preference I don't really have a position of preference, it just depends on my mood. As for how I get there, I just speak up.
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