Masturbating! ;)

[UserName123]

Ok, I was soooooo excited I had to share.

A couple months back I was one of those gals who was not into masterbating. I didn't know how to please myself (weird, I know). I have nothing against women who can, but it was something I had tried on occasion and it never did anything for me.

Anyways, about a month ago, I was horny, hubby was working and I had to try something to give myself some release. I went digging through an old chest of mine ( I call it the pleasure chest) and found some things that didn't get thrown out during our last move. Just some his and her KY and a small little bullet shaped vibe. it's about an inch long so nothing for penetration really.
I decided to go to work on myself. I just slowly teased myself on the lowest setting with the bullet vibe and WOW is all I have to say. The more horned up I got, the more I knew where to put it. Needless to say, it was an AMAZING experience.

Fast forward to about 45 mins ago. I used the same vibe, the same tricks, but something was missing. I used a little of the cooling KY and it still wasn't doing a whole heck of a lot. I was eyeballing the KY container and decided why not give that a go to? It's got a nice tubular shape to it and its big enough, I might be able to use it for decent penetration while buzzing myself too. I gave everything a good soapy wash and went to town on myself yet again.

You would not believe the orgasms I had. I almost cried they were that fantastic!! I want to share it with the world!! If you don't masterbate OMG are you missing out. It's earth shattering! And I'm gonna go do it again right now!





How and when did you discover masterbating? I know its odd that a supposed swinger would not be experienced with something as simple as masterbating, but it was something I never cared or wanted to get good at. I honestly did not know that in the right mood I could please myself just as much if not way more then a man could.

Please do share. I'd like to believe I'm not the only one who is closed off enough to just discover this gratifying activity.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by UserName123

. . . went digging through an old chest of mine ( I call it the pleasure chest) . . .

You've been watching Sue Johanson, haven't you.

[StewartP]

When I was about 10 or 11, at school, a lot of the guys started talking about this new thing they were doing and how it was so much fun. I listened to their stories and tried it for myself but.... nothing. Really didn't see the point.

But ever since I was about 6 I learned how to give myself a nice buzzy feeling by dry humping anything I could: my bed, the pillow.

And I never made the connection between that and what my friends were talking about.

When my best friend had his first ejaculation he was well pleased and told me about it. I refused to believe that this white sticky stuff could come out of your cock when you came. I must have been about 12 at the time and had learned how to orgasm by masturbating, but I had never ejaculated, and I still found it easier to get off dry humping stuff. In fact I was starting to think I would be forever perverted because I found it way easier.

So my friend proceded to show me.... he started jacking off in front of me. I didn't think it was weird at all. We were best friends and had grown up together. He told me he couldn't concentrate with me there, so I had to wait outside the room. Just before he came, he called me in and I was amazed and apalled to see this jizz spurting out of his dick!

That set me masturbating in earnest, hoping always for an ejaculation, and I was well pleased when it finally came!

Now, I think like many men, I masturbate practically daily, whether or not Fiona and I make love.

[angelkin]

I do it infrequently now (maybe 1x per month) but started exploring myself when I was 10 or 11. It was a very long time before I had a *real* orgasm by myself, perhaps when I was in my late teens.

[UserName123]

I just realized I spelled masturbating wrong. Lol, oh well.


Thanks for sharing thus far. Seems I came to myself a little late in life but better late then never.

[ALilOEverything]

Originally Posted by UserName123

A couple months back I was one of those gals who was not into masterbating. I didn't know how to please myself (weird, I know). I have nothing against women who can, but it was something I had tried on occasion and it never did anything for me.

You've described me right here. Every year or so I try just to see if I can but I get bored quickly and go do something else. As I've posted before, I am my own worst disappointment

BUT I have to say this thread gives me hope

[UserName123]

Originally Posted by ALilOEverything

You've described me right here. Every year or so I try just to see if I can but I get bored quickly and go do something else. As I've posted before, I am my own worst disappointment

BUT I have to say this thread gives me hope

I've been trying on and off for forever it seems, and it always felt like my own hand sadly. I even tried using my left and I knew it would be disappointing. I just waited for the perfect time to give it a go. It was great! I really hope you can acheive self gratification, I'm so happy I did!

[shrevecouple]

I was about 20 before I started masturbating and about that same age before I had my first orgasm. I had had several sexual partners and a baby by that time. Sex always was fun and felt good but I was left wondering what it was I was missing. LOL When I found out (with the aide of a bullet like yourself) I think I found every extra moment I could to do it.
Now it is the nonexistent no hands orgasm that I crave. It's now disappointing that I have to masturbate during sex or get oral just to orgasm. I would love to just lay back and enjoy the ride and it just happen. "Look ma no hands! (or vibe)" that's my fantasy.

[SmoothKitty]

OMG! I love to masturbate! We consider it a whole separate sex act and when we are too tired to do a full sex play we have our quickies which is nothing more then masturbating with each other until we cum. I love to masturbate when the house is empty! I will get naked and try to have an orgasm in every room using something in that room! Many women love to masturbate but won't talk about it. One night on a girl's only vacation in the islands, we were all drinking heavily at a club, when we got back to the condo, we had a few more drinks when someone brings up the subject. One of my girlfriends says she doesn't masturbate alot because she doesn't get a lot of pleasure out of it, wellllll, we now have to show her the right way! It was a wonderful night!