I don't like to receive oral. Any other women like that

[JessNMike]

Yes, you heard right I don't like to receive oral. I have had plenty of men give me oral some good some bad. I have had my husband try also. I have never been able to have an orgasm from it. I can have an orgasm with out any touching at all so that is not the problem. I just have never been turned on by it. I see his head going down I'm like hmmm ok. I told a guy I want to try to have an orgasm from oral and asked them to try for me. It went on forever and nothing came of it. Now the minute there is penetration from a penis I pop one off real quick. I am not shy or paranoid about my girl parts. When I have fantasies, oral on me is not part of it. I love to give oral but not receive it. Just want to know if there is any one else like that.

[MN Tom]

Yes. Not a majority by any means, but you aren't unique either.

Same goes for most any preference. Ive talked with guys who dont like oral, gals who dont like fingers, gals who dont like nipple play..

Just make your preference known ahead of time, and be prepared to deal with the inevitable "you've never had good oral then, let me show you" comments.

Actually I played with a gal just last week who doesn't like oral. She told me ahead of time, I was fine. She liked many other things, so missing one facet wasnt noticable.

[two4youinswva]

So, is it just that you can't orgasm from oral, or you just don't like it in general, or both things?

Mrs two4you loves receiving oral, but very, very rarely reaches climax from it. The only time she can orgasm from it is if she has already had at least one orgasm.

[wisconsin]

For me it need to be a combination of two things. My partner needs to be a very good at what he is doing and I need to be able to relax enough to orgasm from oral.
Both things are not easy to combine together. I would say up until I was around 35 I wasn't able to reach orgasm from just oral stimulation and until we started playing in LS. We sharpened our sex skills and learned a lot on a totally different levels.It was a very good workshop and if I ever lose my job I know I will survive. I am kidding. It took only couple good partners to learn my body.
Now I learned more how to control my orgasms, how to delay them if I don't want cum right away and have some built up. I can cum from oral, vaginal stimulation, or both. Pretty cool actually.
Still I need a right partner and comfortable not distracting environment. When we play 3 or 4 some it usually takes couple licks to see if i would be able ever to cum from oral or I better should forget about it and try to cum with vaginal. My ideal partner possesses this level of confidence when he/she goes down on me, I can feel he knows what he is doing, he enjoys it and he will take his time. The minute I feel he works for it instead of enjoying it, I am done. I won't ever get where I need to be.
One-on-one are easier, no distraction and more concentration on your partner and your needs which makes better encounter overall.

[Alura]

Y'know, I don't think I've ever met a woman who didn't like to receive oral... Nope. I don't think so...

Interesting concept, though... Why would a woman not like oral?


Alura

[JessNMike]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

So, is it just that you can't orgasm from oral, or you just don't like it in general, or both things?

Mrs two4you loves receiving oral, but very, very rarely reaches climax from it. The only time she can orgasm from it is if she has already had at least one orgasm.

Its both. I have found that I don't get turned on by it and so it does nothing for me. I'm not sure what it is I don't like about it. I love penetration so I even have tried oral with a toy. It still did nothing for me. So strange.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by JessNMike

Its both. I have found that I don't get turned on by it and so it does nothing for me. I'm not sure what it is I don't like about it. I love penetration so I even have tried oral with a toy. It still did nothing for me. So strange.

Well, no worries. You like what you like, and don't like what you don't like. Is it common? Probably not. But, that's OK too.

If you haven't figured it out already, 85% of guys love to give oral*. The other 15% think it's a requirement and is expected of them. So, you're going to have to be ready to say "no thanks" when it's offered, or if it isn't that big a deal to you, let them do it for thirty seconds and then say "I just have to have you now!".



*Percentages completely made up. Not to be confused with factual statistics.

[shrevecouple]

I like oral, but I think alot of us women learn to like oral so much because alot of us can't orgasm from penetration alone. So in some ways, alot of us don't have much choice other than to like oral. It's what gets us off. To be honest with you, I'd rather have a choice. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to be able to say to mysef. "I think I'll just orgasm from fucking tonight and not worry about oral." Crazy as it sounds that is my biggest fantasy, just to have the ability to sit back and let it happen. "look ma..no hands!"

[Miss_Piggy]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

*Percentages completely made up. Not to be confused with factual statistics.

[Alura]

Much to my surprise, Jess, there must be other women who don't like oral. I guess that answers your question.

You didn't ask, but I'd suggest you tell your partners about your preference before playing with them. I guess 15% (a-hem, two4youinswva) of the guys would be relieved but others, like myself, would prefer to find another partner who would be a better fit to their tastes.

I find my level of excitement increases dramatically when my tongue finds the tastiness of a woman. I'd hate to miss that.

Alura

[StewartP]

I agree with Alura, I love giving oral, LOVE it, but I'd hate to think my partner didn't like it. Much, much prefer she tell me before, and tell me what she does like. That would make me very happy too!

[femnewb4u2]

Count me in as one of those females who would prefer not to be on the receiving side of cunnilingus. Really enjoy giving oral to men and women though. Then again, the rate of partners who enjoyed giving oral have been way less then the 85% figure. Hmmm? Connection there? You bet. lol.