Are you hung like a horse and can screw for hours?

[LFM2]

Random thoughts this morning....

I've often heard from other women, not just here, that they're looking for someone who's hung like a horse and can fuck for hours. Seriously? That scares me. Maybe it's my age and I've experienced a lot of different sized men and have gone for minutes to hours. The hour stuff was mostly in my youth when I could get a handle on it.

I'm not sure why some women prefer the well hung male. Anything over 7 inches is scary to me. It's painful. Literally. I've been with males hung like a hamster to hung like a horse. I like the in-betweens. They're "comfortable". They just fit. Plus, it's no secret I'm a girth girl. I do love girth. Some men are more gifted than others, but I wouldn't trade a single play date I've had. It's all been fun in one way or another.

Now, I got an email from a sweet, single gentleman yesterday who said he could go for hours. That's also scary to me. Is it just my old body screaming "NO!!", but realistically, 20-30 minutes of constant penetration and friction is too much. I can go for several sessions that last for hours, but not hours on end all at once. I love sex, I really do. If I didn't, I doubt I'd be swinging with my sweet husband. But am I the only one who isn't after someone hung like a horse that can last for hours? I hope not. I hope I'm not some anomaly who thinks this way. I've noticed that most letters we get from single males share this same thought... they can go for hours. Do they think that's what we need to hear? What we want to hear? I'm not sure. What are your thoughts, girl on the board. Men, I'm curious what you think, too. Thoughts anyone?

[Dont.Stop]

Seems to me if you're screwing for hours you're missing out on a boatload of other stimulation opportunities. Our last encounter was three hours, and very little of that was actual penetration. To each their own.

Personally, I prefer giving oral until she begs that she's had enough. That's easily an hour spent. And I find it more fun.

[Chicup]

I see that even in Swing Lifestyle chat now and then when some woman (supposed) will say she wants a man who can go for a minimum of X hours.

Honestly I think they are full of shit. Most women I've been with get sore after a couple of go arounds, and frankly I'm not lasting a few hours.

[Coupleerotic22]

We both like to go for hours, BUT it is not strictly penetration. There is a great deal of changing activity (intercourse, oral, foreplay, who takes the lead and brief breaks), also changes in tempo and positions. There is no way I could just "screw" for hours, nor would I or my wife want to. I know my wife would hate it because there have been occasions that we have gone too long and it painful the next day or more. I prefer it when she lets me know if we are going to long and she usually does.

Hours of play time, sure we are both for that. But if you want to screw non-stop for hours on end, we will pass.

As for hung. I am average length with extra girth, so I guess I would fail on both parts for those profiles. That is fine, there are plenty of folks out there that fit what we are looking for and vice versa, and it's not porn stars.

[PB&J]

If they mean out and out bangin' away for hours, no thank you! But if they mean hours of a variety of activities in the bedroom (with breaks for snacks and dinner), interspersed with actual penetration, then that is what I enjoy the most.

[MN Tom]

Well, the part about being huge is just a preference for some gals. Most Ive met are intrigued, but have no desire to play with a huge guy for very long, its something they like in very short bursts.

Some gals might be looser per se, either due to surgery or just how they were made, and maybe they can enjoy a giant cock for hours. I havent met any of those though, maybe they hang around in different circles, who knows.

On the subject of going for hours, that just depends on the feelings at hand.
When I have a condom on, I can go for hours (I have to really concentrate to climax with a condom on), and Ive met a couple of gals who wanted to test that limit. Most aren't that way, (or maybe only want such a long encounter once in a while, such as my wife), but some are. With one gal I spent over 4 hours of penetration in a 6 hour timeframe. Yeah our legs and glutes were fried, and it was something else. That isnt every time though, I'm definitely no porn star. And most gals seem to be plenty happy with 30-60 minutes of penetration from various angles.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22

As for hung. I am average length with extra girth, so I guess I would fail on both parts for those profiles. That is fine, there are plenty of folks out there that fit what we are looking for and vice versa, and it's not porn stars.

Exactly. I'm not seeing where you fail at all. I'm sure you're *busy* all the time!!

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by PB&J

If they mean out and out bangin' away for hours, no thank you! But if they mean hours of a variety of activities in the bedroom (with breaks for snacks and dinner), interspersed with actual penetration, then that is what I enjoy the most.

Yep, me too. We have to have our conversation time along with rehydration time and eatin' time.

[angelkin]

I am with you LFM2 - 7" is perfect and screw for hours - really? About an hour of pentration and I am all done...now the off and on with differing stimulation and break, you bet!

[Ed & Bunny]

Just the thought of screwing for a single strait hour is enough to make my muscles scream out in protest. It sounds more like work than actual sex.

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Originally Posted by LFM2

. . . hung like a horse and can fuck for hours . . . Thoughts anyone?

Well, my clit* is hung like a horse and I can screw for hours -- but I really wouldn't want to keep doing the same person. Let's come a few times and move on.

-- Big Nikki

* I'm a tiny person; that's the only thing physically big about me.

[allaboutthemrs]

Interesting article this week on Foxnews.com related to the subject:



Too Much of a Good Thing? When Sex Lasts Too Long - FoxNews.com

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Originally Posted by Ed & Bunny

Just the thought of screwing for a single strait hour is enough to make my muscles scream out in protest. It sounds more like work than actual sex.

A lot of us (including John and I) had the same muscles-scream reaction, but, since I cycle, I thought of the people who effortlessly and joyfully bike for hours and hours.

Now not everyone is into the slow-fuck, but actually I am. And the idea of an hour-long slow-fuck doesn't put me off.

Still, my 'druthers would be to fuck for a while, come nicely, and move on*.

-- Big Nikki

* except for my husband John and a few favorite girl friends; there cuddling comes after coming. But that's not fucking, that's love-making.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by allaboutthemrs

Interesting article this week on Foxnews.com related to the subject:
Too Much of a Good Thing? When Sex Lasts Too Long - FoxNews.com

An interesting article and can plausibly explain why a lot of men can go for hours. It doesn't mention (that I seen) anything about the women who can tolerate them. Thanks for the link!

[two4youinswva]

You know, of all the men we've ever known that were truly hung like a horse, none of them have ever bragged about it. Actually, none of them have ever mentioned it.
The only way we've found out was when it was mentioned (almost always discreetly) by the spouse, or when the dude dropped the drawers.

Come to think of it, every guy we've met that turns out to be an Energizer Bunny doesn't mention or brag about it either.