What makes an unforgettable blow job?

[angelkin]

So, someone in chat - who shall remain nameless - asked me if I liked giving oral and if I was good at it. Well, yes, I replied I like giving oral pleasure, but I honestly don't know if I am any good at it, LOL. Hubby says I am, but that's like asking if I am fat...how else is he supposed to answer?

That convo got me thinking, what makes a great blow job? I've heard it's enthusiam, but suspect technique has got to have something to do with it!

Give me your best tips for making a blow job mindblowingly unforgettable. Was there a technique she used? Ladies, what's your signature move? Guys, do you like it nice and sloppy, suck hard or soft or mix it up? Do you like a little touch down below? Like your balls worshipped?

Personally, I like to nibble around the head and when very excited...while getting fucked for instance, I tend to bite harder at the base. I supposed this move is more for me than him, but hey, what else is a girl to do with a cock in her mouth while having an orgasm?

I am really wanting to step it up a notch in this department and set myself apart from the pack. Very much looking forward to any assistance you sexy people can offer!

[TheSwingerSet]

Honestly it is very hard to give tips on how to give a good BJ. But I will give it a shot, now remember not every guy likes it the same just as no woman likes to have her cunny licked the same. Here is what I like.

Start slow, make eye contact, there is nothing like looking in your eyes as you take it in your mouth. Then mix it up, hard sucking, light nibbles, a little hand action as you suck on just the head. Then don't forget about the berries, I shave those for a reason. I guess the most important thing is your being into what you are doing for me.

Hope that helps.

[Mr. Truelove]

Originally Posted by angelkin

So, someone in chat - who shall remain nameless - asked me if I liked giving oral and if I was good at it. Well, yes, I replied I like giving oral pleasure, but I honestly don't know if I am any good at it, LOL. Hubby says I am, but that's like asking if I am fat...how else is he supposed to answer?

That convo got me thinking, what makes a great blow job? I've heard it's enthusiam, but suspect technique has got to have something to do with it!

Give me your best tips for making a blow job mindblowingly unforgettable. Was there a technique she used? Ladies, what's your signature move? Guys, do you like it nice and sloppy, suck hard or soft or mix it up? Do you like a little touch down below? Like your balls worshipped?

Personally, I like to nibble around the head and when very excited...while getting fucked for instance, I tend to bite harder at the base. I supposed this move is more for me than him, but hey, what else is a girl to do with a cock in her mouth while having an orgasm?

I am really wanting to step it up a notch in this department and set myself apart from the pack. Very much looking forward to any assistance you sexy people can offer!

All of the above. lol. If you are posting this, you are eager enough to make it work.

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Never having received one, what could I say?

Well actually I think something meaningful. After all, I've been on the receiving end of some analogous things -- including massages.

I think that because of subjective matters on the receiving end, both things peculiar to the receiver and things peculiar to the moment, there's not a great deal that could be said.

But here's two things that go into a great one: 1) good reading of the recipient's responses and 2) the ineffable ability to sense when to do more and when to do less.

Boys? Your guidance?

-- Big Nikki.

[a_d_xxx]

Originally Posted by BigNikki

Boys? Your guidance?

Pure mechanics aside, I think communication is key (especially with an unfamiliar set of genitalia in your mouth/hands).

Blower: Solicit, encourage, and respond to feedback. "Do you like when I stroke like this?" "You taste so good, do you like when I suck/lick/kiss like this?" "Do you want me to touch/stroke/caress your balls?"

Blowee: Be an involved recipient. Tell the blower what you like as it happens, encourage the good, let them know how much you are enjoying/appreciate their effort. "OMG that feels amazing." "Uhh, keep doing that." "I love it when you stroke my cock firmly with your hand."

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[TheRedHalf]

This one is easy.

1. Wet wet wet.
2. I love the tip to about 1/3 of the way down sucked (tongue use encouraged).
3. Balls balls balls.. (Ass play works too ) <<<<<<

This makes me shake uncontrollably during orgasm.

[Coupleerotic22]

I have got to get MrsCE22 on here for this one. Last year she made it her mission to learn how to give the best blow jobs after I made mentioned that a partner gave a great bj.

I already thought my wife gave great blow jobs, but I have to admit she has blown my mind (pun intended) with what she has learned to do.

I cannot tell you all the techniques she uses but here are a few.

• When she starts before I have any erection at all it is incredible. She gets very active with her tongue and it sends chills up my spine.
• Licks from bottom to top, flicking her tongue left to right
• Gentle nibbles, and sometimes not so gentle, all along my shaft, - it is not IN her mouth, she is positioned more like she is playing the harmonica rather than sucking on a lollipop, if that makes sense.
• She deep throats - something about the pressure from the back of her throat really feels good.
• She REALLY deep throats - she will lie on her back with her head hanging off the bed, like she is looking at the wall, and is really able to go deep AND I am in perfect position to play with her breast and pussy.
• She applies a good bit of pressure with her tongue, flicking it back and forth all around the base of my penis, like the soft spot between my leg and abdomen. It almost tickles, but it drives me wild.
• She REALLY sucks it, I don't mean just puts it in her mouth, I mean REAL suction, particularly towards the head. She will create a great deal of suction and then pull back so that I pop out of her mouth making "pop" noise when the suction breaks. The pressure on the nerves around the head is intense and fantastic.
• Enthusiasm!! Her BJ's are great and she REALLY likes giving them, but there are times when she is so gung ho to have it in her mouth it is unreal. When she wants to suck it is great, when she is craving to suck it, it is out of this world.

Those are just a few of her techniques that I can describe. Like I said I hope she comes on here and gives her point of view, because she gives the most incredible bj's ever.

[SW_PA_Couple]

For background: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...blow-jobs.html

[Coupleerotic22]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

For background: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...blow-jobs.html

Followed the link and got this message:

Coupleerotic22, you do not have permission to access this page. This could be due to one of several reasons:

• Your user account may not have sufficient privileges to access this page. Are you trying to edit someone else's post, access administrative features or some other privileged system?
• If you are trying to post, the administrator may have disabled your account, or it may be awaiting activation

[angelkin]

Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22

Followed the link and got this message:

Coupleerotic22, you do not have permission to access this page. This could be due to one of several reasons:

• Your user account may not have sufficient privileges to access this page. Are you trying to edit someone else's post, access administrative features or some other privileged system?
• If you are trying to post, the administrator may have disabled your account, or it may be awaiting activation

Hmmm got the same message. But thanks SW_PA for adding the link...I tend to forget to search before posting.

The info is great, keep it coming so I can keep it cumming Hubby is sacrificing his time daily to coach me...what a swell guy to be so selfless

I will try your techniques and feedback...stay tuned.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22

Followed the link and got this message:

Coupleerotic22, you do not have permission to access this page. This could be due to one of several reasons:

My mistake. Sometimes I forget that as a Swingersboard moderator, I am able to see threads that have been "retired" by the board's host.

To keep myself on-topic, my response to the question is that some women simply have a sixth sense, can apparently read my reactions and, like Star Trek, take me places where no man has gone before. Others only need a subtle verbal suggestion from me, "That's heavenly; now run your tongue up and down here."

Footnote: Although oral sex is wonderful there is nothing better than being face-to-face with my sex partner.

[Coupleerotic22]

Originally Posted by angelkin

Hubby is sacrificing his time daily to coach me...what a swell guy to be so selfless

Her quest for the perfect BJ is time consuming, but I feel it is only right that I support her 100%. If it requires more of my time for her to practice, so be it. I am willing to sacrifice all the time required for her endeavors. And as they say, practice makes perfect.

[lotsoffun201]

Originally Posted by theswingerset

honestly it is very hard to give tips on how to give a good bj. But i will give it a shot, now remember not every guy likes it the same just as no woman likes to have her cunny licked the same. Here is what i like.

Start slow, make eye contact, there is nothing like looking in your eyes as you take it in your mouth. Then mix it up, hard sucking, light nibbles, a little hand action as you suck on just the head. Then don't forget about the berries, i shave those for a reason. I guess the most important thing is your being into what you are doing for me.

Hope that helps.

ditto, ditto and ditto!!!!!

[campgirl2in1]

For me the most unforgettable blowjob my wife ever gave was while I was fucking her.

[Zoe&Wash]

An investigation by the Office of the Independent Counsel, and hearings before Congress afterwards.

Not speaking from experience

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