Girls, do you masturbate?

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Girls, do you masturbate? I do, a lot. It gets me through the day.

At home my hand is just dandy, but at work I use my lovely Lilo, or a dildo or other, to keep my hands out of the action. Stinky fingers aren't a good thing in the workplace. (And fortunately I can be very quiet while doing it.)

I also do it at parties, not to get off, but to get my scent on my hand. It's one of my favorite ways to come on to someone at a party. Just wave your stinky fingers under someone's nose and it's an almost sure-fire way to get their attention.

So, can we have some comments and stories from lady swingers who masturbate? (Hopefully we won't have a flood of posts saying "I don't, I don't." Lets hear from those who do.)

-- Big Nikki

[sweet_tna]

Oh, I do. It's not a daily thing for me, but I've spent entire days playing with myself.

=)

[lotsoffun201]

Wave stinky fingers under someones nose????

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

I've spent entire days playing with myself. =)

Hmmm. You've given me an idea.

I don't masturbate for fun, I do it to get by; when day-time horniness strikes, I just use masturbation to relieve the itch so I'm not distracted by it.

Sex -- loving sex with my John, lusty sex with lovers, swingers, and people I've seduced -- that's for fun, for satisfaction, for swinging ecstasy.

But I should try what you do, play with myself (such an interesting phrase) all day for a day, occasionally.

Husband John has a friend who once or twice a year stays mildly drunk all day. (I think he does it on Armed Forces Day.) He's not a boozer, John hasn't ever known him to be roaring drunk, but does does these days of pleasant drunkenness.

I could do that -- with gentle masturbation.

-- Big Nikki

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Originally Posted by lotsoffun201

Wave stinky fingers under someones nose????

You betcha. It's Love Potion Number Ninety-Nine.

Yes, sure, not everybody loves the smell of Fresh Cunt. But I think if you try it, you'll find it gets a hot reaction from many more men and bi-women than you might expect.

I've known it to get a barely-bi-curious woman to be eager to fuck me good or at least let me go down on her. Not always, but enough to be worth the try.

-- Big Nikki

PS : a 1987 film worth catching is White Mischief, about upper-class English in colonial Keenya (as they said it back then). The movie is really fun to see, but to this topic, there is a scene where Sarah Miles' character attends the funeral of her lover, masturbates in front of everyone, and then wipes her wet fingers on the corpse's lips.

[MsGoneWild]

I masturbate sometimes... but I'd rather have sex. I cum so much harder with a partner and it takes me so long to cum through masturbation that sometimes it's just not worth it. :/

[Learning]

Almost everyday so I can sleep well Though I went essentially my whole pregnancy without. A big O will let me fall asleep fast and sound.

[angelkin]

Once in a blue moon, when feeling especially naughty and hubby's not home, I'll break out my bendy vibe and have at it. Last time, he came home from the store and found me and we f*ucked like rabbits If I had to quantify it - maybe once a month...and we do enjoy mutual masturbation from time to time.

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Originally Posted by Learning

I masturbate almost everyday so I can sleep well. A big O will let me fall asleep fast and sound.

Boy are you spot on. (Pun not planned, but I'll enjoy it nevertheless.)

We women tend to purr and blissfully fall asleep after a nice orgasm. We're content, we're fulfilled, we're maybe dreaming of babies as evolution made us to.

One of reasons I'm glad I'm bi- is the experience of having another woman fall asleep in my arms after I've given her a good orgasm.

Guys, I think, are less likely to fall asleep after sex; perhaps it's a natural tendency or perhaps it's because of the exercise leaving them physically worked up.

-- Big Nikki

[Dont.Stop]

Originally Posted by BigNikki

Guys, I think, are less likely to fall asleep after sex; perhaps it's a natural tendency or perhaps it's because of the exercise leaving them physically worked up.

That goes against every joke ever made about men and sex.

[BigNikki]

Big Nikki here.

Originally Posted by BigNikki

Guys, I think, are less likely to fall asleep after sex; perhaps it's a natural tendency or perhaps it's because of the exercise leaving them physically worked up.

Originally Posted by Dont.Stop

That goes against every joke ever made about men and sex.

I hear you. And there's sure some reality behind it, for just the same reasons that women doze off I guess.

But nevertheless, a brisk workout can leave a guy's heart pounding.

And, not to be tedious in repetation, I've had a fair handful of women fall asleep sweetly in my arms. For me, it's always a treat, enough almost to make me fall in love.

-- Big Nikki.

[SirsAngel]

I have, but seriously usually find it more frustrating in the long run unless on the phone with my Sir and he is whispering in my ear what a good girl I am. Sometimes feel that something is just "wrong" with me, just don't get climax myself that I would sometimes like. (if that makes any sense).......

[Tia Vampire]

I will masturbate once to twice a week. Like you Nikki, if I wake up at 3am in the morning and can't fall back to sleep, a good masturbation seems to do the trick. Think I need to do it now. It's 4:50 am and I can't fall asleep.

[PB&J]

Originally Posted by BigNikki

Guys, I think, are less likely to fall asleep after sex; perhaps it's a natural tendency or perhaps it's because of the exercise leaving them physically worked up.

-- Big Nikki

Well, with us it's just the opposite. My husband can fall asleep immediately following, whereas I am usually up for at least an hour. A good orgasm leaves my heart pounding and I need to calm down first.

I can't get myself off; my orgasms are so intense that if I get close to one, I can't seem to follow through and finish it; I back off from it. So I depend on someone else to do that for me. Besides, I think that sex is so much more fun with two...or three... or.....

[UnaCubiche]

I masturbate at least once a day. I just love to rub the clit and give a couple of slaps to the puss.