Sex Gone Wrong

BigNikki · 06-21-2011, 04:29 PM

Big Nikki here.

Sex bummer going on. An acquaintance of mine, someone I admired maybe influenced me in an odd kind of way, just got busted for running a website facilitating johns and hookers connecting.

A university career down the tubes, shame and criminal defense for now, maybe jail time in the future.

Such a bummer. If only this prudish country would legalize and regulate (for the safety of all) sex for sale.

Sad, sad.

-- Big Nikki

VegasLee · 06-21-2011, 07:09 PM

Yes, as they have in certain counties in Nevada legalize and regulate.

The man made bad decisions.

Why the government keeps getting involved in our lives because people don't understand personal responsibility.

To bad he is going to learn the hard way though. Should have thought it through better.

bbarnsworth · 06-21-2011, 07:26 PM

There are a lot of 'crimes' out there with criminalized behavior based on morals. A hundred years ago, all of us probably would have been arrested in this country. In some countries, you can still be arrested for swinging.

Humanity sucks sometimes.

Powerglide · 06-21-2011, 08:26 PM

Very sad. And what a waste of law enforcement assets.

**Alura** · 06-21-2011, 09:02 PM

I believe we should legalize all "crimes without victims," tax them and use the proceeds to fund health care insurance. Prostitutes, who should pay income tax, should be controlled by the health care system and STDs tracked and treated. Drug addicts should be treated the same way.

Alura

AskMeOk · 06-21-2011, 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bignikki

big nikki here.

Sex bummer going on. An acquaintance of mine, someone i admired maybe influenced me in an odd kind of way, just got busted for running a website facilitating johns and hookers connecting.

And this is wrong, why?

A university career down the tubes, shame and criminal defense for now, maybe jail time in the future.

Because of whose prudish rules, laws..... Or is this fueled by "public opinion?"

such a bummer. If only this prudish country would legalize and regulate (for the safety of all) sex for sale.

You ball-less voters have nothing to do with this......why???

Sad, sad.

-- big nikki

big nikki = big pussy.....

BigNikki · 06-21-2011, 11:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AskMeOk

big nikki = big pussy.....

Big Nikki here.

I'll plead guilty for feeling concern for a friend in trouble and sadness for the apparent tough enforcement of laws I find regrettable.

His difficulties may well be self-inflicted, but that does not negate my sympathy.

-- Big Nikki

Lascivious L&L · 06-22-2011, 04:18 AM

We feel with you, Big Nicki. This is a waste in so many aspects. Waste of this person's time and career, waste of our tax dollars, waste of the justice system's resources not going after real criminals. Alura is so right. Legalize, regulate, and tax all victimless "moral" crimes.

In our neck of the woods we used to have old time "blue laws" that have been overturned. Time to overturn these remaining blue laws against drugs and prostitution, regulate them so as to decrease the health problems and increase the revenue from them as we have done with gambling and the lottery.

AskMeOk · 06-22-2011, 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigNikki

Big Nikki here.

I'll plead guilty for feeling concern for a friend in trouble and sadness for the apparent tough enforcement of laws I find regrettable.

His difficulties may well be self-inflicted, but that does not negate my sympathy.

-- Big Nikki

I did NOT write the post you are responding to..... I don't know why my name is associated with the post, but I do NOT and HAVE NOT made any such personal attacks......

I hope Julie can get to the bottom of this.....

Coupleerotic22 · 06-22-2011, 05:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AskMeOk

I did NOT write the post you are responding to..... I don't know why my name is associated with the post, but I do NOT and HAVE NOT made any such personal attacks......

I hope Julie can get to the bottom of this.....

That is odd, have you logged in at different locations? I would certainly change your password NOW. If you log your PWs on your computer you might want to change that policy.

AskMeOk · 06-22-2011, 05:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22

That is odd, have you logged in at different locations? I would certainly change your password NOW. If you log your PWs on your computer you might want to change that policy.

Thanks, done......

BigNikki · 06-22-2011, 06:46 PM

Big Nikki here.

Quote:

big nikki = big pussy

Thanks all for the posts just above, explaining.

I don't mind being called 'big pussy' if it's meant the right way.

Truth is, small pussy (keep in mind my petite ancestry) but big pencil.

Big pencil is good for a writer who swings.

-- Big Nikki

lovinher · 06-22-2011, 09:45 PM

I wouldn't deal drugs because I believe they should legalize pot.

interested-05 · 06-23-2011, 01:57 AM

this is not intended to start an argument, but it is intended to maturely discuss the subject of prostitution and the description of it being a victimless crime. In some cases it may be victimless, in other situations it may be entirely a crime in the truest sense of the word.
While a woman sometimes chooses prostitution as a life choice, this is not true for all women, which begs the question regarding prostitution as a victimless crime. For a woman who chooses to become a prostitute, then maybe it is victimless. Did she choose this because she wanted to do this or was she pushed into it by uncaring parents, a hardcore boyfriend, or any number of gang or drug related exploiters.
Human trafficking is part and parcel of the sex trade, always has been. Child prostitution is also another crime for which I would submit is not victimless.
Maybe regulation and taxation is one way of combating these issues, but simply glossing over the issue by calling it victimless does not meet the reality test. Feel free to maturely reply, because it is an issue that has plagued mankind since our earliest days. Outlawing the practice has been one way of attempting to deal with victimization of women. Legalizing has been another way of trying to deal with it. Is there truly a best way to minimize the negative impact it has on the victims of abuse and forced sexual activity?
maybe they have it somewhat right in amsterdam and parts of nevada, I don't have the answer to that, but reducing the number of unwilling victims is a worthy goal

BigNikki · 06-23-2011, 12:08 PM

Big Nikki here.

Quote:

Originally Posted by interested-05

this is not intended to start an argument . . .

Sure. It's a very complex issue. My thoughts, though, are on the buzz-saw my one-time mentor stepped into and the grief his family is going through.

-- Big Nikki

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06-21-2011, 04:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
BigNikki two wordsmiths Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 408 Location: Seattle Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:BigNikkiBig	Sex Gone Wrong Big Nikki here. Sex bummer going on. An acquaintance of mine, someone I admired maybe influenced me in an odd kind of way, just got busted for running a website facilitating johns and hookers connecting. A university career down the tubes, shame and criminal defense for now, maybe jail time in the future. Such a bummer. If only this prudish country would legalize and regulate (for the safety of all) sex for sale. Sad, sad. -- Big Nikki
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06-21-2011, 07:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,954 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: Sex Gone Wrong Yes, as they have in certain counties in Nevada legalize and regulate. The man made bad decisions. Why the government keeps getting involved in our lives because people don't understand personal responsibility. To bad he is going to learn the hard way though. Should have thought it through better.
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06-21-2011, 07:26 PM	#3 (permalink)
bbarnsworth Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,871 Location: South Central Indiana Status: Couple	Re: Sex Gone Wrong There are a lot of 'crimes' out there with criminalized behavior based on morals. A hundred years ago, all of us probably would have been arrested in this country. In some countries, you can still be arrested for swinging. Humanity sucks sometimes.

06-21-2011, 08:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
Powerglide Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 168 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Male of a couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Powerglide1A	Re: Sex Gone Wrong Very sad. And what a waste of law enforcement assets.
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06-21-2011, 09:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,160 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: Sex Gone Wrong I believe we should legalize all "crimes without victims," tax them and use the proceeds to fund health care insurance. Prostitutes, who should pay income tax, should be controlled by the health care system and STDs tracked and treated. Drug addicts should be treated the same way. Alura
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06-22-2011, 04:18 AM	#8 (permalink)
Lascivious L&L Afficiando of the Board Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 303 Location: Northern Vermont Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:DandJforplay	Re: Sex Gone Wrong We feel with you, Big Nicki. This is a waste in so many aspects. Waste of this person's time and career, waste of our tax dollars, waste of the justice system's resources not going after real criminals. Alura is so right. Legalize, regulate, and tax all victimless "moral" crimes. In our neck of the woods we used to have old time "blue laws" that have been overturned. Time to overturn these remaining blue laws against drugs and prostitution, regulate them so as to decrease the health problems and increase the revenue from them as we have done with gambling and the lottery.

06-22-2011, 09:45 PM	#13 (permalink)
lovinher Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,013 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim	Re: Sex Gone Wrong I wouldn't deal drugs because I believe they should legalize pot.
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06-23-2011, 01:57 AM	#14 (permalink)
interested-05 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 218 Location: CT Status: couple	Re: Sex Gone Wrong this is not intended to start an argument, but it is intended to maturely discuss the subject of prostitution and the description of it being a victimless crime. In some cases it may be victimless, in other situations it may be entirely a crime in the truest sense of the word. While a woman sometimes chooses prostitution as a life choice, this is not true for all women, which begs the question regarding prostitution as a victimless crime. For a woman who chooses to become a prostitute, then maybe it is victimless. Did she choose this because she wanted to do this or was she pushed into it by uncaring parents, a hardcore boyfriend, or any number of gang or drug related exploiters. Human trafficking is part and parcel of the sex trade, always has been. Child prostitution is also another crime for which I would submit is not victimless. Maybe regulation and taxation is one way of combating these issues, but simply glossing over the issue by calling it victimless does not meet the reality test. Feel free to maturely reply, because it is an issue that has plagued mankind since our earliest days. Outlawing the practice has been one way of attempting to deal with victimization of women. Legalizing has been another way of trying to deal with it. Is there truly a best way to minimize the negative impact it has on the victims of abuse and forced sexual activity? maybe they have it somewhat right in amsterdam and parts of nevada, I don't have the answer to that, but reducing the number of unwilling victims is a worthy goal

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