breaking her into this... simulating a mfm

young_couple · 11-16-2010, 04:48 PM

***not sure if this is in right place or not so feel free to move it

So me and the GF love to talk about MFM or gang bangs... straight ones that is. but we have never go through with one... more so because of her. but she loves to fantacizes about taking a bunch of dicks and it turns her on.... she also likes to wear sexy skimpy or showy outfits out in public, bar, clubs, concerts. well i want to bring her home tipsy one night and tell her i have a suprise for her and its something very new for us so her mind gets going. then i plan to tie her to the bed, and blind fold her. then start messing around with her. but then some how try and make it seem like there is another person in the room. then im going to make her start sucking me. while that is going on i will place something heavy between her legs on the bed to simulate the pressance of someone else on the bed... then i will take a realistic dildo and slide it into her.

girls will have to help me onthis one more... how can i make her think another guy just slide his dick in her? want her to truely believe it is real. then if she truely liked it which she will we can move on from there.

young_couple · 11-16-2010, 06:15 PM

anyone? no ideas? or has anyone done this? lke to hear your story

shrevecouple · 11-16-2010, 07:30 PM

IMHO...You can't simulate that. Nothing feels just like the real thing.

swing.kidz · 11-16-2010, 07:36 PM

WTF? is this serious?

exploringRM · 11-16-2010, 07:36 PM

I agree, it would be very difficult to simulate. If interested in a DP then you can try it out with a dildo just to see how the mechanics and feeling work. But the emotional and physical side of an MFM can't be simulated.

slevin · 11-16-2010, 07:37 PM

If you could make her think there was someone there I think that is a bad idea. The dildo thing is a good idea and simulating something you both fantasize about is a good idea. Go with it.

ALilOEverything · 11-16-2010, 07:50 PM

I don't see how it could simulate how she would feel about an mfm. There is a huge different being taken by a second man blindfolded without consent and setting up a real experience where she would be part of the process. Remember, this ends up being more than just sex, there is an entire process/experience to be involved no matter how you go about it.

UKLibertines · 11-17-2010, 06:19 AM

Dito, this does not seem like it would work.

The Fuse · 11-17-2010, 08:03 AM

Your girlfriend has said she doesn't want to do this for real. How do you think she'll really feel if you make her think you're forcing her? I know how I'd feel: like I was being raped. The fact that it's not real? Only you know that, not her, if it's a good simulation.

I would re-think this seriously. I didn't even respond to this thread at first because I thought no reasonable person would try something like this.

**TNT** · 11-17-2010, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by young_couple

So me and the GF love to talk about MFM or gang bangs... straight ones that is. but we have never go through with one... more so because of her. but she loves to fantacizes about taking a bunch of dicks and it turns her on.... she also likes to wear sexy skimpy or showy outfits out in public, bar, clubs, concerts. well i want to bring her home tipsy one night and tell her i have a suprise for her and its something very new for us so her mind gets going. then i plan to tie her to the bed, and blind fold her. then start messing around with her. but then some how try and make it seem like there is another person in the room. then im going to make her start sucking me. while that is going on i will place something heavy between her legs on the bed to simulate the pressance of someone else on the bed... then i will take a realistic dildo and slide it into her.

girls will have to help me onthis one more... how can i make her think another guy just slide his dick in her? want her to truely believe it is real. then if she truely liked it which she will we can move on from there.

Fantasy and reality are two different things. Just because she likes to fantasize about it, does NOT mean she wants it for real.

What you described can be a fun game to play with each other. We've played the fantasy before, but we/I knew it was a GAME...it wasn't sprung on me nor forced on me...it was discussed between us before the game started.

If you want to try the fantasy out with your GF, discuss it with her first. Trying to deceive someone isn't cool. And, if you do play the fantasy game and she does like it, it still does not mean she will want to make it a reality.

Teresa

young_couple · 11-17-2010, 12:42 PM

i totally understand what you guys are saying... and i guess i didnt explain our situation that well. she like the idea, we fantacies about it all the time and we have even talked about doing it but when it comes right down to it we end up not doing it.

i did do this well something similar last night... i told her i had a suprise for her and it was somehting we have been talking about... she knew it was her toy and not another guy but after words she told me how erotic it was that she was tied and blindfolded and sucking on me while she felt something/someone else slide into her

bbarnsworth · 11-17-2010, 01:20 PM

If you ever try this for real, pulling a surprise man on her without her prior consent, you're in for a world of trouble. This is the sort of thing you read about in juicy headlines of newspapers.

For us anyway, one of the joys of swinging is the combined adventure we have, not an adventure where one is dragging another along. If you want to get from point A to point B, the way to get there isn't to force her. All you can do is open doors. Fantasy is great an all, but when reality comes into play you may find the fantasy isn't real, and the reality so far shocking as to create a serious, serious drama bomb.

Do this the right way.

young_couple · 11-18-2010, 03:12 PM

you must not of read my last post....

**fun4Ds** · 11-18-2010, 04:38 PM

Young couple, I think your saying she's fully aware of this, right ?

Have you considered some of the adult playtoy "love dolls" ? They do have them in a Male gender too. Remarkably life like now days....

Depending on what you can afford, I would think this fantasy play is fun and healthy, depending on your communication. Even if the toy is a secrete to her, let her know you have a new realist toy in mind. And then blind fold her.... I don't think a bean bag chair and cucumber would do, so your gonna have to spend some bucks.

Here is the link to Julies toy shops if you would like to have a look. There's always google also.

We have a thread about robotic dolls too, but I'm still searching. Personally, I think the first realistic robots of the future, will be sex related. Sex does inspire many ideas.

EDIT : Here is the link about robotics Have a look in the forums as well as the toy shops

Fun~

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11-16-2010, 04:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
young_couple Active Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 15 Location: us Status: couple	breaking her into this... simulating a mfm ***not sure if this is in right place or not so feel free to move it So me and the GF love to talk about MFM or gang bangs... straight ones that is. but we have never go through with one... more so because of her. but she loves to fantacizes about taking a bunch of dicks and it turns her on.... she also likes to wear sexy skimpy or showy outfits out in public, bar, clubs, concerts. well i want to bring her home tipsy one night and tell her i have a suprise for her and its something very new for us so her mind gets going. then i plan to tie her to the bed, and blind fold her. then start messing around with her. but then some how try and make it seem like there is another person in the room. then im going to make her start sucking me. while that is going on i will place something heavy between her legs on the bed to simulate the pressance of someone else on the bed... then i will take a realistic dildo and slide it into her. girls will have to help me onthis one more... how can i make her think another guy just slide his dick in her? want her to truely believe it is real. then if she truely liked it which she will we can move on from there.

11-16-2010, 06:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
young_couple Active Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 15 Location: us Status: couple	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm anyone? no ideas? or has anyone done this? lke to hear your story

11-16-2010, 07:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
shrevecouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 262 Location: Louisiana Status: Couple - She posts, He reads Swing Lifestyle Name:Lightsout318	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm IMHO...You can't simulate that. Nothing feels just like the real thing.

11-16-2010, 07:36 PM	#4 (permalink)
swing.kidz Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 77 Location: CA Status: Couple	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm WTF? is this serious?

11-16-2010, 07:36 PM	#5 (permalink)
exploringRM Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 850 Location: York, PA Status: Couple - he posts/reads Swing Lifestyle Name:hereforfunrm	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm I agree, it would be very difficult to simulate. If interested in a DP then you can try it out with a dildo just to see how the mechanics and feeling work. But the emotional and physical side of an MFM can't be simulated.

11-16-2010, 07:37 PM	#6 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,228 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm If you could make her think there was someone there I think that is a bad idea. The dildo thing is a good idea and simulating something you both fantasize about is a good idea. Go with it.

11-16-2010, 07:50 PM	#7 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,850 Location: Michigan Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:aliloeverything	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm I don't see how it could simulate how she would feel about an mfm. There is a huge different being taken by a second man blindfolded without consent and setting up a real experience where she would be part of the process. Remember, this ends up being more than just sex, there is an entire process/experience to be involved no matter how you go about it.
	__________________ ~Lilo

11-17-2010, 06:19 AM	#8 (permalink)
UKLibertines Registered Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 4 Location: UK Status: Couple	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm Dito, this does not seem like it would work.

11-17-2010, 08:03 AM	#9 (permalink)
The Fuse Way too opinionated Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,826 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:The_Fuse	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm Your girlfriend has said she doesn't want to do this for real. How do you think she'll really feel if you make her think you're forcing her? I know how I'd feel: like I was being raped. The fact that it's not real? Only you know that, not her, if it's a good simulation. I would re-think this seriously. I didn't even respond to this thread at first because I thought no reasonable person would try something like this.
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11-17-2010, 12:42 PM	#11 (permalink)
young_couple Active Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 15 Location: us Status: couple	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm i totally understand what you guys are saying... and i guess i didnt explain our situation that well. she like the idea, we fantacies about it all the time and we have even talked about doing it but when it comes right down to it we end up not doing it. i did do this well something similar last night... i told her i had a suprise for her and it was somehting we have been talking about... she knew it was her toy and not another guy but after words she told me how erotic it was that she was tied and blindfolded and sucking on me while she felt something/someone else slide into her

11-17-2010, 01:20 PM	#12 (permalink)
bbarnsworth Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,871 Location: South Central Indiana Status: Couple	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm If you ever try this for real, pulling a surprise man on her without her prior consent, you're in for a world of trouble. This is the sort of thing you read about in juicy headlines of newspapers. For us anyway, one of the joys of swinging is the combined adventure we have, not an adventure where one is dragging another along. If you want to get from point A to point B, the way to get there isn't to force her. All you can do is open doors. Fantasy is great an all, but when reality comes into play you may find the fantasy isn't real, and the reality so far shocking as to create a serious, serious drama bomb. Do this the right way.

11-18-2010, 03:12 PM	#13 (permalink)
young_couple Active Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 15 Location: us Status: couple	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm you must not of read my last post....

11-18-2010, 04:38 PM	#14 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,498 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: breaking her into this... simulating a mfm Young couple, I think your saying she's fully aware of this, right ? Have you considered some of the adult playtoy "love dolls" ? They do have them in a Male gender too. Remarkably life like now days.... Depending on what you can afford, I would think this fantasy play is fun and healthy, depending on your communication. Even if the toy is a secrete to her, let her know you have a new realist toy in mind. And then blind fold her.... I don't think a bean bag chair and cucumber would do, so your gonna have to spend some bucks. Here is the link to Julies toy shops if you would like to have a look. There's always google also. We have a thread about robotic dolls too, but I'm still searching. Personally, I think the first realistic robots of the future, will be sex related. Sex does inspire many ideas. EDIT : Here is the link about robotics Have a look in the forums as well as the toy shops Fun~
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