Vaginal/Anal DP Advice Needed

[MasterHack2007]

ok some of you may remeber me its been awhile since i first posted and me and my wife have come along way in our sexuality. My wife has since opened up to some less than traditional things and our love life has benefited. We recently experienced our first MFM threesome because she was most comfortable with that situation vs FMF or swapping. and while she was nervous at first she ended up really enjoying herself. we are both agreed on doing it again and were interested in any tips as far as DP goes. she has some trouble with discomfort during anal sex primarily due to lube, if we use lube she says it burns and if we dont she is usually fine but not always. so i guess what im looking for is lube recommendations and like a routine as to how to go about starting DP. of course anal for awhile first to get her loosened up, but after that which should orifice should be introduced second? best position? anything and everything you think we should know about DP and the whole MFM experience. thank you for all the help we really appreciate it

PS. I am bi i didnt know if that would change any suggestions or add any new ones about the MFM as a whole but i thought i should add it.

[ebsfgncu]

Having done a few DP's I can help with some of your questions. First, lube is usually a preference thing. KY tends to disappear too quickly for our taste, so we go with Astroglide. It can burn from time to time but that depends on....well.....the butt. Like the vagina, the ass goes through phases as well. So what may burn one time may not burn another.

Anal play is a must before DP. Start with fingers and saliva, work a toy with lube in, then a cock that's well lubed. Once she's nicely stretched and lubed, the DP will be much easier.

Now as a personal preference, I prefer my husband to initally enter me anally while I'm on my back with my legs damn near my ears. Straight on entrance that way...no bends in the road.

As for positions for DP, this is also a preference but also a matter of size. With a long cock in your ass, you can lie on your back, have her straddle you reverse cowboy style, she can put you in her ass and then lie back on you face up. The other parther can then enter her. Like a girl sandwich. She doesn't have much control in this position; she's just along for the ride. The guy in the ass might have a bit of an odd angle so a little longer cock might be needed.

I personally like to be riding on top, regular cowboy style and have someone enter me from behind. I have a little more movement and the cock size doesn't play much of a factor in this.

I'm sure there are others, but I've not made it past these two! It's sensory overload and all parties don't usually last long.

Available for more answers if you need them. Enjoy!

[Massageartist]

You may want to practice with this at home:

MTnage A Trois For Two

Lube is a must. We use Astroglide or you might try a thick waterbased lube. This one works for us:


Maximus

[Lascivious L&L]

We found a lube we liked better than Astroglide or KY. It's called Moist. Found it on Ebay. It has the right consistency, doesn't dry up fast, and has the most pleasant taste, not a consideration for DP necessarily, but lube used tends to get everywhere.

Our best time was me on a couch with her straddling me facing me, with me in her pussy. Our guy took her ass from behind. The feeling was amazing, like he was fucking us both. I did not have to move a bit and came very quickly. His cock rubbed directly against mine and it truly felt as if I was being fucked as much as my wife. Delicious! Of course my wife was in heaven being doubly filled.

I can't recommend highly enough the Bio-Bidet for anyone who plays, whether analy or vaginally, or anyone who doesn't play, for cleanliness. It fits under your present toilet seat and offers warm water directed at your loins, both ass, vagina, and cock. It makes it so easy to clean up your nether regions, really clean, licking clean, no matter what you've been engaged in. Not just for playing, it's lovely after taking a dump to have a clean ass. Less toilet paper is used, since you only need enough to dry off. That doesn't take much because you drip dry very well. It's very nice for my wife to clean her loins as well as for me to rinse off my cock. Fast, easy, and CLEAN!

[LikeMinds321]

Just had to look that up because I've never heard of it. Here is their website listing the many models available...I believe you can even buy one through Amazon.

Bio-Bidet

warm water....mmmmm

LM

Slippery Stuff.

(Originally developed to help surfers/divers get into their wet suits.)

[ebsfgncu]

Oh BTW Master....in case you're curious, I posted a true account of one of my DP sessions on this website under the SwingerStories section. It's called, "Two cocks....a true DP story". You may find it interesting...

Enjoy...

[MasterHack2007]

Thanks for all the replies i appreciate all of the suggestions

[costa_cpl]

If you want to avoid the burning sensation, try a silicone based lube - water based lubes have (I think) a bit of alcohol in them, which causes the burning sensation if the flesh becomes raw. Do remember that silicone based lube should NOT be used with silicone toys.

My wife and I are planning her first dp with an old friend of mine, so I've been thinking bout this topic a lot lately...