On pelvic rest due to pregnancy...ideas?

[Learning]

I'm on pelvic rest for pregnancy. I find out on Wednesday if we can enjoy eac other again. It's been 2 long months...yes the other stuff I can do with him is going on but the birthday is coming up. I want to be able to spice it up but if I'm not able to do much except what i've been doing to him I need some ideas. I was thinking about the strip clubs in the area but I hear they are kind of lame plus not cpl friendly...but you never know...

[Learning]

Awe come on guys, help this non creative gal get creative it's hard to go from swinger to being vanilla again due to pregnancy. Help? DH is the creative one in the relationship...I'm screwed huh?

[TwoAreLooking]

Well, I think we could help more if you were a little more specific about what kind of ideas you are seeking. I guess I mean: what do you need ideas for? Making your honey feel cared for? Staying sexually interested yourself? More clues, luv.

M.

[mikeandjenn2001]

We just got done with taking a long break due to a still unknown medical condition with Jen. During that break, we would still go to clubs or parties and she let me go play while she visited with people.

There were also a few times that we used CL to set something up for me to meet somebody by myself and I would tell her about it when I got home. CL is a crap shoot though (just fair warning). Most times people were what they said, others...

[Learning]

Just sexual ideas to make his bday special if we can't have normal sex. I've been doing all the other stuff but is there something sexy I can do if any? DH is always interested so no worries about his attention wandering. We are very secure

[MrsPandMe]

Well, what "other stuff" have you been doing? In terms of "soft sex" as it is, you guys have probably done all the obvious stuff... A definition of what exactly is "off limits" to you at this point could be in order. I have discovered that non-penetrative sex can be awesome for her!

As for strip clubs being unfriendly to couples, I have been to several with my wife, and I can say I have never run into this. Women are very welcome in strip clubs, especially by the dancers!

Mr. P

[ALilOEverything]

I hear there is one in the area that couple friendly. I've been invited there with another couple who goes there all the time (haven't gone yet). There is another one about 45 minutes south of there which is supposed to be great in the next big town south. I've never been there but I have a girlfriend who used to go there for amature night with her husband all the time. Maybe it just depends on the night?

[bjersr]

I don't know if anal is out of the question, but that is an option.