Guys! How many guys is too many to give to your wife or GF at once??

[mrman]

We are new to the board, well I should say new to posting. My question is how many guys do you think is too many for your wife or girlfriend to have at once.


We have payed with a couple different guys, but it was always one guy. I am going to let her have )3 including me)when we get back to the states (on vacation) So, what would you guys think is too many??

[two4youinswva]

Welcome to the board!

As to your question. She's the only one that's going to know that answer. You should ask her, since it's going to vary from person to person.

[mrman]

Thanks, but I was really, just looking to hear others thoughts on it. Like you say it's her call at the end of the day, just was curious to see tohers answers.

[Chicup]

Its like asking how much pepper does someone like on a salad.

Some will like none.
Others will fall into the usual couple of twists.
Some will want it hard to see the salad under all the pepper.

[VegasLee]

At the club I have seen women that took on 30+ guys in a night and wanted more.

Have also seen some that played once and felt that was enough.

As Chicup said There is no "right" number.

It is all up to the women and what is "right" for her.

[tnt69couple]

Ok my wife told me after a few MFM threesomes that she could take any amount of cocks I wanted to set up. So we had a few foursomes and fivesomes. Then I set her up with 7 guys. They has sex for 4 hours straight. After I enjoyed fucking her very sore pussy. She said that might be all the guys she can handle. I was so surprised. But a few months later on our anniversary she took 12 guys. She said she was more worn out from the 7 than the 12. So I guess as far as physically it would really depend on the guys. As far as emotionally that would really be a preference of your wife.

[WesternSwing]

All at once? You'll have to ask her how many she is comfortable with. My wife for instance doesn't want more than three at a time. My girlfriend would be happy to take on ten that she knows and trusts if I can get them all in one place at the same time.

[sexyannie]

Mr. sexyannie here again, (maybe I need my own username)

Everyone above makes some pretty good points, you ask a lot of different people you will get a lot of different responses. And it depends on your wife's interest in this.

That being said there is probably some room between 3 guys and "too many". My advice would be to build up to that maximum amount in measured steps and enjoy the journey along the way. We have taken that approach, and it has been wonderful. Annie looks amazing in a gangbang, the look of total satisfaction during the gangbang, and the content (albeit exhuasted) look when she is done, it's beautiful. I am constantly impressed with Annie's willingness to please the men we have invited into our relationship.

There are certainly some practical things to consider when arriving at a maximum number. And this is clearly not an all inclusive list either.

1) size of the guys involved
2) how rough the sex is
3) how many times each guy cums

Clearly rough sex is going to lend itself to lower numbers, and the biggest factor in my mind is how many times each guy cums. It's obvious that five guys each taking 3 turns is the same as 15 guys going once. Or the 5 guys may even be more challenging because of their increased stamina on their 2nd and 3rd turn.

Annie's personal record is 9, but I do see 10 in her future.

Nick

[mrman]

Originally Posted by tnt69couple

Ok my wife told me after a few MFM threesomes that she could take any amount of cocks I wanted to set up. So we had a few foursomes and fivesomes. Then I set her up with 7 guys. They has sex for 4 hours straight. After I enjoyed fucking her very sore pussy. She said that might be all the guys she can handle. I was so surprised. But a few months later on our anniversary she took 12 guys. She said she was more worn out from the 7 than the 12. So I guess as far as physically it would really depend on the guys. As far as emotionally that would really be a preference of your wife.

WOW 12, thats a few!! Good stuff though, we were actually thinking 5, we wanted to rent a house at the beach with 4 couples we are good friends with and the girls would take turns with all 5 guys while the other wives watched!

[mrman]

Originally Posted by sexyannie

Mr. sexyannie here again, (maybe I need my own username)

Everyone above makes some pretty good points, you ask a lot of different people you will get a lot of different responses. And it depends on your wife's interest in this.

That being said there is probably some room between 3 guys and "too many". My advice would be to build up to that maximum amount in measured steps and enjoy the journey along the way. We have taken that approach, and it has been wonderful. Annie looks amazing in a gangbang, the look of total satisfaction during the gangbang, and the content (albeit exhuasted) look when she is done, it's beautiful. I am constantly impressed with Annie's willingness to please the men we have invited into our relationship.

There are certainly some practical things to consider when arriving at a maximum number. And this is clearly not an all inclusive list either.

1) size of the guys involved
2) how rough the sex is
3) how many times each guy cums

Clearly rough sex is going to lend itself to lower numbers, and the biggest factor in my mind is how many times each guy cums. It's obvious that five guys each taking 3 turns is the same as 15 guys going once. Or the 5 guys may even be more challenging because of their increased stamina on their 2nd and 3rd turn.

Annie's personal record is 9, but I do see 10 in her future.

Nick

Great answer, thanks, yeah we just like to read about what other couples think!

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by mrman

Great answer, thanks, yeah we just like to read about what other couples think!

Or you just want to read about what other couples have done, as what other couples think really doesn't make any sense unless you are truly a member of the herd.

Do you follow me on this?

[newplaytoys]

the most she has had is 7 and that was by accident . never planned just happend this way . we have a special group of friends we meet and play with . there are 5 of us guys and two women . she loves 3 at once but will handle all 5 of us through an evening

[mrman]

Originally Posted by newplaytoys

the most she has had is 7 and that was by accident . never planned just happend this way . we have a special group of friends we meet and play with . there are 5 of us guys and two women . she loves 3 at once but will handle all 5 of us through an evening

Well in that case she had 3, like you we had a party with some friends, 2 other couples and she ended up doing all 3 of us, but not at the same time.

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by mrman

We are new to the board, well I should say new to posting.

Welcome to the Swingers Board, Mrman.

My question is how many guys do you think is too many for your wife or girlfriend to have at once.

I like to think I'm a "practical" perverted person, so my answer is 4.... although, Mrsfun has only had the delights of three, at once. She did say it seemed like more.

One mouth, one pussy and two free hands equals four men. No anal (for us) and you did mean all at once... right ? Like, all men on the bed at one time ? Or, are you talking about each guy "taking turns", playtime ?

We have payed with a couple different guys, but it was always one guy.

It would be perfect if Mrs.mrman is comfortable with these already, known men. And your comfort with them, is important also.

Have you suggested this potential fun time to either of these men ?

You mention you will "Let her have, 3 men, including yourself ".

Will you be playing a dominant roll ?

Will you provide all the planning, safety, e-mail's and contacting them, hotel accommodations and arrangements for the evening ?

I'm just saying.... You see, Mrsfun wanted to try this and so I was like... Uh OK, let me know who, where and when. It didn't work like that though...

She said she wanted the attention, not all the responcibility...

So then I was like.... oh fuck !

I had to really work a bit to make everything right, ya know

I am going to let her have (3 including me)when we get back to the states (on vacation) So, what would you guys think is too many??

I hope this really works out for you and your wife, regardless of the numbers. It can be fun

My advice is to spend a day before hand and get to know all of Mrs.Mrman's ideas and expectations. Show her all of "your attention" and affection before-hand. It's just is a cool concept, whether it be one extra, or several. The after-glow comes easy, but think about the "before it happens" time as well. Like I say, Mrsfun wanted the attention without all the work making arrangements on this one fantasy.

Oh, and don't forget to give ole fun4ds some of the juicy details after ya get back


Fun4ds : Who's feeling like an idiot at the moment, for not knowing how to address the Mrs ? Is it Mrs.man or Mrs.mrman...

[mrman]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Welcome to the Swingers Board, Mrman.

I like to think I'm a "practical" perverted person, so my answer is 4.... although, Mrsfun has only had the delights of three, at once. She did say it seemed like more.

One mouth, one pussy and two free hands equals four men. No anal (for us) and you did mean all at once... right ? Like, all men on the bed at one time ? Or, are you talking about each guy "taking turns", playtime ?


It would be perfect if Mrs.mrman is comfortable with these already, known men. And your comfort with them, is important also.

Have you suggested this potential fun time to either of these men ?

You mention you will "Let her have, 3 men, including yourself ".

Will you be playing a dominant roll ?

Will you provide all the planning, safety, e-mail's and contacting them, hotel accommodations and arrangements for the evening ?

I'm just saying.... You see, Mrsfun wanted to try this and so I was like... Uh OK, let me know who, where and when. It didn't work like that though...

She said she wanted the attention, not all the responcibility...

So then I was like.... oh fuck !

I had to really work a bit to make everything right, ya know

I hope this really works out for you and your wife, regardless of the numbers. It can be fun

My advice is to spend a day before hand and get to know all of Mrs.Mrman's ideas and expectations. Show her all of "your attention" and affection before-hand. It's just is a cool concept, whether it be one extra, or several. The after-glow comes easy, but think about the "before it happens" time as well. Like I say, Mrsfun wanted the attention without all the work making arrangements on this one fantasy.

Oh, and don't forget to give ole fun4ds some of the juicy details after ya get back


Fun4ds : Who's feeling like an idiot at the moment, for not knowing how to address the Mrs ? Is it Mrs.man or Mrs.mrman...

YEs, she and I are comfortable with the guys, the one that we play with the most is my bestfirend. And yes all at the same time, and I wasnt counting myself, so I guess it's 4 then. And yes, I will make sure everything is set perfect or as close to perfect

I have grown to love seeing her with other men, most of the time I will jump out of the action so I cann get pics, so we can go back and talk about what she liked and what could have made it better for the next time. And you guys will be the first to hear about it. And she said Mrs. Mrman is cool! LOL!