After becoming involved in partner exchange, have you lost interest in XXX video?

[SW_PA_Couple]

After becoming involved in partner exchange, have you lost interest in things like XXX video? Or does interest simple fade with years of age?

~Michael

Who just turned away an offer of an acquaintance' porn "collection", much to the surprise and amazement of the acquaintance.

[AskMeOk]

Hmmm.... never thought about it, but I think so.... Most porn seems geared to a particular male audience. If you aren't deprived or needy, most of the porn seems so stilted, predictable, and devoid of real passion that it just doesn't capture one's interest

IMHO..... YMMV....

[two4youinswva]

I find porn to be boring.
If we watch porn, it's usually in a group setting, and everyone tends to play MST3K*, porn version, while watching it.


*MST3K, for the uninitiated.

[DiscreetDesires]

I've never really been a big porn fan, but on occasion I like it very much.

I've always been more interested in the "Skinamax" type of shows. One in particular that I always use to love was The Red Shoe Diaries.

It seems that even though they don't necessarily show any genitals, it always gets my blood flowing because of the story itself.

[DiscreetDesires]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

I find porn to be boring.
If we watch porn, it's usually in a group setting, and everyone tends to play MST3K*, porn version, while watching it.


*MST3K, for the uninitiated.

LMAO!!!
Hubby and I do that quite often when watching porn. Especially the last one we watched, which was an amateur video by Dr. Moretwat. Who by the way, does not know how to pick amateurs very well.

[LagniappeDC]

Have thought about this question before, and wonder, is it the lifestyle or is it the born? So much of it just isn't "sexy" these days and hardly any of the actors actually seem to be enjoying it. Perhaps this is the way it's always been?? But these last few years it seems particularly rough (I mean, what's with the gagging blowjobs??). I'm sure part of it too is that we've had the privilege of experiencing much of what they show on the screen and it's soooo much hotter in person!

But we still enjoy when it's well produced, female centric, etc. Playboy has a couple of good shows on like Sexcetera, Foursome, etc -- not traditional porn per se, but still can be fun and sexy to watch.

[bbarnsworth]

My wife and I aren't all that interested in porn. That's not to say we haven't watched porn and enjoyed it. We have. For example, part of our getting into the lifestyle involved watching some of the "Screw My Wife Please" series.

Most porn just seems mechanical to me. There's not much in the way of actual enjoyment going on. The performers are being paid to do what they're doing, and 'act' like they're enjoying it. I'm also soooooo over watching guys jack off at the end onto a woman's face. In my experience, very few women like or want facials. For my wife, she'd much rather have it in other places. Yet, virtually every money shot out there these days shows the guy cumming on the woman's face. Yawn. More like YAAAWWWWWN!

Seeing people at a swing club having sex with each other can be highly erotic and a great deal of fun to watch (and hopefully participate!). There's a beauty in watching people do things purely for the sheer joy of the doing. Watching someone do something because they're being paid to do it? Not so good.

As an aside, I always thought it hypocritical that laws in almost all states of the U.S. forbid prostitution, but it's ok to sell your body for sex if you're doing it for a movie. Go figure.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by LagniappeDC

. . . But we still enjoy when it's well produced, female centric, etc. Playboy has a couple of good shows on like Sexcetera, Foursome, etc -- not traditional porn per se, but still can be fun and sexy to watch.

I agree. On the other hand, could be argued this is not porn.

[fun4Ds]

I'll always love porn....

Although, I'm selective of who we make it with


fun4ds

[NWAtlSwing]

We both love porn. She especially likes to see hard cocks in action.

[JustAskJulie]

I never had a huge interest in watching porn, but I would say yeah it's not nearly as interesting when you can watch the real thing.