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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 122 Location: Houston, Texas Status: Married Couple
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Until recently, I never really thought about having more than 1 orgasm. I have always been a 1 orgasm type gal unless I use some type of egg or vibrator to get more when I play alone, but after the first.. it's not as pleasureable and even painful. I'm assuming it's because of all the vibrations from the toys. This past weekend, we were at a swingers club with some friends and two of the ladies that were in our group were talking about how they stop counting after about 10 orgasms per session. OMG!!!!! How does one achieve more than one orgasm in a short period of time? After hubby gets me to that point, my clit becomes extremely sensitive to touch and will make me jump. I've only recently starting having orgasms from penetration, so I'm good there, but would like to know how to have more than one. Especially in a play scenario when women all around you are cumming and cumming.. and I've already.. ahem.. gone.. lol ![]() |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 293 Location: Virginia Status: Female half of a couple Swing Lifestyle Name:prometheius
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![]() I cant imagine 10 orgasms, but I would like too | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,308 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple
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Oh no, it's not acting. Not necessarily, anyway. I can easily orgasm a half dozen times or more in a lengthy session, and as they keep coming they get more intense. Eventually they just roll one into the other and, well, life is good my friends. Oh my.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 122 Location: Houston, Texas Status: Married Couple
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I'm all ears!!! | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,308 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple
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I'm sorry, I have no insights on how to achieve it. When I am in my happy place, I'm just totally living in the moment, and off I go. I haven't used any techniques to develop it, it just happens. But then when you have men using their hands, their mouths, their cocks to pleasure you, I don't honestly see how I wouldn't be able to get off again and again. There are so many delightful variations on the theme: there's the oral orgasm, when he uses his mouth. THEN there's the one I can get while using my mouth on him! Then there's the hands... oh my the hands. And well... what can I say about cocks... The most intense of all are when I'm on top. Those can leave me gasping and helpless for a good ten minutes, but after a break it's time to go again... However, I have never... NEVER had an orgasm while alone. I guess it's just something I like to share .
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 122 Location: Houston, Texas Status: Married Couple
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I couldn't imagine having an orgasm with me just sucking a man or licking a woman. I'd have to have some sort of stimulation. Guess maybe I just need to focus more.. or maybe not focus so much. The woman's body is such a peculiar thing, and I can't even figure it out and I'm a woman! lol! I feel bad for guys if I can't figure my own self out! haha! | |
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| Afficiando of the Board Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 299 Location: Northern Vermont Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:DandJforplay
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Each of us is different in many of our bodies' abilities. Why should it be any different for sex? Some women can have multiple orgasms, some can't. There isn't necessarily a technique that will make you multi-orgasmic. An important clue is that your clit gets super sensitive after an orgasm. That's the way your body works. Some woman don't become super sensitive after orgasm, so can continue on to another orgasm. Rather than want multiple orgasms enjoy what you have. The expectation that all of us can enjoy all the different dimensions of performance in the same way just isn't born out in physical reality. We each are different physically and what we can do during sex is reflects that. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 960 Location: Florida Status: He writes, she corrects spelling. Swing Lifestyle Name:DigginIt
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I'm just a typical guy here so if I say something stupid...just remember, I am a guy. ![]() It has only been recently that my wife has been able to reach a second. We never used toys in the past and until we started using them, her orgasms have always been through oral stimulation or using the hands. Those methods get her extremely sensitive and therefore she needs time to recover. Recently, we have been able to get her to a second one directly following the first but the first one has to be something very gentle like oral and the second one using a toy or hand and it's hit or miss but we still continue to try (work, work, work )We might be causing our own problems though because her first one could probably be reached much more quickly but she likes to get right to the point and then push you off, work it back up and then push you off until she just can't take it any longer which usually makes the first one extremely intense! Maybe I can talk her into not pushing off and seeing if we could hit multiple O's back to back and report the results of our trials . Think I'll see if she is up for some experimenting tonight |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 12 Location: washington Status: couple
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Multiple orgasm are as easy for me as breathing but it hasn't always been that way. At one time, I could only cum once and even then only from oral sex or fingers. The change for me was learning to be comfortable with my body and learning to ask my husband what I want. (that was my own issue, not saying its yours) What I learned was if I had my orgasm from oral sex, instead of trying to get off again from clitoral stimulation move on to sex. And for me once I unlocked the second orgasm they just roll in.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 122 Location: Houston, Texas Status: Married Couple
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It is definitely an awesome feeling, and brings the horny for days afterwards. Hubby is usually quite the tired guy when I'm on a roll like that, since I can't get enough of him! hehe Though he has never complained .. gee.. I wonder why? .. lmao! | |
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