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Question Multiple Orgasms... How?

Until recently, I never really thought about having more than 1 orgasm.
I have always been a 1 orgasm type gal unless I use some type of egg or vibrator to get more when I play alone, but after the first.. it's not as pleasureable and even painful. I'm assuming it's because of all the vibrations from the toys.

This past weekend, we were at a swingers club with some friends and two of the ladies that were in our group were talking about how they stop counting after about 10 orgasms per session.
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How does one achieve more than one orgasm in a short period of time?
After hubby gets me to that point, my clit becomes extremely sensitive to touch and will make me jump.
I've only recently starting having orgasms from penetration, so I'm good there, but would like to know how to have more than one.
Especially in a play scenario when women all around you are cumming and cumming.. and I've already.. ahem.. gone.. lol
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Until recently, I never really thought about having more than 1 orgasm.
I have always been a 1 orgasm type gal unless I use some type of egg or vibrator to get more when I play alone, but after the first.. it's not as pleasureable and even painful. I'm assuming it's because of all the vibrations from the toys.

This past weekend, we were at a swingers club with some friends and two of the ladies that were in our group were talking about how they stop counting after about 10 orgasms per session.
OMG!!!!!

How does one achieve more than one orgasm in a short period of time?
After hubby gets me to that point, my clit becomes extremely sensitive to touch and will make me jump.
I've only recently starting having orgasms from penetration, so I'm good there, but would like to know how to have more than one.
Especially in a play scenario when women all around you are cumming and cumming.. and I've already.. ahem.. gone.. lol
I hear ya! I am a one orgasm gal myself, once in a while I might get two, but its nothing like the first and its usually quick and gone in a blink. I too wonder if these gals are really cumming or could they be just vocalizing to lead one to think they are? Who knows, I just know that once the big O comes for me, more times than not thats all I will get.
I cant imagine 10 orgasms, but I would like too
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Oh no, it's not acting. Not necessarily, anyway. I can easily orgasm a half dozen times or more in a lengthy session, and as they keep coming they get more intense. Eventually they just roll one into the other and, well, life is good my friends. Oh my.
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Oh no, it's not acting. Not necessarily, anyway. I can easily orgasm a half dozen times or more in a lengthy session, and as they keep coming they get more intense. Eventually they just roll one into the other and, well, life is good my friends. Oh my.
Ok.. and how do you do this? Is this something that you've always been able to do, or something that you've had to "teach" yourself to do?
I'm all ears!!!
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I'm sorry, I have no insights on how to achieve it. When I am in my happy place, I'm just totally living in the moment, and off I go. I haven't used any techniques to develop it, it just happens. But then when you have men using their hands, their mouths, their cocks to pleasure you, I don't honestly see how I wouldn't be able to get off again and again. There are so many delightful variations on the theme: there's the oral orgasm, when he uses his mouth. THEN there's the one I can get while using my mouth on him! Then there's the hands... oh my the hands. And well... what can I say about cocks... The most intense of all are when I'm on top. Those can leave me gasping and helpless for a good ten minutes, but after a break it's time to go again...

However, I have never... NEVER had an orgasm while alone. I guess it's just something I like to share .
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I'm sorry, I have no insights on how to achieve it. When I am in my happy place, I'm just totally living in the moment, and off I go. I haven't used any techniques to develop it, it just happens. But then when you have men using their hands, their mouths, their cocks to pleasure you, I don't honestly see how I wouldn't be able to get off again and again. There are so many delightful variations on the theme: there's the oral orgasm, when he uses his mouth. THEN there's the one I can get while using my mouth on him! Then there's the hands... oh my the hands. And well... what can I say about cocks... The most intense of all are when I'm on top. Those can leave me gasping and helpless for a good ten minutes, but after a break it's time to go again...

However, I have never... NEVER had an orgasm while alone. I guess it's just something I like to share .
I've just started experiencing orgasms through penetration within the last month, so I'm extremely happy about that. I wouldn't push my luck for more than one of those a night.. well.. just yet. hehe.
I couldn't imagine having an orgasm with me just sucking a man or licking a woman. I'd have to have some sort of stimulation.
Guess maybe I just need to focus more.. or maybe not focus so much.
The woman's body is such a peculiar thing, and I can't even figure it out and I'm a woman! lol!
I feel bad for guys if I can't figure my own self out! haha!
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Each of us is different in many of our bodies' abilities. Why should it be any different for sex? Some women can have multiple orgasms, some can't. There isn't necessarily a technique that will make you multi-orgasmic. An important clue is that your clit gets super sensitive after an orgasm. That's the way your body works. Some woman don't become super sensitive after orgasm, so can continue on to another orgasm.

Rather than want multiple orgasms enjoy what you have. The expectation that all of us can enjoy all the different dimensions of performance in the same way just isn't born out in physical reality. We each are different physically and what we can do during sex is reflects that.
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I'm just a typical guy here so if I say something stupid...just remember, I am a guy.

It has only been recently that my wife has been able to reach a second. We never used toys in the past and until we started using them, her orgasms have always been through oral stimulation or using the hands. Those methods get her extremely sensitive and therefore she needs time to recover.

Recently, we have been able to get her to a second one directly following the first but the first one has to be something very gentle like oral and the second one using a toy or hand and it's hit or miss but we still continue to try (work, work, work )

We might be causing our own problems though because her first one could probably be reached much more quickly but she likes to get right to the point and then push you off, work it back up and then push you off until she just can't take it any longer which usually makes the first one extremely intense!

Maybe I can talk her into not pushing off and seeing if we could hit multiple O's back to back and report the results of our trials . Think I'll see if she is up for some experimenting tonight
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Mrs. Chicup stopped counting once after 16.

For her its only a toy because otherwise shes too sensitive after 1 and she needs to control it.
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Multiple orgasm are as easy for me as breathing but it hasn't always been that way. At one time, I could only cum once and even then only from oral sex or fingers. The change for me was learning to be comfortable with my body and learning to ask my husband what I want. (that was my own issue, not saying its yours) What I learned was if I had my orgasm from oral sex, instead of trying to get off again from clitoral stimulation move on to sex. And for me once I unlocked the second orgasm they just roll in.
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We might be causing our own problems though because her first one could probably be reached much more quickly but she likes to get right to the point and then push you off, work it back up and then push you off until she just can't take it any longer which usually makes the first one extremely intense!

Maybe I can talk her into not pushing off and seeing if we could hit multiple O's back to back and report the results of our trials . Think I'll see if she is up for some experimenting tonight
I don't do that all the time, but I love to get to that point being so worked up and let it cool down and bring it back up as well.
It is definitely an awesome feeling, and brings the horny for days afterwards.
Hubby is usually quite the tired guy when I'm on a roll like that, since I can't get enough of him! hehe
Though he has never complained.. gee.. I wonder why? .. lmao!
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Really.... There is no need for bragging! haha!
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