Woman gushes / squirts

[beachpatrol437]

hello all new here but maybe some one can give me some help . me and my lady freind have been playing together for a couple monthes on the wek ends. we have great sex she always getts off o couple times all is well. here is where it get weird last time we had i gues what some would sey exteded foreplay she got all worked up and every thing changed her eyes her body temp evry thing for the good so as i thought she was aboyt ready for the finle i mounted her and half way threw she shaid she wanted to let loos on me and wow did she she let loose what was like a qourt of stuff wasnt cum wasnt urine she startrd shaking but in a short we bothe loved it. she said she has never had an orgasum like that before
. my ? is is the normale and what was it? i ejoyed it as she did to just never had that hapenn before any advice will be great full

[fun4Ds]

Originally Posted by beachpatrol437

my ? is is the normale and what was it?

We like to kink it's pretty normal, and welcumed anytime

We call it "taking me there" and enjoy the company of others who like to get there with us...

Welcome to the Swingers board


fun4ds

[LFM2]

Who cares what it really was... Just enjoy it. You don't have to label everything.... Just enjoy what every sexual escapade has to give. We know we do....

Welcome to the Board!!

[MsGoneWild]

its called female ejaculation, and its more common than you'd think. The fluid isn't urine, its mostly water, so the girl IS NOT urinating.

Its rumored that all women can squirt, its about the type of stimulation and sometimes depends on the amount of water drunk beforehand.

I never thought i could squirt--ever. Its incredibly difficult for me to reach orgasm a lot, but one of our swinger friends actually managed to make me squirt a little bit. It was super sexy.

To answer your question, its totally natural and nothing to be concerned about. Most women (as far as i know) don't do it with every orgasm. I certainly dont, and the other girls i know that squirt dont either. It depends on the type of stimulation, and other things.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by MsGoneWild

its called female ejaculation, and its more common than you'd think. The fluid isn't urine, its mostly water, so the girl IS NOT urinating.

I promised myself I'd stay out of this thread, and I lied to myself.....

Just a point of fact urine is mostly water, and if you are well hydrated, quite clear.

[it'sso]

Sounds to me like somebody was "pissed".

[lovinher]

Originally Posted by Chicup

I promised myself I'd stay out of this thread, and I lied to myself.....

Just a point of fact urine is mostly water, and if you are well hydrated, quite clear.

As soon as I saw the heading I thought-CHICUP!


It's urine but who cares? As long as my face isn't down there when it happens.
There's no gland or organ to store anything, especially in that quantity except the bladder.

But then..........

[MsGoneWild]

Originally Posted by Chicup

I promised myself I'd stay out of this thread, and I lied to myself.....

Just a point of fact urine is mostly water, and if you are well hydrated, quite clear.

i'm aware that urine is mostly water (it is liquid after all) mammals don't pass solid urates like reptiles do

There is no waste disposed of through female ejaculate, like there is in urine (uric acid (i think) etc).

[SaSsyNsWeEt]

Originally Posted by lovinher

As soon as I saw the heading I thought-CHICUP!


It's urine but who cares? As long as my face isn't down there when it happens.
There's no gland or organ to store anything, especially in that quantity except the bladder.

But then..........

A little research for you all:

"Female ejaculation (commonly known as squirting and gushing[1]) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be a topic of debate among medical professionals.

Female Ejaculation
While all women have a G-spot, it has been estimated between 10% and 40% of women are capable of ejaculation. The G-spot need not be stimulated for ejaculation to occur, but most women say that their first ejaculation experience came from massaging their G-spot. The response varies from a light sprinkle to a huge gush. I have experienced women who gushed huge amounts of fluid 10 feet out.

Researches have found that although many women feel a slight need to urinate right before ejaculation, the fluid is definitely not urine. Nor does it come from the Bartholin gland which produces a milky, odorless secretion that helps lubricate the vagina when sexually aroused.

Today we now know that the difference between women who squirt and those that don't is in the number and size of their pariurethral glands. They are analogous to the hundreds of tiny glands that constitute the male's prostate gland and are responsible for 15% to 50% of the fluid a man ejaculates.

The myths that female ejaculation is the result of poor bladder control, or excess secretion which sweats from the vaginal walls and pools in the back of the vagina to squirt out during the strong muscle contractions of orgasm, have been proven wrong. For decades many women felt it dreadfully abnormal and tried to hide or avoid it. Physicians in their ignorance tried to cure it. By questioning many women, researchers have established that about one woman in five ejaculates (through her urethra rather than her vagina), some of the time but not always. The stimulation of the G-spot produces both her ejaculation and her deep uterine contractions.

"Women's response to direct stimulation of the G-spot is identical to the response of males when their prostate is stimulated," Perry and Whipple observed. The first few seconds of stimulation produces a strong feeling that they have to urinate. This feeling lasts for two to ten seconds, maybe longer, before changing to a distinctly sexual enjoyment. Whipple felt that most women when faced with this sensation hold back their sexual response to keep from wetting on their partners. Perry theorized that this may explain why up to 25% of American females never have orgasms - they've learned early that to avoid the embarrassment of urinating during sex, they have to hold back.

Women with well-toned PC muscles are more likely to ejaculate and generally have better orgasms. Many women ejaculate easier after they’ve “primed the pump” with a few orgasms, others come on their first one. The common theme seems to be extreme arousal and direct G-spot and clitoral stimulation for an extended time.

It is common for writers of porn films and erotic books to make it appear that male ejaculations "shoot" or "spurt". But Kinsey's observations of hundreds of male ejaculators showed that in about 75% of men the semen merely exudes from the meatus or is propelled with so little force that the liquid is not carried more than a very small distance beyond the tip of the penis. In short, most males ooze rather than shoot. Their semen doesn't spurt, it dribbles out.

Similarly, if a woman expels fluid other than urine from her urethra, she shouldn't have to make it squirt for it to qualify as ejaculation. The fact that many women don't notice it since its not a powerful squirt contributes to the under-reporting of female ejaculation. Other women, including one of my (Dave's) partners, very strongly squirt large amounts of fluid while having powerful G-spot orgasms.

Helen Robinson reported that one of her research subjects was highly orgasmic and continued to ejaculate copiously with each orgasm and would ejaculate a quart of fluid in one session. A teaspoon of fluid is the more common amount, but a cupful is not uncommon.

At Dalhousie University professor Ed Belzer found varying concentrations of acid phosphatase in the women's ejaculate. This chemical had previously been thought to be produced only by males, and in some courtrooms was accepted as evidence to support a rape charge. Belzer's discovery proved that it wasn't urine and also pointed out the existence of a genuine female prostate-like gland.

Not only are the fluids they produce chemically similar, the female prostate acts like the male prostate: when rhythmically prodded, it swells up and then discharges fluid through the urethra. To reach a male's prostate gland, you have to reach in through his anus. In the female, you reach in - at virtually the same angle - through her vagina.

There has been debate whether the ejaculation originate from the bladder or from the urethral glands and ducts. Both may be the case in that a small amount of fluid may be released from the urethral glands and ducts in some instances and mixed in the urethra with a clear fluid that originates in the bladder.

Tests have been done where the bladder is drained of urine before the sexual stimualation and resulting ejaculation. Even though their bladders had been drained, they still expelled from 50 ml to 900 ml of fluid through the tube and into the catheter bag. The only reasonable conclusion would be that the fluid came from a combination of residual moisture in the walls of the bladder and from post draining kidney output.

Regardless, a number of tests have chemical analysis have been done on the fluid. Exactly what it is, isn't known but there is a consistency of results that show a greatly reduced concentration of the two primary components of urine, urea and creatinine, in the expelled fluid.

As Unv of So Calf tests showed the results were clearly "out of the range" to be defined as urine.

But women's sexuality still remains a mystery (as women do in other ways ... as the exact source and exactly what the fluid is remains natures secret."

Hope this helps!

[Chicup]

"but a cupful is not uncommon."

It all comes down to anatomy. There is no place to hide a cupfull of fluid EXCEPT the bladder. No glands is magically and spontaneously producing that much that fast, (its not stored anywhere) and more importantly there isn't any use for it so it makes no sense from an evolutionary stand point.

Mrs. Chicup was a 'squirter' while pregnant. They were great orgasms, she couldn't tell, they didn't smell blah blah blah, but it was most obvious what the situation was to her after.

I don't say this to poopoo anyones fun, I just don't think women should be encouraged to 'learn' how to do this, when the learning process ironically and not coincidentally starts with learning to lose bladder control.

[The Fuse]

Ha ha ha... I think about five of us should start new threads about squirting. Chicup would never get anything done again.

I've done it once. Not anxious to do it again.

[SaSsyNsWeEt]

Originally Posted by Chicup

I don't say this to poopoo anyones fun, I just don't think women should be encouraged to 'learn' how to do this, when the learning process ironically and not coincidentally starts with learning to lose bladder control.

"Researches have found that although many women feel a slight need to urinate right before ejaculation, the fluid is definitely not urine..."

UGH! Normally I don't care so much about what other people think, but I just hate it when guys have opinions and think they know all there is to know about the female body. It has nothing to do with bladder control. I know because I can do and I always make sure to pee before hand. It is all about learning a new sensation and pushing through the fear. If a woman feels comfortable with her surroundings it is quite easy for her to do it. And it is even easier for women who have had natural child birth, because the same muscle needed to push out a baby is use to "push" out an ejaculation. Now I can't speak for anyone else, but the substance coming out of me is not yellow its clear. When my husband tasted it I asked him what it tasted like and he said, very matter-of-fact, that it tasted like sweet butter. Chicup, it is guys like you that make girls like me self conscious about it in the first place.

[Lascivious L&L]

Why would you be self conscious about squirting? Therein lies the key to this silly debate. That key is the mindset that urine is "bad", that losing bladder control during a powerful orgasm is somehow less than "nice". There is so much online space devoted to how the female "ejaculate" cannot be urine demonstrating clearly the powerful want of many people for it to not be urine.

What people want it to be doesn't determine what it actually is. You don't need to go online to figure this out. All you need do is observe actual squirting. Get your face down there. Even photos of squirting show the basic fact that it squirts from the urethra. The urethra is connected to the bladder. Yes, we've all read the many fantasies about how just because it squirts from the urethra it isn't urine.

Yet squirt happens in exactly the same quantities as urine. If you've carefully observed urine you know it often is clear and not yellow. If you've tasted urine you know it can taste sweet, it's not always salty, and often rather tasteless. In the post above the study is cited where women were catheterized so that the only place squirting could come from was the bladder. They emptied their bladders and still squirted (from the bladder) up to 900 ml. That's almost a quart.

The simple, basic, logical explanation is that squirt is urine. No storage vessel has been proposed or theorized that can produce 900 ml quickly except the bladder. Yet today many chase the want that copious squirting is not urine. Piss gets such a bad rap. It is essentially sterile, natural, and part of each and every one of us. Those who denigrate the thought that squirt is urine denigrate the natural and hot wonder of squirting

[metroman]

Originally Posted by beachpatrol437

hello all new here but maybe some one can give me some help . me and my lady freind have been playing together for a couple monthes on the wek ends. we have great sex she always getts off o couple times all is well. here is where it get weird last time we had i gues what some would sey exteded foreplay she got all worked up and every thing changed her eyes her body temp evry thing for the good so as i thought she was aboyt ready for the finle i mounted her and half way threw she shaid she wanted to let loos on me and wow did she she let loose what was like a qourt of stuff wasnt cum wasnt urine she startrd shaking but in a short we bothe loved it. she said she has never had an orgasum like that before
. my ? is is the normale and what was it? i ejoyed it as she did to just never had that hapenn before any advice will be great full

It's fine - enjoy the wave!!!! My lady is a squirter (which is what happened to you) and it's awesome !!!
For us it usually happens with manual stimulation but love it when it happens and I am inside of her!!mmmm
Her's is connected to G spot stimulation and yes the ejaculate is different but Oh so good. I like to move her back to regular orgasm afterward as the ejaculate dries quicker and can cause some discomfort.
Way to go !!

[sexycouple1]

Go with the flow I say.....I have been married for fifteen and it only started happening with my wife in the last two- three years.... The first time it kinda freaked us out ...now we love it when it happens...It doesn't happen every time but when it does its a whole different experience sexually to a certain degree. I think the intimacy we share and the constant communication of what feels right when were together fuels that desire and gets her to that point when we have sex sometimes...maybe all woman can squirt with the right man and with a enough time to hone your skills at lovemaking...