what is like to cumm w/ your partner?

[cpl36996]

I was driving the other day and I asked my beautiful wife:
What is like and what do you feel when you cums?
She turn to me, and looked at me like wtf. then started laughing. Then she goes, well...my inner muscles contracts then theres is a pain, but not the pain that you now, its a different pain, a goooooooood pain, that you dont want it to stop. And when that pain goes a way that's when I cumm and it feels like i want to pee but I can't.
So, my question for the ladies is, when you are so aroused and you cumm, do feel the same or is it different for every women? and how do you release that pee sensation (may be i can teach her how to)

[WeMayTryIt]

Mr. TryIt here. I can't describe the sensations, but we have figured out how to release that feeling.

Releasing the pee sensation is how a woman squirts. I know that statement will cause some to say, "See, I knew it was just pee!" It isn't, the result (at least with the women I've been with who have done this) is noticeably different from urine. But that is a whole discussion in and of itself.

There's a really good article on literotica.com that gives step-by-step instructions on how to achieve this (I'll let you google it, since I'm not sure of the rule on linking to external sites). I won't repeat it here, because they do a great job of spelling it out.

A few things to keep in mind: she needs to be totally relaxed; if she's worried she's going to pee on you, she won't be able to do this. Before you start, make sure she uses the restroom and empties her bladder as much as possible. This will help her relax by knowing that she isn't going to pee on you. Reassure her. The first time we tried this, I told my wife that it isn't urine, but even if it did turn out to be, that's fine. Not that I would be into that and would make it an ongoing thing, but hey, we wash up pretty well, right? That allowed her to relax and work with it rather than holding it back, which is what her brain says she's supposed to do. It may help to give her one or two regular orgasms first, just as you normally would. This furthers the relaxation and gets her in the right frame of mind.

Really, the only things she needs to do are: want to have the experience; relax; not fight it or try to hold it back. She may even bear down with her pubic muscles at the time of orgasm, kind of like she is peeing. When my wife orgasms like this, she almost pushes my fingers out of her pussy.

Lastly, put a couple of towels under her. If this works for you and you both enjoy it, I would suggest getting a Liberator Fascinator Throe. It's a waterproof blanket that's silky on one side and suede-like on the other. They're indispensable and clean up really well in the washing machine.

Hope that helps.

[DiscreetDesires]

I wouldn't say it is any type or form of pain at all.
To me, it's like a radiation feeling. A good wave like feeling over my entire body that gives chills and the center of the feeling is in my womb area.
And the build much like a rollercoaster with a steep fall at the top where it all lets loose.

I cannot comment really on the sensation of needing to pee since I do not get that. I usually make sure to use the restroom right before engaging in any sexual activities, because I have found that it's harder to "get there" when my bladder has any amount of fluid in it.
I've never had a sensation where I felt the need to pee.

[DigginIt]

Originally Posted by cpl36996

I was driving the other day and I asked my beautiful wife:
What is like and what do you feel when you cums?
She turn to me, and looked at me like wtf. then started laughing. Then she goes, well...my inner muscles contracts then theres is a pain, but not the pain that you now, its a different pain, a goooooooood pain, that you dont want it to stop. And when that pain goes a way that's when I cumm and it feels like i want to pee but I can't.
So, my question for the ladies is, when you are so aroused and you cumm, do feel the same or is it different for every women? and how do you release that pee sensation (may be i can teach her how to)

My wife was identical to this when we first started dating. I would say she would probably have said you nailed it perfectly but she could and would release which would end in soaking the bed, me and everything in a small radius

It was about 6 months after we were dating that she hit her first orgasm that she did not have that sensation to pee, she didn't squirt and her body would tighten and go into uncontrollable spasms. She tells me that the two are by far VERY different and she prefers the non-squirting way today because it's a much more pleasurable sensation.

I have asked her how she made the transition and she told me (because I love oral sex so much) she just let herself completely relax and it just happened.

Many people talk about the squirting method and absolutely love it but I often wonder if there is another, greater orgasm they haven't hit yet. I remember reading a Penthouse article a long, long time ago that said most women don't reach a "true" orgasm until their mid-thirties. That's where we were at the time.

Who knows what is better or not, Mrs Diggs prefers the body suddering uncontrollably but doesn't mean everyone does.