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| Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 46 Location: Mississippi Status: Couple
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Hi I was chatting with a potential playmate and he asked me if I was erotic...... That of course got me to thinking and I thought it would be interesting to see what other thought erotic is, or what you think makes a person or situation erotic? |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 733 Location: Naperville, Il Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:EdisonCarter
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Susan here: Erotic for me is having my dress unzipped, my shoulder kissed as it slips away and slowly 'taken' by my lover. Whomever he or she may be.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 31 Location: Gulf Breeze, FL Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ebsfgncu
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Erotic to me (Dawn) is very situational, as are most things in life. For me..then most erotic thing about being with a woman is when I run my tongue along her pussy so very gently that she gasps out loud. And when I'm with a man, its that pained expression a man gets when what he's feeling is so good it's almost hurts. With my husband, erotic is 'hey baby, want to hump or sumthin?' Just kidding...with Jason, erotic is his knowing touch. Only a spouse knows where all the good spots are and how to push them in such a way as to work you to the very edge of the cliff and throw you off.
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
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If someone asked me that I'd have to say "I don't know am I?". Something Erotic is something that turns me on. I'm erotic if I turn you on....
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 489 Location: Central Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:swyngcpl
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Erotic is beyond exciting...something erotic touches something in me that's hard to describe. Rock climbing in my Jeep is exciting, seeing a naked woman is exciting... Thinking I'm gonna get a peak up a woman's skirt is erotic...knowing where the night will end even before you get there is erotic... A woman who makes her intentions clear about her plans for me with her body language but never says a word will drive me to distraction. It's beyond exciting for me...I use the word erotic to describe the feeling. For you girls who enjoy fellatio...for me to know that you're going down on me because it is a genuine pleasure to do so and not because you have to is erotic. Clear as mud, eh? Trace |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 502 Location: new york
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Erotic - for me it is "excitement" with an edge. Something that produces that queezy in your gut feeling in addition to the adrenaline surge. I find playing and watching sports exciting but definitely NOT erotic. Defining "erotic" is akin to defining "pornography", where in a Supreme Court decisions Justice Steven (I believe) said that it was difficult to define (porn) but "I know it when I see it". For me I can't really define "erotic" other than to say "I know it when I FEEL it".
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| Registered User Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 1 Location: Louisburg, Kansas Status: Single Male
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Erotic ... the sensual thoughts that tease and swirl through my mind from the smells of the odors in the air and the room around me, the sights that are near and far, the lights, the sounds, the pursuit and the chase, the view of and the sight of, the taste of, the touch of, the feeling of the feelings that are made to me and around me ... the atmosphere of this place that I am at ... the lust for sexual gratification and acceptance from the woman or women that are the very center of all that cause my desire to soar with need and urgency ... and then the look in her eyes as she looks up at me .... so ... Are you erotic? ... maybe only in the visions of my mind ... but if I have asked ... you certainly have a high chance of being that to me ....OMG!!
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 806 Location: North Central Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:putnamcocpl
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Erotic - A USER DEFINED application EXAMPLE: The swell of cleavage peaking thru a semi open blouse... to some Yes to others.. Ok, but ... And still others.. No.. See USER DEFINED |
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| Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,651 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads
| I think the OP understands this, hence her question in the post........ I think everyone else gets it too, based on all the responses that start with "Erotic to me is....." |
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| Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna
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To me, erotic is something/someone that makes me feel sexy, and makes me quiver. Someone telling me with their eyes that they want me is erotic. Sexy suggestions whispered in my ear are erotic, as are someone playing with my hair or kissing me . . . Sometimes it's the smells in the room, like scented candles or someone's cologne. Music can be erotic . . . Food can be erotic, too. Strawberries and whipped cream or chocolate . . . Little thoughts and dreams that wisp through my mind can be erotic . . . If someone were to ask me if I am erotic, I would flutter my lashes and reply, "I can be." =) |
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I (Mrs Starryeyes) would have to agree with sweet tna... it can be that come hither look, my perfume wafting into another room where my husband is, the light brush on an arm at the right time, or the flicking of ones hair.. just to name a few things that Mr S says is erotic about me.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 184 Location: In a rolling castle Status: Couple
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To the male half of this pair the breasts showing through an opened blouse is the perfect example of erotic. To the female half of the couple being the one whose breasts are showing for others to enjoy is erotic. Maybe that defines erotic for us as being a voyeur and an exhibitionist. It is erotic to enjoy looking for one of us and being looked at for the other. | |
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