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Mrs. YZF here. Is there any other of the ladies on here that prefers anal over regular sex? There have been quite a few times over the last few months that even though YZF and I have sex several times a week we would go up to a couple of weeks with my pussy getting no action and I really did not care. On the times that we had regular sex we would wind up finishing things off with anal. Our polymory third, Quita likes anal but only gives it up once or twice every couple of weeks or when she is on her period.

When we have played with other couples I can't wait for my playmate to stop fucking around in my pussy and taking me anally. The only time that doesn't happen is when my playmate's SO has anal listed as off limits.

I have no problem having an orgasm with anal and they are usually more intense than vaginal orgasms. Among some of the couples YZF and I have played with it is well known that I am always down for anal and at parties I wind up taking more than one guy. What got me to thinking that something may be off was a couple of parties ago I went the whole night without getting any cock in my pussy and if not for getting eaten out by a couple of females my pussy would not have gotten any action at all.

This has gotten me a little weirded out. YZF sees no problem at all.
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...This has gotten me a little weirded out. YZF sees no problem at all.
This seems an odd close to your post.

"Weirded out"...how so?

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i have had my most intense orgasms when having anal sex mmmmmmm
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This seems an odd close to your post.

"Weirded out"...how so?

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Mrs. YZF Here. Well, it used to be that I liked it when I got. Like Quita, our polymory third. Then I started to prefer it to the point where even though I enjoy vaginal sex I could do completely without it. It seems a little strange to me.
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That brings up a great point. We were at a club talking to a couple and the woman stated she had three different types of orgasms. Vaginal, clitorically (is that a word?) and anally.

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That brings up a great point. We were at a club talking to a couple and the woman stated she had three different types of orgasms. Vaginal, clitorically (is that a word?) and anally.

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Mrs. YZF here. I guess I have all three because they are all different. I cum from clitoral stimulation (tongues, toys, fingers and sissoring with another female works here). I cum vaginally and I do not have to explain what works best here. And I cum without my clit being rubbed and I really don't like clitoral stimulation when I am being pounded. I cum fine without it. Anally, it is something else. I find it such a turn on that sometimes I will have a small orgasm when my butt is being lubed up or a cock barely starts penetrating. My best orgasms are when I am being pounded anally in a missionary position.

I think it all more of a mental thing. Some men who are great pussy eaters will get me off, but a female who has barely addequate skills gets me off much quicker and harder because of the very fact that a female is doing it.
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Mrs. YZF,

While your attitude regarding anal sex is different than most women, we don't find it a bit wierd.

Don't think twice about it and keep using your booty to please yourself and others.

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I see no problems with that... I've been with at least a couple of gals who definately preferred anal to vaginal sex (not that they don't enjoy vaginal intercourse as well) - but given a choice, they would always choose to be fucked in the ass.

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Mrs. YZF here. Is there any other of the ladies on here that prefers anal over regular sex? There have been quite a few times over the last few months that even though YZF and I have sex several times a week we would go up to a couple of weeks with my pussy getting no action and I really did not care. On the times that we had regular sex we would wind up finishing things off with anal. Our polymory third, Quita likes anal but only gives it up once or twice every couple of weeks or when she is on her period.

When we have played with other couples I can't wait for my playmate to stop fucking around in my pussy and taking me anally. The only time that doesn't happen is when my playmate's SO has anal listed as off limits.

I have no problem having an orgasm with anal and they are usually more intense than vaginal orgasms. Among some of the couples YZF and I have played with it is well known that I am always down for anal and at parties I wind up taking more than one guy. What got me to thinking that something may be off was a couple of parties ago I went the whole night without getting any cock in my pussy and if not for getting eaten out by a couple of females my pussy would not have gotten any action at all.

This has gotten me a little weirded out. YZF sees no problem at all.
Why worry about this? It's just how you are wired and there is nothing wrong with it. Just enjoy the.....gift you have. Do you ever come to Ohio?

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Mrs. YZF here. I guess I have all three because they are all different. I cum from clitoral stimulation (tongues, toys, fingers and sissoring with another female works here). I cum vaginally and I do not have to explain what works best here. And I cum without my clit being rubbed and I really don't like clitoral stimulation when I am being pounded. I cum fine without it. Anally, it is something else. I find it such a turn on that sometimes I will have a small orgasm when my butt is being lubed up or a cock barely starts penetrating. My best orgasms are when I am being pounded anally in a missionary position.

I think it all more of a mental thing. Some men who are great pussy eaters will get me off, but a female who has barely addequate skills gets me off much quicker and harder because of the very fact that a female is doing it.
It's most likely because the A-spot is being hit with anal sex and some women really like that but that is the least effective way to get to it.

What you want your man to do is have you bend over doggystyle and he inserts you with his dick but doesn't thrust just go all the way in and squeeze his pevlic floor like he's doing kegels inside of you. This allows him to hit your back vaginal wall directly and not using the rectum. It is also good for him because he is squeezing his prostate which gives a powerful orgasm BUT if he doesn't exercise his pelvic floor a lot he will come fast due to his nerves being weak in that area.

Get him to do squats with some type of resistance be it weights or resistance bands (every other day) and run for a good while(everyday) and eat 1.5 hours before and up to 1.5 right after he works out. Squeeze your pelvic floor(like when you prevent peeing) when you lift up during the squat. Make sure he get good amounts of complex carbs, good fats, and protein. This will help his pelvic floor get real strong and give him endurance so he can hit your walls harder and harder the stronger he gets and also allow him to have more orgasm and last longer than he would now.

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Along with squats you can use something like the ezcome which helps strengthen the vagina specifically but that still help with the pelvic muscles but doing squats with some type of resistance and the ezcome will have the pussy feeling goooooood.

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Mrs. YZF, you sound like a wonderful playmate. My favorite women are the one's eho enjoy anal like you do.
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Mrs. YZF here. Is there any other of the ladies on here that prefers anal over regular sex? There have been quite a few times over the last few months that even though YZF and I have sex several times a week we would go up to a couple of weeks with my pussy getting no action and I really did not care. On the times that we had regular sex we would wind up finishing things off with anal. Our polymory third, Quita likes anal but only gives it up once or twice every couple of weeks or when she is on her period.

When we have played with other couples I can't wait for my playmate to stop fucking around in my pussy and taking me anally. The only time that doesn't happen is when my playmate's SO has anal listed as off limits.

I have no problem having an orgasm with anal and they are usually more intense than vaginal orgasms. Among some of the couples YZF and I have played with it is well known that I am always down for anal and at parties I wind up taking more than one guy. What got me to thinking that something may be off was a couple of parties ago I went the whole night without getting any cock in my pussy and if not for getting eaten out by a couple of females my pussy would not have gotten any action at all.

This has gotten me a little weirded out. YZF sees no problem at all.
I would agree. You are not weird at all, if it feels good, go for it...Rather knida sexy actually... By chance are you a squiter from anal???
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I often tell my partner that I peferr anal over anything else, its like a rush that i get when I am having anal sex, I get to cum twice, in the front from all the excitiment and in the back is a wonderful feeling .

I squirt from both ends,

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