When do you lose your virginity?

OhioCouple · 05-15-2003, 09:22 PM

I read an article the other day in which a female claimed to be a virgin in spite of having had numerous anal penetrations. Would you consider this to still be a virgin since she had not had vaginal sex?

Which brings up oral sex or masturbation, are you still a virgin if you have oral sex to completion of orgasm?

What do ya'll think?

Lori

Roxysbayou · 05-15-2003, 10:06 PM

I can understand calling yourself a virgin because the hyman hasn't ever been broken. But then again, the anal and oral kind of puts off that angelic image that you get when you think of a virgin. I just don't get it, if you are going to go that far with it, just freakin do it.

LovelyLynn · 05-15-2003, 10:06 PM

Well, My personal opinion is that anyone who has sexual contact is no longer a virgin. Oh sure you have a technical virgin but heck, I was never one for technicalities.

Like for example, if one virgin man perfomed anal sex on another, then are they both still virgins? Maby just the guy that did the poking is? Hehe, no, they both participated so neither are a virgin anymore.

I think virginity means to have never of had sex before, that means vaginal, anal, and even oral. I dont see how where something is put and what is put there has anything to do with it.

But hey, thats just my opinion lets here some more.

**Alura** · 05-15-2003, 11:14 PM

Who would want to be a virgin? Who would want to have sex with a virgin?

Mr. Alura

LovelyLynn · 05-15-2003, 11:39 PM

Here now!!

I was a virgin until 20, and I was happy

,besides I think a lot of people find it a turn on.

SDFuntimes · 05-16-2003, 02:25 AM

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Originally posted by Alura
Who would want to be a virgin? Who would want to have sex with a virgin?

Mr. Alura

I had my share of virgins when I was in high school and into college. Come to think of it, I had a couple other guys' share of them too, haha.

Uneed_Love · 05-16-2003, 04:49 AM

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Originally posted by LovelyLynn
Like for example, if one virgin man perfomed anal sex on another, then are they both still virgins? Maby just the guy that did the poking is? Hehe, no, they both participated so neither are a virgin anymore.

May be it's cultural but I can't even imagine how a man can be called a virgin... well of course if he has never make love with someone else but the difference between "BEFORE and AFTER" is strictly psychological for a man while for a female it's not only in her mind BUT also in her body. This is why I can only talk about virginity for females who have kept their hymen "safe"... If a woman have had previous sex BEFORE the hyman is broken YES she is still a virgin even if she is not "innocent" as the lamb which is newborn IMHO.

Kisses

JC

Uneed_Love · 05-16-2003, 04:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Alura
Who would want to be a virgin? Who would want to have sex with a virgin?

Mr. Alura

Who want to be a virgin ? Marie
Who want to have sex with a virgin ? Joseph

JC the Holly Spirit

OhioCouple · 05-16-2003, 05:11 AM

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Originally posted by Uneed_Love
Who want to be a virgin ? Marie
Who want to have sex with a virgin ? Joseph

JC the Holly Spirit

Oh, for crying out loud! Sppppeeeeewwwwwww, fizzle, fizzle..... I am just going to call Gateway and establish a line of credit and set up a delivery schedule so that I'll receive a new keyboard monthly! Maybe they have a buy eleven and your twelveth one is free program!

Lori

Uneed_Love · 05-16-2003, 05:20 AM

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Originally posted by OhioCouple
set up a delivery schedule so that I'll receive a new keyboard monthly!

Please Lori for keyboard's sake it's better to finish drinking Your coke and swallow it before to read on the swingersboard

Kisses

JC

naughty A · 05-16-2003, 08:22 AM

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Originally posted by OhioCouple
Which brings up oral sex or masturbation, are you still a virgin if you have oral sex to completion of orgasm?

Yes. but then I grew up Catholic, I suppose you could ask Clinton for another opinion.

Technical virgin is the definition I think of when I think of virgin ...

But while this girl who argues she is a technical virgin while engaging in anal sex... I think I would disagree, does that mean my definition hinges on penetration?

How about masturbation with a dildo or vibrator, that would remove the hymen, so would she still be a virgin after that???

Naughty A.

perlwizard · 05-16-2003, 09:32 AM

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Originally posted by SDFuntimes
I had my share of virgins when I was in high school and into college. Come to think of it, I had a couple other guys' share of them too, haha.

Ahem, I'd like my share back, thank you very much.

:p

bbcpl4cpl · 05-16-2003, 10:42 AM

I tend to think of a virgin as the technical definition too. Without vaginal penetration. I shed my (technical) viginity at 15. If what you are saying about any sexual contact then I lost my virginity at 7 years of age...course that's another story....lol...

Tigress xx

:evil:

**Alura** · 05-16-2003, 12:09 PM

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Originally posted by bbcpl4cpl
...course that's another story....lol...

Tigress xx

:evil:

I'm sure we'd all love to hear it, Tigress...

Mr. Alura

Roxysbayou · 05-16-2003, 12:16 PM

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Originally posted by Alura
I'm sure we'd all love to hear it, Tigress...

Mr. Alura

Great minds think alike! I almosted posted the same thing when I first read her response, but thought that I better not go there.

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OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	When do you lose your virginity? I read an article the other day in which a female claimed to be a virgin in spite of having had numerous anal penetrations. Would you consider this to still be a virgin since she had not had vaginal sex? Which brings up oral sex or masturbation, are you still a virgin if you have oral sex to completion of orgasm? What do ya'll think? Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

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Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female SLS Name:likethat	I can understand calling yourself a virgin because the hyman hasn't ever been broken. But then again, the anal and oral kind of puts off that angelic image that you get when you think of a virgin. I just don't get it, if you are going to go that far with it, just freakin do it. __________________ I put the "grrrr" in swinger baby, yeah! --Austin Powers

05-15-2003, 10:06 PM	#3 (permalink)
LovelyLynn Active Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 25 Location: S.W. Missouri Status: M. Female	Well, My personal opinion is that anyone who has sexual contact is no longer a virgin. Oh sure you have a technical virgin but heck, I was never one for technicalities. Like for example, if one virgin man perfomed anal sex on another, then are they both still virgins? Maby just the guy that did the poking is? Hehe, no, they both participated so neither are a virgin anymore. I think virginity means to have never of had sex before, that means vaginal, anal, and even oral. I dont see how where something is put and what is put there has anything to do with it. But hey, thats just my opinion lets here some more. __________________ Lynn Thank You,Drive Through:)

05-15-2003, 11:39 PM	#5 (permalink)
LovelyLynn Active Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 25 Location: S.W. Missouri Status: M. Female	Here now!! I was a virgin until 20, and I was happy ,besides I think a lot of people find it a turn on. __________________ Lynn Thank You,Drive Through:)

05-15-2003, 11:14 PM	#4 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,126 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Married to Mrs. Alura	Who would want to be a virgin? Who would want to have sex with a virgin? Mr. Alura

05-16-2003, 10:42 AM	#13 (permalink)
bbcpl4cpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 182 Location: Maryland Status: Happily Married Couple SLS Name:bbcpl4cpl	I tend to think of a virgin as the technical definition too. Without vaginal penetration. I shed my (technical) viginity at 15. If what you are saying about any sexual contact then I lost my virginity at 7 years of age...course that's another story....lol... Tigress xx :evil: __________________ Nothing in this world is accomplished without passion.

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