? for the guys

[lovinher]

As others have mentioned if I start to think about it I'm screwed. Also for me, a bit too much to drink will sometimes keep me going longer than I would like. At 50 I haven't noticed a decrease in volume, if anything I'm shootin more-strange.
I like to think out it as a hell of a work out. I know Lovinhim don't mind.

[heidiandjohn]

Thanks for all the suggestions everyone! He doesn't have any medical problems at all and is not overweight. Exercises regularly too.

[willyoats]

If there is really no medical condition and he is otherwise well toned, the decrease in ejaculate volume and longer time to orgasm sounds like normal middle-aging stuff.

The worrying about it might be a killer, though. I know it doesn't do much good to say "you shouldn't feel that way" because you may not be able to control how you feel. It's tough to concede that you can't do all the things you used to be able to do. Welcome to the club. And get over it!

I remember the swinging friend of ours who lamented to me when he was about 45, that he was having ever increasing trouble getting it up for a 4th or 5th encounter on Saturday night. I wasn't all that sympathetic, needless to say!

Point: a natural change is not the same thing as an actual problem. Not adapting to natural changes is a problem of maturity Get over it!

[Just Passing By]

Just another hint from your body that you're no longer 23. And a mild one at that.

[Sir Dude]

I've always been satisfied with the volume but I have never been much of a shooter.

Sometimes I'll squirt maybe 3-4 inches but that is only occasionally and when I have a very intense orgasm.

Usually it just kind of slowly comes out. It seems thicker than it do in porn. Maybe that has something to do with it.

I would love to be able to squirt 2-3 ft.

[SecretAsianMan]

Well... if all else checks out medically - it just sounds like the normal effects of age

Also - how often does he ejaculate? This always plays a major factor in the volume I produce... if it's been a week or more - then it always seems like BUCKETS which can explode outta me with quite a bit of distance/force.

If it's only been a little while (i.e., I've already cum once that evening & this is my second or third time around) then the volume is significantly less and the time it takes for me to achieve that orgasm is usually MUCH longer

[magnum]

Originally Posted by heidiandjohn

Thanks for all the suggestions everyone! He doesn't have any medical problems at all and is not overweight. Exercises regularly too.

Hey, one more suggestion for you guy's. I have in the past used a product called Ogoplex...It is not a viagra type of pill; it is more for sensation, if that makes sense.

I really liked it, it some how intensifies the "feeling". I saw an ad for it in a magazine some time ago; it is based on a European herbal formula.
The number on my bottle is: 1-866-ogoplex.

Let me know if you have the chance to try the product. Good luck, have fun, be cool.

Cheers