women and drinking

[darted]

dont know if this question has been asked before. but here goes my wife turns into a sex maniac with no inhibitions when she has too much to drink does that happen to anybody elses wife or partner by the way i think its great xx

[bbarnsworth]

Some people respond to alcohol that way, yes. Age old 'problem'

Personally, for my wife and I, if someone is obviously drunk we won't play with them. Not that it can't be fun to have sex while drunk, just drama avoidance.

[SheLovesTheSun]

I can get turned on when I'm drinking, but if I drink too much (which isn't much, I'm a lightweight, lol) then I just get sleepy and want to sleep.

[SecretAsianMan]

I've always had some worries about having sex with someone who's REALLY drunk -- part of it is the whole worrying about my own legal-safety (i.e., someone could claim she was too drunk to give consent) ... another is simply that those times I've been with really drunk people hasn't been exactly GREAT. (sure, they've got lowered inhibitions - but they also reek of alcohol - they get sloppy and don't always pay attention to their partners & what they're doing) ... and I'd rather not be the guy which can only get the hot-crazy sex with a drunk-girl. (She'd better be just as willing to do me while she's sober as she is while she's drunk)

My ex had a tendency to get REALLY horny when she got drunk ... and I didn't really care for the "I'm drunk - service me NOW!" -type attitude she'd take on when she did get that way.

[Elena]

I definitely lose my inihibitions when I have been drinking. That said, I know how many I can have to have a good time without being sloppy drunk. Lets just say I drink enough to get to the happy stage and then I am good for the night.

[exploringRM]

My wife gets wilder after a drink or two. She's always been that way, even before swinging..getting more sexy on the dance floor at a regular club for example. It really doesn't take much for her to get a little loosened up.

[PB&J]

I don't like to drink when I play. I find that I enjoy myself much more when I'm sober. I don't need alcohol to lose my inhibitions, and then I can remember what I did the next day, without a headache. Much better that way.

[exploringRM]

Originally Posted by PB&J

I don't like to drink when I play. I find that I enjoy myself much more when I'm sober. I don't need alcohol to lose my inhibitions, and then I can remember what I did the next day, without a headache. Much better that way.

There is a big difference between a few drinks and getting to the point of forgetting what you did..yes?

[PB&J]

Originally Posted by exploringRM

There is a big difference between a few drinks and getting to the point of forgetting what you did..yes?

Agreed, but the OP says "too much to drink". That's what I was responding to.

[two4youinswva]

For Mrs two4you, the very first couple of sips of champagne get her motor running. This also happens to a lesser extent with other adult beverages.

Now, on the very rare occasion that she over imbibes, she will talk a lot of shit about what she's going to do to you, but in the end, it ain't gonna happen.

[ALilOEverything]

It is true that the more I drink the hornier I get but it's no fun being sloppy drunk so I really limit how much I drink. The best sex swinger sex I've ever had was little to no alcohol.

[Karmickiss]

HI All,
Good thread... I think I read in someplace....like "The Joy of Sex" book that said something to the effect of...one or two drinks can enhance things, but too much to drink, can ruin things"...Not an exact quote, but very similar.

I had a tendency to drink a little too much when I was younger. I was more self conscious then, more shy...etc. so it felt like the alcohol was helping....however.... We are talking about "too much" to drink, and whenever I've got it on in that state...I didn't truly "feel" much, and things started feeling as false as the liquid courage was/is. For me, one or two might help me out, especially at any club or event, b/c I haven't gone to many..and going solo it helps a bit. The flip side is a risky feeling for me...I am very conscious of limiting drinks, being a single female, too..It just makes more sense, I wouldn't want my senses dulled to potential dangers.

It's funny, though, I rarely drink at all anymore. Like I said, literally one or two....when in a new situation and as long as I don't have to drive. I know the first thing alcohol takes away is judgement..or at least alters it. But that's just for me, b/c I've found my limits and sober sex is really the best for me....or with very little alcohol. Interesting thread......Wishing you all well today!...Best, karmic

[CXXC]

Mrs. CXXC and I have discovered, through an experiment if you will, that 1-2 drinks were enough to become a social lubricant. Any more and it became a hindrance.
I will generally have 1-3 beers in an evening if we are going to play. At 225, 6'4" thats a drop int he bucket over a 4 hour period. However, Mrs. CXXC is only 5' tall. Even with her high metabolism, 2-3 drinks will get her very buzzed.
She has fery few inhibitions when it comes to sex and play. Once she gets beyond the 2-3 drink limit, she has absolutely no inhibitions about ANYTHING! However, this is also where she too gets very sleepy and just looks to curl up in a nice comfy place.

[SecretAsianMan]

A funny thing I used to say was...

"She doesn't have to get wasted drunk ... just drunk enough to think that I'm a GOOD IDEA"

[ALilOEverything]

Originally Posted by CXXC

However, this is also where she too gets very sleepy and just looks to curl up in a nice comfy place.

This is totally me! I'm one to get tired faster than anyone else so too much just knocks me out.

I also make sure I always have a bottle of water with me and generally drink water between each drink. I do this because the times when I've drank too much was generally because I was drinking because I was thirsty (talk about a vicious cycle!).