Blow Job Etiquette

OhioCouple · 05-08-2003, 08:33 PM

I got to thinking today about men and what they do with their hands during a blow job. (I know it's dangerous when I think.

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Gentlemen, where are your hands when you are being given a blow job?

Are you smoking a cigarette, relaxed with your hands behind your head, feeding yourself strawberries, holding your woman by her mane and guiding her? Something else? Just what are you doing with your hands while being lovingly serviced?

Lori

DragonsLair · 05-08-2003, 08:37 PM

My hubby gives me a backrub while he gets his blowjob. The better job I do, the better job he does. And the better job he does, the better job I do. It's a win win situation all around.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

mikemary945 · 05-08-2003, 09:54 PM

Either stroking her face and hair, or trying to move her around where I can reciprocate at the same time!

Mike

perlwizard · 05-08-2003, 10:04 PM

Usually playing with her hair, lightly guiding her movements.

Vjklander · 05-08-2003, 10:19 PM

It all depends on the moment I guess. If I'm standing I'll usually be grabbing onto a bedpost or something for support. If I'm laying back, I'll usually have a firn grasp of the sheets ot mattress. If I'm kneeling I'll usually be 'guiding' her head. She really likes to have her head held and her mouth fucked, so I'm happy to comply. And if we are laying down I'll play with her clit too.
J

bbcpl4cpl · 05-08-2003, 10:45 PM

My husband and I tend to do it with me leaning down over his stomach. Not quite in a 69, though we love that too. So he's usually playing with my clit with his fingers while I am blowing him.

Other than that, he likes to gently stroke my hair while I do it.

Tigress xx

Roxysbayou · 05-08-2003, 11:33 PM

His hands are either griping the bed or stroking my hair. Depending on the postion, playing with my clit.

WildFlower · 05-09-2003, 04:14 AM

My husband is usually stroking my hair and massaging my neck.

Chris&Amelia · 05-09-2003, 06:35 AM

Assuming it's not a 69 position, I'm doing one of three things...

1) Stroking her hair.
2) Massaging her breasts or playing with her nipples.
3) If I can reach, messaging her clit.

**Alura** · 05-09-2003, 10:32 AM

Mrs. Alura needs no guidance. I used to hold her hair out of the way so I could see what she was doing but it's short now so I don't need to do that. I touch her shoulders or breasts depending on the position but usually I just watch her. She's gorgeous with her smile wrapped around my cock and that wonderful twinkle in her eyes.

Mr. Alura

CABob · 05-12-2003, 09:32 PM

What I do with my hands depends on the blow jober not necessarily the blow jobee. My hands could be clinging to the sheets for dear life, screaming religious language at the top of my lungs. Or my hands could be firmly holding her head, teaching her how to deep throat all of me. It really depends on the skill level I'm dealing with.

BodyScape02 · 05-12-2003, 10:17 PM

My baby has LONG hair and I try to hold it out of her way with at least one hand. The other is touching her lightly where ever I can!

~D2

teknurse · 05-12-2003, 11:34 PM

My wife just recently told me that she also enjoys having her head held while I forcefully thrust. I guess she had a boyfriend in the past that got her into doing that way, and now it really turns her on. My last g/f hated it when I touched her head during fellatio, she felt it was taking away from what she was doing and making her into an object. Takes all kinds I guess...

Allen&Tami

SDFuntimes · 05-13-2003, 11:58 AM

I would have to say that the majority of the time, one hand is twisting and holding the wife's hair into a very stylish bun atop her head, and the other hand is gently massaging... back, breasts, butt, clit, wherever its possible to reach.

LarrySmith · 05-19-2003, 11:32 AM

If I'm standing up, right hand on hip, left hand stroking her hair. If I'm laying on the bed and she's perpendicular to me, left hand on her back, right hand rubbing her clit. If I'm on my back with my legs in the air, and she's kneeling between my legs, both hands grabbing on to whatever I can reach to steady myself.

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05-08-2003, 08:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Blow Job Etiquette I got to thinking today about men and what they do with their hands during a blow job. (I know it's dangerous when I think. ) Gentlemen, where are your hands when you are being given a blow job? Are you smoking a cigarette, relaxed with your hands behind your head, feeding yourself strawberries, holding your woman by her mane and guiding her? Something else? Just what are you doing with your hands while being lovingly serviced? Lori
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05-08-2003, 10:45 PM	#6 (permalink)
bbcpl4cpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 182 Location: Maryland Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:bbcpl4cpl	My husband and I tend to do it with me leaning down over his stomach. Not quite in a 69, though we love that too. So he's usually playing with my clit with his fingers while I am blowing him. Other than that, he likes to gently stroke my hair while I do it. Tigress xx
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05-08-2003, 11:33 PM	#7 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:likethat	His hands are either griping the bed or stroking my hair. Depending on the postion, playing with my clit.
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05-09-2003, 04:14 AM	#8 (permalink)
WildFlower Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 106 Location: Indiana Status: Couple	My husband is usually stroking my hair and massaging my neck.
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05-08-2003, 08:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	My hubby gives me a backrub while he gets his blowjob. The better job I do, the better job he does. And the better job he does, the better job I do. It's a win win situation all around. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.

05-08-2003, 09:54 PM	#3 (permalink)
mikemary945 Active Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Fredericksburg, Va Status: Couple	Either stroking her face and hair, or trying to move her around where I can reciprocate at the same time! Mike

05-08-2003, 10:04 PM	#4 (permalink)
perlwizard Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 110 Location: CA Status: Couple	Usually playing with her hair, lightly guiding her movements.

05-08-2003, 10:19 PM	#5 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 834 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem Swing Lifestyle Name:Vjklander	It all depends on the moment I guess. If I'm standing I'll usually be grabbing onto a bedpost or something for support. If I'm laying back, I'll usually have a firn grasp of the sheets ot mattress. If I'm kneeling I'll usually be 'guiding' her head. She really likes to have her head held and her mouth fucked, so I'm happy to comply. And if we are laying down I'll play with her clit too. J

05-09-2003, 06:35 AM	#9 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,450 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A Swing Lifestyle Name:PA_Panache	Assuming it's not a 69 position, I'm doing one of three things... 1) Stroking her hair. 2) Massaging her breasts or playing with her nipples. 3) If I can reach, messaging her clit.
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05-09-2003, 10:32 AM	#10 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,136 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Mrs. Alura needs no guidance. I used to hold her hair out of the way so I could see what she was doing but it's short now so I don't need to do that. I touch her shoulders or breasts depending on the position but usually I just watch her. She's gorgeous with her smile wrapped around my cock and that wonderful twinkle in her eyes. Mr. Alura
	Last edited by Alura; 05-09-2003 at 10:34 AM.

05-12-2003, 09:32 PM	#11 (permalink)
CABob Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71 Location: CA, Bay Area Status: Swingle Man	Depends What I do with my hands depends on the blow jober not necessarily the blow jobee. My hands could be clinging to the sheets for dear life, screaming religious language at the top of my lungs. Or my hands could be firmly holding her head, teaching her how to deep throat all of me. It really depends on the skill level I'm dealing with.
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05-12-2003, 10:17 PM	#12 (permalink)
BodyScape02 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 556 Location: off the board	My baby has LONG hair and I try to hold it out of her way with at least one hand. The other is touching her lightly where ever I can! ~D2

05-12-2003, 11:34 PM	#13 (permalink)
teknurse Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 125 Location: Lancaster, PA Status: Couple	My wife just recently told me that she also enjoys having her head held while I forcefully thrust. I guess she had a boyfriend in the past that got her into doing that way, and now it really turns her on. My last g/f hated it when I touched her head during fellatio, she felt it was taking away from what she was doing and making her into an object. Takes all kinds I guess... Allen&Tami

05-13-2003, 11:58 AM	#14 (permalink)
SDFuntimes Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 53 Location: San Diego, Ca	I would have to say that the majority of the time, one hand is twisting and holding the wife's hair into a very stylish bun atop her head, and the other hand is gently massaging... back, breasts, butt, clit, wherever its possible to reach.

05-19-2003, 11:32 AM	#15 (permalink)
LarrySmith Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 112 Location: Northern VA Status: Male half	If I'm standing up, right hand on hip, left hand stroking her hair. If I'm laying on the bed and she's perpendicular to me, left hand on her back, right hand rubbing her clit. If I'm on my back with my legs in the air, and she's kneeling between my legs, both hands grabbing on to whatever I can reach to steady myself.
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