How many partners have you had? (was: how polygamous are you??)

amsingsub · 06-09-2009, 12:08 AM

Me?? i have slept with nearly 10 women so far. sometimes for one - on - one sex and sometime in groups. Couples please cast 2 votes. you can include non-swinging encounters as well.

PS : i have no real "swinging" encounters or experience. But have been part of group sex (2/3 men and women each)

WesternSwing · 06-09-2009, 01:15 AM

Polygamy is a marriage between multiple people, polygyny being between one man and multiple women and polyandry being between one woman and multiple men. So I'm unsure what you are asking here since sex with multiple partners over a lifetime does not equal being polygamous.

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-09-2009, 11:57 AM

I have to admit I'm lost as well. Beyond the definition issue... are we talking sleeping with multiple people at the same time, separately since we've been swinging, or in my lifetime?

amsingsub · 06-09-2009, 01:04 PM

Oh well. I apologize for the wrong terms I used in the title.

What I meant to ask is how many persons of the opposite kind (i.e. sex) have people here slept with (including both swinging and non swinging encounters). For me it would be 9 women (i cant remember any more), which includes one-to-one sex with women in knew and the people i had fun with in groups.

@WesternSwing --- what then is the term for a man (woman) who has slept with many women (men)?

Would the moderators/admins please change the thread title to something more appropriate and meaningful?

amsingsub · 06-09-2009, 01:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I have to admit I'm lost as well. Beyond the definition issue... are we talking sleeping with multiple people at the same time, separately since we've been swinging, or in my lifetime?

How many "close encounters with the opposite kind" in life. I am pathetic in this regard with 9 !! (and no encounters with the same kind, since i am not bi)

**good times** · 06-09-2009, 03:47 PM

Well, I doubt if it is over 100, probably more than 20 and less than 50, but I have to say I quit counting after 8 or 10, so I have no idea.

The title to the thread should be something like, "How sexually experienced are you". There isn't really any term for that, that I know of, promiscuous would be closest, but it is limited to casual sex, so I don't think it would work here.

sweet_tna · 06-09-2009, 04:40 PM

If you're talking actual intercourse . . . then whoah, my number is way lower than I thought (10). Where I grew up, I'd be considered a slut, but for a lifestyler . . . I'm practically a prude!

Gonna' have to work on that . . .

=)

Spoomonkey · 06-09-2009, 06:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

Gonna' have to work on that . . .

That makes me wonder if it would be some sort of cheating if some of us got together to "pad our numbers"?

I voted, not gonna reveal my vote, but I did run out of fingers.

Spoomonkey

sweet_tna · 06-09-2009, 06:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

That makes me wonder if it would be some sort of cheating if some of us got together to "pad our numbers"?

I voted, not gonna reveal my vote, but I did run out of fingers.

Spoomonkey

I won't tell if you won't . . .

Spoomonkey · 06-09-2009, 07:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

I won't tell if you won't . . .

You've got yourself a deal

Spoomonkey

WesternSwing · 06-10-2009, 03:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amsingsub

@WesternSwing --- what then is the term for a man (woman) who has slept with many women (men)?

Experienced.

amsingsub · 06-10-2009, 08:45 PM

There is only one man and no woman hwo has broken the 100 barrier. I knew a non-swinger (she was into one niters a lot) who touched a 100 by by the time she was 50. Come on everyone - this is an anonymous poll.

Spoomonkey · 06-10-2009, 10:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amsingsub

There is only one man and no woman hwo has broken the 100 barrier. I knew a non-swinger (she was into one niters a lot) who touched a 100 by by the time she was 50. Come on everyone - this is an anonymous poll.

Keep in mind - the biggest part of your participating audience is married couples. We swing, sure, but we do have to stop and wash dishes now and then. I am not the least bit surprised by the poll results myself.

Spoomonkey

sweet_tna · 06-10-2009, 10:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Keep in mind - the biggest part of your participating audience is married couples. We swing, sure, but we do have to stop and wash dishes now and then. I am not the least bit surprised by the poll results myself.

Spoomonkey

Ooh, can you come over and wash my dishes, too?

=)

twoforone100 · 06-11-2009, 07:33 AM

The other thing to keep in mind is how often we might swing with one couple...In this poll they would only count once...but over two years...we played with them a ton...having said that we are pretty easy....but still are not really close to a hundred...

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View Poll Results: how many persons have you slept with (bi's vote for other sex only)
WOMEN - with 5-10 men	5	7.58%
with 11 - 20 men	4	6.06%
with 21 - 30 men	4	6.06%
with 30 - 50 men	2	3.03%
with 51 - 100 men	4	6.06%
with over 100 men	2	3.03%
MEN - with 5 - 10 women	17	25.76%
with 11 - 20 women	11	16.67%
with 21 - 30 women	10	15.15%
with 31 - 50 women	11	16.67%
with 51 - 100 women	5	7.58%
with over 100 women	4	6.06%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 66. You may not vote on this poll

06-09-2009, 12:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
amsingsub Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 48 Location: delaware Status: single	How many partners have you had? (was: how polygamous are you??) Me?? i have slept with nearly 10 women so far. sometimes for one - on - one sex and sometime in groups. Couples please cast 2 votes. you can include non-swinging encounters as well. PS : i have no real "swinging" encounters or experience. But have been part of group sex (2/3 men and women each) __________________ "It is the bright day that brings forth the adder". - Julius Caesar Last edited by amsingsub : 06-09-2009 at 12:36 AM.

06-09-2009, 01:15 AM	#2 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,928 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: how polygamous are you?? Polygamy is a marriage between multiple people, polygyny being between one man and multiple women and polyandry being between one woman and multiple men. So I'm unsure what you are asking here since sex with multiple partners over a lifetime does not equal being polygamous. __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

06-09-2009, 11:57 AM	#3 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 25,710 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 78	Re: how polygamous are you?? I have to admit I'm lost as well. Beyond the definition issue... are we talking sleeping with multiple people at the same time, separately since we've been swinging, or in my lifetime?

06-09-2009, 01:04 PM	#4 (permalink)
amsingsub Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 48 Location: delaware Status: single	Re: how polygamous are you?? Oh well. I apologize for the wrong terms I used in the title. What I meant to ask is how many persons of the opposite kind (i.e. sex) have people here slept with (including both swinging and non swinging encounters). For me it would be 9 women (i cant remember any more), which includes one-to-one sex with women in knew and the people i had fun with in groups. @WesternSwing --- what then is the term for a man (woman) who has slept with many women (men)? Would the moderators/admins please change the thread title to something more appropriate and meaningful? __________________ "It is the bright day that brings forth the adder". - Julius Caesar

06-09-2009, 03:47 PM	#6 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,756 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: how polygamous are you?? Well, I doubt if it is over 100, probably more than 20 and less than 50, but I have to say I quit counting after 8 or 10, so I have no idea. The title to the thread should be something like, "How sexually experienced are you". There isn't really any term for that, that I know of, promiscuous would be closest, but it is limited to casual sex, so I don't think it would work here. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

06-09-2009, 04:40 PM	#7 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,782 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: how polygamous are you?? If you're talking actual intercourse . . . then whoah, my number is way lower than I thought (10). Where I grew up, I'd be considered a slut, but for a lifestyler . . . I'm practically a prude! Gonna' have to work on that . . . =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than heaven wondering what it's like.

06-10-2009, 08:45 PM	#12 (permalink)
amsingsub Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 48 Location: delaware Status: single	Re: How many partners have you had? (was: how polygamous are you??) There is only one man and no woman hwo has broken the 100 barrier. I knew a non-swinger (she was into one niters a lot) who touched a 100 by by the time she was 50. Come on everyone - this is an anonymous poll. __________________ "It is the bright day that brings forth the adder". - Julius Caesar

06-11-2009, 07:33 AM	#15 (permalink)
twoforone100 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 203 Location: Richmond Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twoforone100	Re: How many partners have you had? (was: how polygamous are you??) The other thing to keep in mind is how often we might swing with one couple...In this poll they would only count once...but over two years...we played with them a ton...having said that we are pretty easy....but still are not really close to a hundred...

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