Do you talk during sex?

[Trace Ekies]

I talk too much.

With that said, I've never been told that I talk too much during sex...by Mrs. Ekies or any of my other partners. I do try to keep the subject narrowed to the task at hand and not get off on a tangent about something weighty like the potential for an asteroid to wipe out life on planet earth.

I like to talk and I like for my partners to know what I think about them and how they make me feel. Some of it is light-hearted, some of it sexy and some of it down-right filthy...Mrs. Ekies loves to hear about how sexy I think it is to watch her take a cock in her pussy while she sucks me...there I go again.

It's fun and suits me well.

Trace

[Meetussoon]

If you can't or don't laugh in a pile of naked swinger friends, something is wrong. We are vocal, Marie especially. But, be careful, sometimes too much talk can get you in trouble, such as.....................using the ladies wrong name!! And, getting called on it.

Tom

[PB&J]

Which is why "Oh baby, oh baby" is so much safer

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by PB&J

Which is why "Oh baby, oh baby" is so much safer

There's this woman we sometimes see at house parties. For the longest time we thought her husband's name was Jesus.

[PB&J]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

There's this woman we sometimes see at house parties. For the longest time we thought her husband's name was Jesus.

I think I must be married to her husband's father!

[Additude]

Does chanting count?

[willyoats]

Sometimes. Depends on the partner.

The most intense sex was with beautiful women who clearly were concentrating on the sex act. I didn't think about it at the time, but chat just was not appropriate. The sex was all we were into.

At other times, the sex is just kind of fun sex, so joking and chatting seems quite natural. That is often the case now with my wife as we happily recall other sexual adventures while I am inside of her.

[magnum]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Do you talk during sex?

Yes... I am also a visual guy.

[Karmickiss]

Hi All,
Had to write a little something, as a situation I remembered started me laughing. I used to be pretty quiet....my late partner got a surprising vocal gal over time....it just came naturally.

So, I was with this younger male, a fling at one time, but we are still friends to this day. He's a sweetheart, and was a virgin when we got together, which turned out to be an odd turn on...only b/c he was my first and only "virgin" male. Anyway, I was trying to coax more talking, and thought to lead by example. He was giving me oral, and I was remarking and moaning loudly. I was really getting into it, and was experimenting with this at the time(more talking)

Something happened so out of the blue.....one and a million chance...one, I didn't lock the door to the house, while 'busy'. Two, my mom had brought my kids back earlier than expected...way earlier. She would normally never come in unless I answer the door, but she needed to use the rest room, which is right by my bedroom I was blissfully unaware until we heard the car horn she was beeping....and went to see what the commotion was all about..we were taking a break. I waved and the kids were let out. My oldest is the one that told me she came in to use the bathroom, and came out flustered and started beeping......Hope that was okay to share....so embarassed, of all people.....karmic

[Additude]

Ya know, at the time it's gotta be a really, really embarasing situation to have stuff like that happen to ya. But then later, as the embarrasment wears off, when you look back at it, it can become a cherished memory.

[couplers]

I hadn't thought about this question before. Yes I do talk, but it is different with David and Red. With hubby David it is pretty much a realistic conversation, even the fantasies. We talk about what we are going to do and in what order (Do you want me to lick you first?) I really like to get him to talk about other women he has had what they looked like naked, how they had sex, etc. and fantasize about other women, especially Anna. I will also talk sometimes about what I liked about the sex Red and I had (sometimes just had) or are going to have. Stating the fact I have a lover and a boyfriend, or that there is another woman hubby is fucking, is a big turn on fo me.


When Red and I are making love there is a script and it is assertive. We got into the groove early on, before I even met David, of Red asking me if I want him, if I love him and me saying to him that "This is your pussy," "You can have my cunt anytime you want it," "I want to keep your cum inside of me," etc. If anything, this riff has gotten only stronger since Red and I stopped living together and when I married David. (David has heard all this and calls it my "porno talk.") Red is a good guy, self-absorbed, and I think he needs these reassurances since he is the beta male in the relationship and I am his only love and sex partner. Another thing that we do that is a strange turn-on is that Red now asks if I need money. At first I turned him down (although Red is now doing pretty well, both David and I still each earn much more than he does), but now I sometimes say "yes," and ask for $10 or $20. It's not a prostitution fantasy, but he wants to show that he wants to and can support me. For me it's the turn-on of being wanted. I told hubby about this, and his response in his typical fashion was, "Why don't you ask him for a new car?"

[Expulsion]

You really can't get me to shut up and I'm pretty loud. If being quiet and discreet is a must, I can tone it down, but I prefer not to have to do that.