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Does anybody else find anal a turn-off?

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Old 06-02-2009, 08:58 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My wife, our lover and I have rarely had anal sex, and never have it anymore. It's just not appealing to any of us. I am fond of saying, why fuck an asshole when you've got an orifice custom-made for fucking three inches away? From reading this forum, I think we must be the only three people in the world that don't enjoy anal?
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Old 06-02-2009, 09:11 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Nah, you're not the only ones. We see lots of profiles that say "no anal", and we talk to lots of people who don't do it.

I guess you could say I'm trying to find it a turn-on currently. Like you, I've noticed a lot of women writing about how much they like it, and have also talked to a few. We are trying to work it in (pun intended) in the hopes that after trying it a few more times, I'll start to enjoy it. I have a playmate who wants to do it with me, and it's okay with my husband as long as we try it together again first. I want to make this playmate happy (he certainly makes me happy), and there's nothing wrong with expanding my comfort zone (another pun) in the process, right?

But ultimately we'll see. And as I said before, I feel confident that lots of people simply don't enjoy it.
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Old 06-02-2009, 09:14 AM   #3 (permalink)
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We tried it once early in our relationship and decided we didn't like it. We never did it again, together or while swinging. Like y'all, we never saw a reason for it.

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Old 06-02-2009, 12:25 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Mrs. YZF loves anal and will do multiple partners anally at parties, the bigger, the better. Quita (our permanent live in 3rd) does anal when she is "in the mood" for it. When she is wanting it, she will cum multiple times.
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Old 06-02-2009, 01:58 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Nope you are not alone, neither one of us cares for it either.
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Old 06-02-2009, 04:25 PM   #6 (permalink)
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for myself .. I will take it if she wants it .. Butt don't need it
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Old 06-02-2009, 04:34 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I don't particularly relish the idea of anal sex but wouldn't let my viewpoint keep me from having an encounter.
That is, providing that I am not to be the"receiver".
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Old 06-02-2009, 05:20 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Just personally speaking, I'm not particularly fond of giving anal sex. I'm glad to do it for any man or woman that wants it, but I don't get that special satisfaction you get when you scratch one of your favorite itches.

Reception, on the other hand...bring it on. It's one of my favorite sexual acts, whether it's fingers or toys or organs during MM, MF, MMF, or any other combination of my M and your Ms and/or Fs. If you throw any sexual acronyms at all my way, chances are I'm stuffing that acronym straight in my ass.

Bottom line is it just feels great to me, and that's what counts.
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Old 06-02-2009, 08:42 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Total turn off to me....
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Old 06-03-2009, 06:54 AM   #10 (permalink)
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It is not something I seek on a regular basis, but it's not a turn-off either. Sometimes when I'm really turned on it is a great addition... But only with Mr. NC. No desire for anal with anyone else.
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Have to agree (like usual) with Mrs. NC. I don't seek it out, but if it happens with Mr. LFM, I'm OK with that. Otherwise, it's pretty much a no go with play partners.
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Old 06-03-2009, 07:40 AM   #12 (permalink)
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My wife has come to enjoy anal, however it's not such a priority for me. Instead of taking the time to work it in I would rather be on one of the carnival's other fun rides!
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Old 06-03-2009, 08:14 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Early in our married life we tried anal and though I loved it, Mrs spv wasn't very enamored with it AT ALL. The years slid by and she started to enjoy a little butt play.
Now she enjoys anal quite a bit. There are a VERY few people that she will even let enter her anally though. She says that some guys don't do it right. If ya don't do it right a lot of damage can occur.
So, my Mrs went from no way to OMG in 25 years. (she likes a good DP too)

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Old 06-03-2009, 08:17 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Whoops....forgot to say that in the passing years I (Mr spv) have lost my excitement for anal. It is okay, nice and tight, etc, etc.....but I have found that I MUCH more enjoy vaginal intercourse.
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Old 06-03-2009, 12:34 PM   #15 (permalink)
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It's not necessarily a "turn off" but it isn't a part of our toolbox.

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