At least 8 inches!

[muycurious]

Now let me preface this with the fact that I am not 8 inches as you may have guessed. So this post is a little bitter but also I wonder this often.

I see a lot of online profiles that say "8 inches or bigger!" and they will accept nothing less. I often wonder how many woman know how big an 8 inch or larger dick really is. I wonder if some see a 6.5 to 7 incher and think it is bigger than it is. Most of us are just around 6. So a 7 incher is pretty big.

I mostly wonder this because I had a friend growing up that had a HUGE dick. At 15 it was just over 8 inches. One day, I think we were around 18, I confessed to him that I had a hard time taking the next step of letting a woman see my dick. I felt it was really small at the time. And he told me he would trade his for mine anytime. He said he had two woman see it and saw "No Way, get that thing away from me", and then two others that tried but could not take it without hurting. I still see him periodically, we are in our early 30s now, and I brought up the same thing just the other day. He is married now, but he said he stopped bothering with small women and even the larger women couldn't take it. He still felt it was a curse.

SO... what I am wondering is if women REALLY know what 8 inches is?

[JustAskJulie]

I think most women do, and that most women who say they want 8" or more really do want 8" or more (they like big dicks). I've seen my share of dicks and have seen a handful that fall into the 8" or greater category.

On the other end of that, Pet saw an ad recently that said guys must be at least 6" that the wife had an itch that she needed scratching. So we can only presume her husband was on the small side

[LFM2]

I've seen a few of those same ads on AFF mostly. They're wanting more than (fill in the blank) inches and nothing less will do.

I think women who ask for bigger dicks really do know what they want. Even though I've seen a few of those and a few quite a bit shorter, those longer ones would bottom out on me and wouldn't be fun at all. I think this is how we know. Trial and error.

[YZF]

When I was in the Army, I served in Korea with this guy from North Dakota. Big white boy who had a freakishly huge dick. It was one of these that even as a guy, you could not help but look. To do PT in the mornings, he always wore a pair of biker shorts under his regular shorts.

On the weekends, he had trouble getting the whores in Itaewon to fuck him as they would fuck him only once.

[Miss Sunshine]

I think the old adage that it's not how much you have it is how you use it that counts holds true. I have had very good sexual encounters with guys with very small cocks and very big cocks. I have also had bad experiences with both. But I have said here I always enjoy a very large cock when i run into one! Usually 5 to 6 inches is the norm. Some are thick, mmmmmm, some are thin (anal).

[screaminggood]

I agree with Miss Sunshine, it's not the size that matters...it's knowing what to do with them! Ironically, I've found plenty of huge ones, but haven't found the smaller size to try a DP with...so do guys think they're smaller than they really are?

[CXXC]

This is actually a great thread. It is forcing me to look back through other threads for informaion.

It wasn't untill two years ago that I actually knew how large/small/thick/round I was. One of my lovers wanted to know, so out came the sewing tape measure.

Mrs. CXXC likes them fairly large but if a guy came up to her with a baseball bat hanging between his legs, she would kindly decline. WHo wants to feel like they are giving birth durring sex?

[it'sso]

Originally Posted by screaminggood

I agree with Miss Sunshine, it's not the size that matters...it's knowing what to do with them! Ironically, I've found plenty of huge ones, but haven't found the smaller size to try a DP with...so do guys think they're smaller than they really are?

Experience, talking, here.
A guy who is smaller than average, knows for damned sure he is smaller. This is especially true if he has had it pointed out to him by a potential partner.
In regards to "knowing what to do with it", I prefer women who can make do with whatever is offered to them.

[screaminggood]

My point exactly, It'sso....knowing what to do with any size is "women who can make do with whatever is offered to them." There are just some things I prefer to do with huge men, and some I want to try with small men, and always options for in between.

I'm always amazed when I read the board to see how many people write about asking about a man's size. I've never done that, and never will. If I'm attracted, I take him to bed and treat him like a Christmas present...open the package and see what I have to play with!

[JustMrJ]

Then there is the 'acceptable measuring technique'. I measure from the top going from the base of my shaft to the tip. I am an average 6" with a hair over 4" circumference. Not too thick, not too thin, not too long, not too short... again, average.

That being said, if my wife is not really relaxed certain positions will cause her discomfort as if I'm bottoming out. By the same token, when she is VERY relaxed and really into it, just about any position will do and some of those deeper ones really get her motor going.

She will play with men larger and smaller than me in both length and circumference, BUT, longer and thicker men will be directed to go slow and probably hit a depth limit if they are quite a bit larger.

Some ladies like them larger, it is true, we are all different... lucky for all of us that there is such a variety out there to cater to everyone's desires.

[megauxurious]

There is a site called The Authentic Woman's Penis Size Preference Chart.

It plots both circumference and length preferences separately and colour codes the result according to whether the dimensions are unsatisfying, merely enjojable, satisfying, very satisfying and ideal.

Ideal is between 7.25 and 8.25 inches long and 6 to 6.5 inches in circumference.

Very satisfying is between 6 and 9 inches long and 5.75 and 6.75 inches in diameter.

Ron Jeremy would be rated as slightly too large to be very satisfying but would still be satisfying. The average sized guy aparently rates a mere 'enjoyable' and nearly half of all men would rate as 'unsatisfying' according to this survey.

Sobering stuff.

[it'sso]

I saw that site that produced that chart, years ago. What they didn't provide was a chart for guys who can stand tall and drop their tongue in their watch pocket.

[The Fuse]

Originally Posted by megauxurious

There is a site called The Authentic Woman's Penis Size Preference Chart.

It plots both circumference and length preferences separately and colour codes the result according to whether the dimensions are unsatisfying, merely enjojable, satisfying, very satisfying and ideal.

Ideal is between 7.25 and 8.25 inches long and 6 to 6.5 inches in circumference.

Very satisfying is between 6 and 9 inches long and 5.75 and 6.75 inches in diameter.

Ron Jeremy would be rated as slightly too large to be very satisfying but would still be satisfying. The average sized guy aparently rates a mere 'enjoyable' and nearly half of all men would rate as 'unsatisfying' according to this survey.

Sobering stuff.

I would be curious to know whether this "chart" had any scientific basis, and if so, what it was. There are really too many variables in sex to say what the "ideal" is for any one component of it, in my opinion. For instance, we all know from reading polls just on this board that questions on a particular subject will draw a lot of responses from people who are interested in that particular subject (e.g., "do you like cuckholding?"). My point is that questions about cock size preference will draw more answers from those who care about it, than from those who don't. Again, I don't know whether the publishers of that chart had any scientific or methodical basis to support the information they published, but I'm willing to bet that their conclusions are at best suspect.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by The Fuse

I would be curious to know whether this "chart" had any scientific basis, and if so, what it was. There are really too many variables in sex to say what the "ideal" is for any one component of it, in my opinion. For instance, we all know from reading polls just on this board that questions on a particular subject will draw a lot of responses from people who are interested in that particular subject (e.g., "do you like cuckholding?"). My point is that questions about cock size preference will draw more answers from those who care about it, than from those who don't. Again, I don't know whether the publishers of that chart had any scientific or methodical basis to support the information they published, but I'm willing to bet that their conclusions are at best suspect.

Yea, my thoughts too when I saw it.

I think the whole ideal thing is pretty much BS too. Yea there is too big and yea there is to small but women will vary as well. I've been with women who I know could have used a bit more than I have and with others I've bottomed out on to the point I had to be careful not to hurt them.

Most women tend to think I'm longer than I am due to the girth, I'm willing to maintain that illusion

[good times]

Originally Posted by megauxurious

Ideal is between 7.25 and 8.25 inches long and 6 to 6.5 inches in circumference.

Damn, if I could just trade an inch in length for an extra 1/2" in girth, I would be ideal.