Squirting: Pro's and Con's

[2neophytes]

Thanks for the link, Hrnylilangel. It's great this info is so readily available.

It's great that this site is here!

2N

[Lorrie]

Originally posted by 2neophytes


About female ejaculation. As many of us know, just as women vary, so do their orgasms. The same holds true for their ejaculations. Some "shoot a load" as I read from one post, and others trickle. I experience female ejaculation on a regualr basis and have had both types.

I've noticed there was some debate about the G-spot causing this type of orgasm. Recent studies have found that the clitoris is actually much bigger than it looks. It supports the walls of the vagine, thus creating rigidty during intercourse. The location where the "arm" of the clitoris "grabs" the vagina is the G-spot.

As far as my personal experience goes, my partner can lead me to an ejaculatory orgasm or I can achieve it through orgasm. The key, for me at least, is to relax.

Notes:
"The Human Sexual Response", _Human Reproductive Biology_. 2nd Ed. Jones, Richard E. Academic Press, San Diego 1997 (363-75).

"The Female Reproductive System", (49).

later,
2N

Another way is not to think about it. As I said, squirting cum was the farthest thing on my mind. And having an orgasm was not even close with me when I squirted.

Like me ex-boyfriend has said (in general):

"The trick is, not to think about it."

[2neophytes]

Wow! You go girl!

[SluttyWife]

Originally posted by marriedwet
I learned in a very HOT moment that I could squirt.

Wasn't anything planned...just happend-all over I've let as many as 7 guys/girls squirt all over me while hubby ran the camcorder. The guys finished up with loads of hot CUM all over me.

Holy moley!

Hmmmm.....I don't think I've ever squirted before but under these conditions (many guys and hot CUM to quote you) I just might!!!! I need to go find my G-spot vibrator now. I'm a facial gal...I think a bukkake would do me in!

Anyone wanna help?






Slutty Wife

[leftcoastcouple]

My wife and I had a new development last night on this front, and I'm still reeling from it.

She's always been a squirter, but so far as I can remember, she's only ever done so from oral (especially if I'm fingering her simultaneously and/or she's really worked up) and manual stimulation (She loves leaving behind a drenched towel as a "souvenir" if she's masturbated when I'm not around, which never fails to drive me wild!).

Well, last night, the kids cooperated and went to bed early after I'd been IMing her all day and telling her I was majorly horny. A glass of wine to relax, and the next thing I knew we were going at it hot and heavy.

Lately, she's been asking more and more for missionary with her feet pushed WAY behind her head--to the point where they're often touching the headboard--which I love because of the deep penetration, friction and intensity it provides. After we'd been going at it for a while last night, she again threw her feet over her head, and within a few seconds, she was squirting like crazy.

It took me a second to realize what was happening, since it had never happened before. But the sudden increase in wetness, the warmth (!), and even the smell--well, there was no mistaking what had happened. She continued to gush for some time, and the feeling was absolutely incredible, both mentally and physically. Afterwards, we were both completely spent.

She's been relaxing more and more sexually in the past few years, and I have to think that we broke some sort of barrier last night. I sure hope so. Because while I plan to be cautious so she won't feel pressured to "perform," I can't wait to see if it will happen again, hoepfully soon!

[nteracialcpl]

Hello again all, Ms nteracialcpl here... I guess I might as well put my "two cents" in... LOL Count me in with the squirters... I don't do it every time, but have squirted numerous times. For years I wouldn't let myself do it because I thought I was actually needing to pee, but then a girlfriend of mine told me that when your sexually aroused you can't pee (until you're not quite so horny) So the next time I felt that sensation, I just "let go"!!! WOW such an awsome feeling!!! I must say, for me I have only squirted as a result of clitoral stimulation, never from having my g-spot stimulated, but then again, all women are different....

[powerblock]

It's a huge turn on when my gf squirts, I really love it. A towel doesn't help us, though, she soaks right through it. We usually have to put a blanket down to sleep on when we're done. It's worth it!

[mwilliams27028]

i have never been with a "squirter" but just thinking about it would realy be a turn on for me.

[biggballs]

yes, i think a female squirter, is the biggest turn-on! it shows that you are doing your job very well.ive always wanted to taste it too

[oddcouple2841]

I am a major squirter, to the point where we have to change the sheets and flip the mattress, ulness we put something down on the bed, but sometimes that doesn't work either. I'll miss the towel and sometimes still soak the bed. I didn't know I could make such a huge mess because I didn't do that with anyother guy I was with.

My boyfriend didn't like it at first. He was totally turned off by it. I wouldn't get off anymore and that caused a riff in our relationship but he thought he was doing something wrong or I wasn't attracted to him anymore.

He's since has gotten over his fear and now we warn the people that reads our profile that I do that. I've had some guys tell me that's a major turn on to them and I've had guys tell me that their wives don't like that.

S

[telly2]

i ma squirter and Mr T loves it and have never had a complaint from anyone else, actually it is a game to see if it will happen.

con wet sheets and a matress, and a little dehydrated if it is a really good one
Chantal

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by telly2

i ma squirter and Mr T loves it and have never had a complaint from anyone else, actually it is a game to see if it will happen.

con wet sheets and a matress, and a little dehydrated if it is a really good one
Chantal

I'd love to learn how to do it! I can't imagine it anything but a turn-on. There's always a mess to clean up anyway. LOL

[MrsVan]

When MrVan and I started dating and during the first couple years of our marriage, I was not able to squirt. I never really thought about it as my sex life before MrVan was nothing to brag about so I did not know much about this thing called squirting. We got into the lifestyle and during the course of experiencing I figured it out. And boy was MrVan shocked. I never seen him so turned on during sex than when I squirted and the look on his face was priceless. He asked me "where did that come from?" and I told him I was not sure but I loved the feeling.

I learned that by not thinking about it and trying to do it, I go into sex to have a great time and not stress about having an O or squirting as if I do not have it running through my mind, I can do it. Well, then I continued to do it but not all the time but mostly when I would get really turned on.

Then the fun happened...... I got my lady pierced and since then I can have orgasm after orgasm and squirt many times. I have yet to have anyone complain and those that I have played with since my piercing seemed to have enjoyed it. We do let our playmates know upfront that it can happen so that they are not shocked or suprised and that way if they do not like it then we can either go our seperate ways or I can try to control it(but even that is harder than trying to do it).

I think that squirting is a huge turn on and it is a very exciting, erotic feeling for me to do this.

MrsVan

[gatorvol64]

I have to say that at this point in my life that it is rare that I don't. Gator just loves it. And we haven't had a playmate that didn't at least like it. Though I'll admit that it is one of two things we warn potential playmates about. I feel a warning is necessary because Gator has long since discarded the word "squit" and replaced it with "gush" because of the quanity. The pressure does vary. I guess the only "con' to it is that I get dehydrated. The wet sheets are easily changed or place a towel over them. The mattress is protected by a plactic cover. When we play (because we have to play away from the house) I take a water resistant throw that Liberator puts out. My Gator will dilngently strive to help any woman squirt.

Vol

[SouthBond]

I have never been with a woman that squirted but I did know a lady that could blow smoke rings out of her vagina. Some people are very talented.