Squirting: Pro's and Con's

[bi_femcplindy]

the Mrs here, Hubby tells me that all women are squirters. I doubted this as it had never happened for me. I am happy to say that it HAD never happened. I too must say that it doesn't happen everytime and after a few times of squirting I am totally exhausted. We have met with some couples and after discussing this they wanted proof so we usually prove it by making that lady squirt. A woman must get over thinking that she is going to pee and go with what she feels.

[LikeMinds321]

The term 'squirting' suggests to me a projectile force of liquid. I never project, squirt, or shall I say, shoot my load.

My first ejaculation experience was a trickling of clear fluid, maybe a couple tablespoons, and it occurred during masturbation. It was a wonderful feeling of release that preceded my orgasm--the ultimate release! Sometimes it's more liquid - like a half cup trickling out of me...and yes, I do recommend keeping towels beneath you if you are anticipating enjoying an ejaculation.

If you are in a upright position, masturbating, on spread knees, it can be a wonderful turn-on for you and your partner. (I know when it's about to happen and let him know. We have even placed a hand mirror below me to catch the liquid--makes for a dramatic event!)

For me, it is definitely caused through stimulation of the g-spot, along with a bearing down (or relaxing) of your PC muscles. I keep my PC muscles tight to reach orgasm and have learned that I can control if/when I ejaculate based on my use of these muscles.

Teaching yourself this control can be a great help. If your partner isn't comfortable with female ejaculation then you can keep it from happening. If you both want it...there you go!

[Lorrie]

Originally posted by liqudkitty
Personally I squirt in very large volumes,,,I can soak a mattress.

Any squirting will soak a mattress.

[magnum]

Originally posted by midwestcouple
I am very courious if there are a lot of women who squirt.

I am a squirter and I have found that it only one man thought it was disgusting.

My hubby finds it a huge turn on.

I had someone tell me once that they thought "some people call it squirting...but they pee." To me that is so DISGUSTING and not true!

Another thought that I would do it everytime i would orgasam. That is not true for me either.

If I get really turned on....It can happen over and over again. And is mostly when my orgasms are intense. Just the same I can orgasm and have sex without it happening.

How many of you think this a turn on?

I think squirting is a turn on! Keep up the good work...

Cheers Magnum

[Mareellen]

I am a squirter also. It started a few years ago for me. It was when my hubby hand fucked me hard and fast. It does happen without that too, depends on how horny I am.I have yet to meet a man that didn't love it. Yes, I do pee sometimes, but it when I haven't first. Just a matter of taking care of that, before getting started. I have learned to tell the man to keep going, to get to happen. Later

[Lorrie]

Originally posted by midwestcouple
I had someone tell me once that they thought "some people call it squirting...but they pee." To me that is so DISGUSTING and not true!

Peeing while having an orgasm is a VERY GOOD, intense feeling.

[bear_n_bunny]

Originally posted by Lorrie
Any squirting will soak a mattress.

Hello, I'm Bunny, and I'm a gusher. So far only Bear can really get me going and I think most of that is because I completely let go with him. The pros are it is a huge turn on for him. He says it just feels wonderful when I gush during intercourse.

Cons, gushing/squirting gives wet spot a whole new meaning. I personally got tired of changing the sheets after sex because the bed was soaked. Towels work but in the heat of the moment they are usually forgotten. My daughter kept asking why I kept a stack of towels by the bed as well.

Anyway, I just wanted to share our solution: the Neat Sheet. I was about to give in a get a plastic matress cover for our bed when I ran into this. It's very soft and water resistant. I don't even feel it under the regular sheets. It stops the wet spot from soaking the mattress so it dries in very quickly and as the others have mentioned there is no order or stain. As well, it is inexpensive and you can get it at places like Walmart and Target.

Now, back to the fun topic of making a lovely lady gush.

-- Bunny

[Lorrie]

I was just looking at something like that at my local grocery store yesterday!

I forgot the name of it but you use it in case you spill any liquid. It soaks up the liquid without going all the way through. It was $9.99.

[2neophytes]

Hi all!

So I finally made it throught his entire thread, and I have some information. First of all, I took a class last summer which covered this very topic. So if ya hang on, I can try to connect all the items together.

Okay, in a study conducted in 1995, researchers found that an average of 29% of women always have an orgasm. 4% have never had one. And of the remainder, 42% have orgasms sometimes. Whether or not the orgasms are coital, masturbatory or both is unknown. Out of the percentage of women whom have orgasms, only 10% experience female ejaculation.

About female ejaculation. As many of us know, just as women vary, so do their orgasms. The same holds true for their ejaculations. Some "shoot a load" as I read from one post, and others trickle. I experience female ejaculation on a regualr basis and have had both types.

Now as for what this stuff is. It is definitely NOT urine. The erect clitoris squeezes off the urethra, thus preventing urination during intercourse-orgasm. Case in point, the same thing occurs in the erect penis. There are vestibular glands, aka Skene's, homologous to that of the male prostate which produce this fluid. Skene's is located near the urethral opening, which might explain why some may believe it to be urine.

I've noticed there was some debate about the G-spot causing this type of orgasm. Recent studies have found that the clitoris is actually much bigger than it looks. It supports the walls of the vagine, thus creating rigidty during intercourse. The location where the "arm" of the clitoris "grabs" the vagina is the G-spot.

As far as my personal experience goes, my partner can lead me to an ejaculatory orgasm or I can achieve it through orgasm. The key, for me at least, is to relax.

Notes:
"The Human Sexual Response", _Human Reproductive Biology_. 2nd Ed. Jones, Richard E. Academic Press, San Diego 1997 (363-75).

"The Female Reproductive System", (49).

later,
2N

[magnum]

Originally posted by 2neophytes
Hi all!

So I finally made it throught his entire thread, and I have some information. First of all, I took a class last summer which covered this very topic. So if ya hang on, I can try to connect all the items together.

Okay, in a study conducted in 1995, researchers found that an average of 29% of women always have an orgasm. 4% have never had one. And of the remainder, 42% have orgasms sometimes. Whether or not the orgasms are coital, masturbatory or both is unknown. Out of the percentage of women whom have orgasms, only 10% experience female ejaculation.

About female ejaculation. As many of us know, just as women vary, so do their orgasms. The same holds true for their ejaculations. Some "shoot a load" as I read from one post, and others trickle. I experience female ejaculation on a regualr basis and have had both types.

Now as for what this stuff is. It is definitely NOT urine. The erect clitoris squeezes off the urethra, thus preventing urination during intercourse-orgasm. Case in point, the same thing occurs in the erect penis. There are vestibular glands, aka Skene's, homologous to that of the male prostate which produce this fluid. Skene's is located near the urethral opening, which might explain why some may believe it to be urine.

I've noticed there was some debate about the G-spot causing this type of orgasm. Recent studies have found that the clitoris is actually much bigger than it looks. It supports the walls of the vagine, thus creating rigidty during intercourse. The location where the "arm" of the clitoris "grabs" the vagina is the G-spot.

As far as my personal experience goes, my partner can lead me to an ejaculatory orgasm or I can achieve it through orgasm. The key, for me at least, is to relax.

Notes:
"The Human Sexual Response", _Human Reproductive Biology_. 2nd Ed. Jones, Richard E. Academic Press, San Diego 1997 (363-75).

"The Female Reproductive System", (49).

later,
2N

Thanks for the interesting facts about "squirting", you learn something new every day.

It is still sexy and a turn on with the "technical" terms and definition.

Cheers Magnum

[Uneed_Love]

Originally posted by 2neophytes
Hi all!

The erect clitoris squeezes off the urethra, thus preventing urination during intercourse-orgasm. Case in point, the same thing occurs in the erect penis.
2N

Hi 2N,

Are you pretending that a male can't urinate while he gets a hard-on ? Probably I am missunderstanding your words here... as I have no problem to pee while I am in erection I am a bit surprised with this assessment.

Have a nice day all

JC

[HrnyLilAngel]

I have only read a few of the posts so I'm not sure if the actual answer of whether it's pee or not was brought up. 6 pages on this topic...WOW. My wife wasn't a squirter in the beginning. We've been married for 13 years and she has just recently started this. She thought she was peeing but I showed her a site I had found the other day about squirting. She feels much better. I don't find it a turn off...but like one had said it makes you feel like you had accomplished fulfilling your other half's sexual need.

http://www.themarriagebed.com/fe.shtml

Maybe that will help a few of you...I found that site to be rather interesting. Hope you do too.

Laterz

[2neophytes]

Hey JC.

Perhaps I wasn't clear. We're all human here! I was refering, specifically, to the erect penis during intercourse/orgasm.

Though, that's quite a feat to have no problem peeing with an erection. You must have some crazy muscle control.

later,
2N

[hmr]

Originally posted by 2neophytes
Hi all!


There are vestibular glands, aka Skene's, homologous to that of the male prostate which produce this fluid. Skene's is located near the urethral opening, which might explain why some may believe it to be urine.

I've noticed there was some debate about the G-spot causing this type of orgasm. Recent studies have found that the clitoris is actually much bigger than it looks. It supports the walls of the vagine, thus creating rigidty during intercourse. The location where the "arm" of the clitoris "grabs" the vagina is the G-spot.


2N

2N Thank you for refreshing my memory! I could not,for the life of me, remember the name of the glands that produce the fluid. Thanks again for the information. Hopefully this will help to dispell the misconceptions that some people have.

HrnyLilAngel,

The site link you put in is great!!
I hope those who question the female ejaculation still, will take time to check it out. It is not only informative, but also may help to quell any fears women may have in ALL aspects.

The female ejaculatory orgasm is the most intensly satisfying orgasm a woman will ever experience. Unfortunately not all women can achieve this, but as 2N stated the key is to relax. If a woman is worried about the fluid being anything other than fluid which is produced for this response, she will never relax enough to reach her peak. Thus she is cheating herself out of a chance to experience the ultimate orgasm! facelick

mrs hmr

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by HrnyLilAngel
She thought she was peeing but I showed her a site I had found the other day about squirting.

http://www.themarriagebed.com/fe.shtml

Maybe that will help a few of you...I found that site to be rather interesting. Hope you do too.

Thanks for the excellent link, HrnyLilAngel. And Welcome to the board! If you care to, drop in on the 'Introductions' forum and post an intro there.