Scoop on Squirting

[PB&J]

I really think that a lot of vanilla women think that they are peeing, and are horribly embarrassed about it. I know that for about a year after I started doing it, quite spontaneously, I thought that my sex life was over. I was certainly too embarrassed to mention it to my doctor. Shortly before we started swinging, we found out about squirting, and damn, I feel so much better now. MUCH better. (and so does my husband) Who knows how many women are thinking there's something very wrong with them, when actually there's something very very right with them?

[fun4t&c]

I read the article ViSexual posted in this thread. I found it very informative and I really liked the direction the author took when it comes to allowing a woman to feel genuinely relaxed and comfy enough to enjoy WHATEVER happens when she orgasms.

I thought that article would be helpful in better articulating my views on being 100% receptive and welcoming squirting, or whatever else happens, and I sent it to my woman to read. She read it and it sounds like she really got something out of it. As long as she fully realizes she's encouraged to let go and come what may, I think it was worth the effort. I believe we're past the issue where she felt pressured to "perform it" for me, after more open discussion.

I know it's difficult for some women to completely let go, especially given the misperceptions and traditional social taboos, etc. I happen to be a fan of squirting. I'll bring the towels and do the cleanup. I'm happy for any woman who can let go and enjoy herself to that extent with such complete abandon.

That just has to be good for a woman in some way or another.

Squirt on!

[BiloxiCouple]

If it feels good... do it!

[TravlParty]

Two things that we've learned to help:

Liberator.com : Liberator Shapes Bedroom Adventure Gear

Liberator.com : Liberator Shapes Bedroom Adventure Gear

Position and the support really help get to that perfect spot.

Warning: sexually explicit video

[Cpl2share]

Embarassing moment happening:
Mrs. Cpl did it once. She was 8 1/2 months along and I was giving her oral. We were at her folks house. Being young, first pregnancy and not knowing it existed: First we thought her water broke. In the car and drive 25 miles to the hospital. An hour later, the doc (we did not tell him what we were doing, her mom was with of course) informed us that she had just wet the bed. About 2 years later I realized what had happened. I have eaten her until she is nothing but a quivering lump of sweat and juice and never caused it again. My goal is to give her an orgasm, as long as that happens I don't need a facefull. BTW: She has no great desire for it to reoccur.

[fun4t&c]

Originally Posted by TravlParty

Two things that we've learned to help:

Liberator.com : Liberator Shapes Bedroom Adventure Gear

Liberator.com : Liberator Shapes Bedroom Adventure Gear

Position and the support really help get to that perfect spot.

Warning: sexually explicit video

Thanks Travel!!

You always give good scoop. She checked out the site and thought it was "wild and sexy." Good hookup. Mucho appreciated.

[femnewb4u2]

I can only say for my body, I am capable of squirting. Often several times in one session of sexual play. I can not make it happen. But I can keep it from happening if I pay attention and focus my energy and the attention elsewhere at the beginning of the sensation. And here is the tricky part for me. It is not an indication of an orgasm. It can happen just as a physical act (the fluid letting go) without any release of orgasm. The reaction from partners runs the complete spectrum. As a side note, under the right set of circumstances I will find myself squirting during masterbation. The amount released will be less then with a partner. I attribute that to no internal direct stimulation when I am alone.

[Speed & Trixie]

WOW I'm so jealous of the squirters!

I think I've come close, many years ago. But I had that "gonna pee the bed" feeling so bad that I actually would get up and try to go pee in the middle of sex! I had never heard of squirting until recently, so now I'm left wondering....

I'm surprised it doesn't seem to add much to the woman's experinece, but I'm sure Speed would appreciate something like that LOL he's still impressed I have multiple, prolonged orgasims

[LilyPuss]

Mr. LP is indeed a fan of squirters...do I? No ~ at least not yet. I know I get incredibly wet...dripping, but I don't squirt. The videos I have seen of women who do that looks like, to me, they are peeing. Perhaps I have not let go completely? I hope to one day make Mr. LP happy in this regard...

Any suggestions from the ladies out there?

[Nitati]

No clue about percentages. But, I learned that I could do it while masturbating alone 2 or 3 years ago. I'm more of a "trickler" than a "gusher". I'd given myself multiple orgasms (I'm greedy lol) and kept pushing myself to get just one more. Boy did I ever. For me personally, it is very intense. It leaves me exhausted, drained, and really thirsty for whatever reason lol. It is unlike either clitoral or g-spot orgasms for me... and seriously only occurs after I've already had multiples of both clitoral and g-spot o's. In fact, if I go for a while (a month or two) without at least one good session of squirting, I can honestly feel the buildup. Anyway...

As a result, I always try to go pee before sex "just in case". I'm paranoid that one of these days that "gotta pee" feeling might actually come out as pee if I don't go potty first! The ejaculate and urine are *definitely* two totally different substances. It is not an all the time thing, but when it does happen, it's pretty amazing

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by PB&J

I really think that a lot of vanilla women think that they are peeing

As a swinging doctor, I think they are peeing too.

Its a practice I am rather annoyed with being propagated as some great thing to do sexually. I do not want to be with a squirter as I am not into watersports of any kind.

I recall once reading an article on how to learn to squirt that was posted here a few years ago. The woman recommended you practice first, in a bath, and learn to pee as you orgasm to teach yourself how to do it.

Here is the rub. The only place to store this fluid is the bladder. It can't be produced by the glands that fast. You will note that males, who are by nature 'squirters' have a very complex storage system to do so, and it takes time to refill it. Females have no such system, you can trust me on this, I'm a doctor who has done full dissections of human bodies.

So its being stored in the bladder, I've even seen some 'pro' squirting articles claim the same thing. Ok fine, but if its not going to be urine, then its going to have to be something thats very quickly produced, VERY quickly, in copious amounts which is then, using the contractions from orgasm 'pee' it out. Such glands would be something beyond anything we know of in the human body to make, instantly, that much fluid, and then transport it to a essentially water tight bladder, somehow.

But for me the final rub is 'why'.

Its obvious squirting is not needed to enjoy sex or have children. Most women don't squirt, yet the species carries on. Even the female orgasm is believed to aid in the sperm transport in the womans body, and it also encourages having sex which has obvious species wide benefits.

Squirting, while it may increase the pleasure from orgasm a bit, would require a massive evolutionary change in the female body to create it, and has no obvious benefit to reproduction. It just doesn't make sense.

A final personal anecdote is that Mrs. Chicup became a squirter while pregnant. She described the orgasms as some of her best, but both of us didn't play the game and pretend it wasn't pee. Babies put a lot of pressure on the female bladder, incontinence is not uncommon among pregnant women as it is, and the extra pressure + orgasm contracted the bladder, which added to the feeling of the orgasm. She never felt the need to pee prior but thats not surprising, you don't feel that until a certain point of filled is reached. She also never felt like she was peeing, just a very intense orgasm, which is not surprising either.

I've posted this sort of thing before, and wanted to just ignore this thread, but then again I really don't want to see women encouraged to learn how to pee on me. At the very least its damn messy, and I don't need such a visual cue to know I'm pleasing the woman.

[2inSanDiego4u]

Found this on Wikipedia:

"In the United Kingdom, the British Board of Film Classification has banned films alleged to show female ejaculation, claiming that the expert medical advice they received informed them that there is no such thing as female ejaculation, and therefore it was deemed to show urine. They later stated instead that they do not take any view on whether female ejaculation exists, only claiming that all examples they have seen thus far during classification have been urination during sex."

Full write-up: Female ejaculation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[Speed & Trixie]

I think I will have to read those articles that have been posted... I would LOVE to make Trixie squirt for the first time ever!!
-Speed

[Chicup]

Sometimes I feel like I'm pissing into the wind.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Sometimes I feel like I'm pissing into the wind.

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