Are there positions you just can't do?

[LFM2]

The 69 thread made me think of this.

I absolutely can't do a 69. I have the hardest time concentrating on what I'm doing if someone else is working on me. My brain just can't process the two sensations I'm feeling. I can go down on someone but I can't have someone going down on me at the same time -- unless they want me to stop what I'm doing.

Does anyone else have a brain that can't process this way?

Holly

[twoforone100]

love the idea of 69 but, in practice it is tooo hard (no pun) to do.

[TravlParty]

As of this year, I can't have my head upside down (female), like when my head is hanging off a bed or upside down in a sex swing. Inner ear thing makes me very dizzy.

[NotSorry]

I thought I was alone in the 'not being able to concentrate during 69' camp.

It's not that I can't or won't do it. I just don't find it quite as pleasurable simultaneously. I like to be able to focus whether I am getting or giving. That makes it more fun for me.

Mrs. NotSorry

[screaminggood]

My husband is too tall for us to do doggiestyle....his legs are just too tall! Of course there are other behind my back things that work just fine!

[JustAskJulie]

I'm with you on the 69 as well. It's not that I can't do it, but I'd definately prefer to take turns. There is NO way for me to get off in a 69 and still give you the attention you deserve for getting me off. When it starts feeling good, I will stop giving.

I can't think of any positions I really can't do, although I am finding that many are much more difficult (or easy) lately. It's funny how my favorite positions seem to change over the years and of course with different partners.

[fun4Ds]

I can do a 69 with ease. Two separate brains, working independently... Not a problem

The wheelbarrow is impossible, as we found out trying it....

It was like, uhhhhh what the hell are we doing, this doesn't even remotely resemble sex.

Don't know who cam up with that position, I think they just threw it in as a possibility It's not too fun

[cplnuswing]

I like 69 for when things are just playfully warming up, but when it gets serious, just too much to have to concentrate on to keep everything comfortable for both. At that point, we prefer to start taking turns focusing on the other.

That's not really changed over the years - do it occasionally, but just not a favorite thing for either of us.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by LFM2

I absolutely can't do a 69. I have the hardest time concentrating on what I'm doing if someone else is working on me.

That's actually not a bad thing. When I'm involved in a 69 and she loses focus on her end, I figure that I just might be doing something right.

I'll agree on the wheelbarrow, and there's plenty of positions in the position books that we couldn't manage in a million years.

[funcpl4life]

I'm often too tall for 69, but doggie-style works well so far.
Mr. FC4L

[jdavisauto]

My lady half was in a car accident so time back and broke her neck and back. Over 40% of her back and neck is now metal rods and pins. She is not able to work the dancer pole, lay on her back with her ass over her head (I love that one), she is not even able to bend over a table or chair any more. In fact now we have to be very careful on what we are doing so she don’t injure her back again.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by TravlParty

As of this year, I can't have my head upside down (female), like when my head is hanging off a bed or upside down in a sex swing. Inner ear thing makes me very dizzy.

I never even thought about that one. It makes my sinuses burn. Luckily, I've not been in that position often.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by NotSorry

I thought I was alone in the 'not being able to concentrate during 69' camp.

It's not that I can't or won't do it. I just don't find it quite as pleasurable simultaneously. I like to be able to focus whether I am getting or giving. That makes it more fun for me.

Mrs. NotSorry

Oh Girl, I so understand what you're saying! I wish my brain would accommodate those feelings, but, it just won't.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by jdavisauto

My lady half was in a car accident so time back and broke her neck and back. Over 40% of her back and neck is now metal rods and pins. She is not able to work the dancer pole, lay on her back with her ass over her head (I love that one), she is not even able to bend over a table or chair any more. In fact now we have to be very careful on what we are doing so she don’t injure her back again.

So, you're having to be very inventive. You might be on to some new positions that we don't know about?

[NCfuncouple98]

Mr NC here, this is an outstanding postion! I love when she is into it and she stops and just twists her head and tightens up and enjoys what is going on. Nothing is better then to know that I am doing something that is giving her the plesure she deserves. As far as I am concerned, that is what it is all about for me. Yes I do enjoy the return but it is good when I know I am doing that to her.