Why anal?

[bicuriocpl]

Why anal? Because Mrs. Bi likes it and so do I.

[Michelleen]

In my opinion, ass sex can be rather exciting and fulfilling for both. However, for me, I do like it better when its planneed and anticipated. Then i can use a gentle lube in my butt before he arrives. That helps soften me up back there. Also, I can probe gently with a finger to help guide some lube inside. After, if time permits, I do try to use a small ass plug to begin to open myself for him. I can leave it inserted until he arrives. This does help easy the process and helps me enjoy it more.

I do think the most important thing about good ass sex is for the couple to discuss it and plan for it. I meant overall discussions.

The man must understand her sensitivity back in there. Talking about it before hand adds to the excitement. Also, a man who slowly enters gently with his finger first helps open her up. A nice tongue before hand helps too. Finally, when its time, a man who penetrates slowly with his cockhead....letting her open as he goes..makes it much better.

Slow and steady - wins the ass sex race every time. Ask any other woman.

I think that helps make it pleasurable for both.

I do understand that occassionally, some men feel the need to "plow" into our behinds. But, in the long run, if he is more gentle and understanding then he may find more willing anal opportunities.

Just my opinion

Michelle

[sweet_tna]

For me, like with all things sex related . . . it's a mood thing.

=)

[herpob]

There are a lot of other posts on this subject and I do not want to repeat everything said before so please if someone knows how to find and link them to this post it would be greatly appreciated.

In a nut shell – why anal?

Because just like vaginal when done correctly – Anal is Mind Blowing!!!

Physically: There are so many many nerve endings in the region which add to the sensations, another act to add to the many already available, adds VERY interesting Variety.

Mentally - for some it is: Kinky, Forbidden, Taboo, Dominating, different, etc.

Anal should not be painful or uncomfortable when done correctly on either a male or a female. If it hurts then either something is wrong and you need to see a physician or you did not properly prepare. If you search several people have left tips on helpful ways to do this. Practice, finds what works the best for you. It is well worth the time and effort.

I have multiple orgasms from vaginal intercourse and yet I still Looooove Anal, it is in itself can be multi-orgasmic but the orgasms are not the same for me or for my husband. They are in a different region of area of the body. When we combine the two sexual regions (please both the front and the back at the same time) – the immense pleasure goes completely off the Charts!

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by femnewb4u2

Chicup I can see your point about dominating through anal sex. Yes, there are times it can be that way. But what about the moments when it is loving, or tender, or a pure intimate connection having nothing to do with domination. After all, in the case of a heterosexual couple, the woman can be atop a man for anal penetration thereby for some, possilby taking away most, if not all, of the male domination aspect as you describe it. Just a thought.

Funny, on the rare occasions that I enjoy anal this is the only way I will do it. This puts me in control of the depth and thrust.

[WesternSwing]

Why anal? Why not? It's just another dimension to sex.

[Speed & Trixie]

A friend told us a bit about his anal sex knowledge the other day and he mentioned "Always use a condom". When Trixie told me that he said that, the first thought in my mind was to use a condom if I am having anal sex with someone else besides Trixie. But then she mentioned the whole "there is poop in there" aspect of things which brings to mind this question...
Many of you are having or have had anal sex. Do you use condoms? Do you fear getting some disease from anal sex with your partner? I have a piercing in my cock (Frentum, a bar right beneath the head) and we are concerned about getting feces in there. As well as all of the other aspects of going in the out door if you will.

Do we need to be worried about this? I saw that one person said as long as they have had a bowell movement that day, they are fine and there is no "mess".

As we are very new to this, we could use all the info we can get!

- Speed

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by Speed & Trixie

Do we need to be worried about this? I saw that one person said as long as they have had a bowell movement that day, they are fine and there is no "mess".

I recall, Speed, hearing Sue Johanson, the TV sex therapist, say that a condom is to protect the person who is on the "receiving" end. A colon is not used to being stretched like the inside of a vagina and is, consequently, much more likely to suffer a tear on its inside wall possibly opening a path for infection.

~Michael

[PB&J]

Anal sex is one of the easiest ways for a man to get a bacterial infection "down there". Such as epididymitis. How do I know? Because my husband got one. Now, it's always a condom, even with me.

[Sico_tiko]

Personally Vaginal is the best but no problem with trying something different, thats why i could ask for anal but still vaginal has the highest sensations

[screaminggood]

We don't use condoms for anal within our marriage. We've never had any problems with it being "messy," although he always takes a shower immediately afterward to get rid of any bacteria on him.

I haven't yet had anal with another man but when I do, it will definitely be with condoms only for the disease concern. All that being said, neither of us have any piercings!